My name is Chelsea, I'm 17 & a senior in high school. I like giving advice and helping people in general. I have the most experience in areas like family issues, dealing with friends and losing friends, pregnancy scares, and moving. I've made mistakes and learned from them. That's where my experience comes from. So why not help someone in the same situation that you've already been in? I'll try to do just that, and if you have a question don't hesitate to ask!
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my friend always lies to me and im so sick of it! what should i do? (link)
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Tell her you know shes lying to you and that you're really getting tired of it. If she doesn't stop then maybe shes not that good of a friend anyway.
--good luck
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i've been friends with this girl since 6th grade. she used to live across the road from me, but then she moved away. Not far, only about 30 minutes. We used to talk on AIM but then we ran out of things to talk about. I mean, we don't have the same group of friends and we don't know who each of us is talking about. Now, I don't talk to her at all and I feel horrible. What am I supposed to do?? I want to be friends with her again but it's like we're complete strangers. (link)
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Start talking to her again on AIM. Maybe satch up with eachother and get to know eachother again. It'd be like starting all over again, but if you want to be friends with her again it will be worth it.
Hope I helped you!! -- good luck
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okay my friend is like my bffffeaeaeaeaeea but like she is kinda slutty like she has soo many peircings and like she flirts with all my x bf! and im scared that the next boy i care about she will try to make a move on him. wut should i do? i mean she is my best friend for ever and i love her to death! but she tells me that she would never hook up with one of my xes or wit someone i like alot so please help me out her asap (link)
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tell her that you dont appriciate her flirting with all your x's! explain how you love her to death..but you want her to stop before you both get hurt. my friend is like that too, i know how it is.
hope i helped.
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I've messed up a lot...and I'm only 15. I'm not going to go into detail about all the mistakes I've made, I just need a way to deal with them. It's like their haunting my mind. I don't know how to deal with it, and I'm always putting myself down about them too. I'm only 15 what do I do? I know its in the past and I can't do anything about it.... (link)
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dont think about them. just try to have fun and dont worry about stuff.
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How do i tell my parents i have an eating disorder? i promised my best friend i would do something about it after her reading my journal and finding out. im miserable and depressed and cant stop. how do i tell them?
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just build up the courage to tell them. they need to know or you might get hurt. so tell them asap and your parents will get you help.
good luck!
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I LOVE SOCKS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im so addicted to sock sometimes i wear 4 pairs at a time . also i like the smell of them especially right after my mom washes them they smell so fresh. i even put a pair under my pillow i always bring an extra pair of socks when i leave the house even just to got 2 the grocery store i put them in my purse every one thinks this habb it is weird but i cant help it
SOCK LUVER (link)
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thats the strangest thing. socks? why not something like... fruit. But have fun being obsessed with socks if thats what makes you happy.
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I don't wanna clean my room! should I? (link)
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if its messy then yes, clean it. i cleaned mine yesterday =)
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this kidd wants me to have sex with him what do i do i mean i like him but i keep thinking about the ocnsequences... (link)
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well its good that youre thinking about it!! dont do it if you arent ready to. sex is a big thing, espically the consequences.. but you already knew that. if you like him enough and trust him, and you think youre ready for it. then do it, wear a condom though. =)
hope i helped
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My best friends ex likes me. He has asked me to have phone sex with him and he has told me and loves me and wishes I was his girl. I have told him a thousand times that we can only stay friends since he is my best friends ex and i do not like him at all. He is a perverted just like every other guy but much worse. All he talks about is girld having sex with him. He even has sadi that he'd rape me! I was really scared and he was serious. I don't know what to do and I can't tell my friend. I've told her we've talked and she was happy but I didn't tell her what he said. I need advice ASAP!! HELP PLEASE!!!
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Fed Up (link)
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Tell him to leave you alone because no one wants a stalker!! And its really not good if he said he was going to rape you, so just tell him that there is no way you are going out with him or doing anything with him. And make sure to stay safe about the rape thing!!
Hope I helped, good luck with that
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Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU (link)
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Well, like others have answered...you cant make someone into a bi or a lesbian. Find other bi or lesbian people out there and become friends with them. Unless you just want to keep fingering yourself...?
Hope i helped you
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Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!! (link)
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pop it!! then put some medication on it, to make sure none come back. thats what i always do.
hope i helped, and good luck with that pimple
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i really like this guy. but he lives in another state. i dont get to see him very often, but i can talk to him online or on the phone. should i ask him out? (link)
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sure why not. you guys still see eachother right? so whats the harm, if you like him GO FOR IT BABE!!
Hope i helped -- good luck
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okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!! (link)
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Tell her what happened! Thats the only thing to do. If you dont want her to think you cyber online all the time then tell her that you said no but he started it anyway.
good luck
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My mom always has me wearing what she thinks is cute. I told her I want to change to like a punk style but she wont let me. I want to be comfortable in what I wear but I cant get her to except my style!!! How should I explain this to her again??? (link)
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Tell her that you have the right to pick out what youre wearing, because you ARE the one wearing it. Say it nicely though so you dont start an arguement over it.
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iight well i lOve bOyz but wen i say i love them my friends tell them or i do over the computer but i cant talk to them face to face cuz i think they will b like eww u like me or somethin gay ?is that nOrmal
help me please .. (link)
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Yes thats normal. Youre just nervous and everyone gets nervous. You just gota look at the bright side, what would happen if they said "oh I like you too".. I have the same exact problem so I know how you feel. And its really nerve racking to do it in person, but life is all about taking chances. And if they dont like you back then just try again, there are plenty people out there for you to choose from. =)
I really hope I helped!!!
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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me. (link)
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My friend has the exact same problem. Just remember that everyone is themselves. And it doesnt matter if youre skinny or not, or how many guys you get. You shouldnt compare yourself to other people because you are who you are. so remember that next time =)
Hope I helped you!
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Ok well i am good at giveing other ppl advice, i take my time n think bout it, but when it comes 2 me getting advice no1 seems ta care or take the time, so mayb sum will here...N i already kinda asked a ? like this b4 but never really got tha answer i wanted so ima try 2 put it in a different way...
Im 13/girl n im realllyyy confused. I liked this lets call him * ahah ok well * n me were really good friends n then we both started to have 'more than friends' feelings bout eachother, but we never went out cuz i messd things up. So newayz we like barley ever even talk nemore. N im really trying to move on, im pretty much over him, cuz i dun see him 2 much cuz its summer n hes goin to the high school n ill be in 8th. Ok well like i moved on.. its just i cant find ne1. N i kno tha whole 'o ull find sum1' wateva stuff but that doesnt help me? i think ppl think im still stuck over * which im not n i jus wanna move on. How shud i do this? Sry its a lil confuseing but its jus hard 2 explain. (link)
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I know how you feel. Its hard to get over some one put it looks like you are doing a pretty good job with it!! Try looking for a guy you like in some activities that you do. Like for instance, if you play a sport. Start talking to a guy that plays that sport with you, so then you know you have at least one thing in common that you can talk about. Hope I helped
Let me know how it goes!
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my sis moved out sometime after christmas. well she didnt exactly move out. shes was 17 at the time and she kinda ran away. but she stayed at her friends house during the last half of her senior year of high skool. now she is in college cuz shes taking summer courses. i miss her so much and only talk to her like every other day on the internet. what do i do? i miss her soo much and i dont know wut to do. i havent seen her alot this year. and it was her senior year which is important to some ppl. that and i feel like i wont see her anymore. wut can i do? (link)
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When you do talk to your sister tell her how much you miss her and that you want to hang out with her more often. She's your sister so she will most likely understand. Maybe you guys can talk on the phone sometimes too and catch up with each other.
goodluck, it will all work out
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I really like this guy but he doesnt like me im sad because I really like him! I dont know why he doesnt like me he wont tell me My question is how could I get him to like me? (link)
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all you can do is just be yourself. dont try to act different around him because then if he does end up liking you its not the real you. So just have fun and be yourself around him and thats all you can do.
Good luck!
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ok im 14 yrs old n i really like this guy who is my cuzins best friends i'll call him ummm... dany! ok well dany told me a couple of weeks ago dat he really liked me since when we first me!! ok then we started talking n for like 2weeks we were seeing each other but secretly bcuz im afraid my cuzin will get mad! ok well da other day my cuzin told me thatd dany has had a girlfriend for like the past 2 months!!!!!!!!!!!! omfg i was so pissed bcuz i goy like hooked on him. n now dany told me that his girlfriend is pregnant! he keeps telling me he doesnt like her at all bcuz she's done too many bad things to him n dany tell me that the only reason dat hes with her for right now is bcuz he wasnt to take care of the baby. he says dat he doesnt wanna leave her out on da strrets when her parents find out shes pregnant n he says that he likes me soo much n too plz understand dat its only bcuz of da baby n dat like after she has the baby he want to take the baby away from her bcuz shes like an alcoholic n uses drugs n shes neva hom but anyways hes telling me to plz wait n that after all this is over me n him will be officially be going out... but idk i really really like him like he got me hooked n its really hard like today n when he told me his gf is having a baby a started crying n he told me to not worry n stuff but its like ok ur going to be with her like it or not bcuz shes the mom.right?! im very confused idk if i should like forget nout him or wait or idk HELP PLZ *ill rate u guys*!!!! (link)
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Really, its all your decision. But its kind of him to want to help with the baby, you need to realize that it is his responsibility too. And if he is going to wait around for the time to be right to be with you, then you should respect that if you like him as much as you say you do. And from what I can tell, it will be worth it. This guy seems like a really nice and caring person, so I'd say you're pretty lucky.
hope I helped you, and good luck.
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