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When is it ok to have sex? I mean i know there is the whole "when youre ready" thing but what age do you think it is ok? i don't want an answer like "when youre ready" i actaully want an age please!!!!!

i say 18 i think by that age some teenagers are aware of the conseqences of having sex. If your younger then that you probly just have sex just because your bestfriend has sex with her boyfriend and told you it was fun.

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If you had to go back in time and change one thing, if you HAD to, even if you have "no regrets" what would you change?

i would of rather not met the guy i gave my virginity to. Because, he lied to me and after we had sex he told me i was nothing but a piece of ass. I made the biggest mistake of my life with him and i would take it back if i had the chance to.

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there is a pill called my alli.....is it good for weight loss?? i do not know how to lose wiehgt...i eat very well, i exercise more than the average person does and i still cannot budge the pounds...and i am also always hungry im not really sure what to do....and to make it worse my swim coach will not leave me alone about being unfit....i am 5'2 and weight 140...i would like to weight atleast 130...i think this would be a healthy weight and maybey he would leave me alone...i do not want to lose alot just a healthy amount that i can maintain...and i have been struggleing with this since i was in grade 10 ( ive never been fat..but i could weight less and every coach i have had have said this...and this is not only there opinion i would like to be a healthy weight too) i just cannoy handle this constant struggle i am going throught to lose it...it is the only thing i think about!! HELP ME PLEASE!!

alli used to be a perscription diet pill but they made it over the counter and its the only diet pill that is FDA approved. Chances are it works. -- you have to eat a reduced calorie, low fat meal (less then 15 grams of fat )
- smaller portions
- you have to be physically active
* if you do not think you can eat a meal that is 15 grams of fat or less then you should not try this because there are side effects.

If you can get to a drug store (cvs) I know they have a book that has meal plans and also a book explaining the diet.

Sorry not to much help.
kim

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i'm a teenage girl.
So there's someone who I want to hook up with, and he can drive, i can't yet... I just don't know where is a good location to do it.

We might not go all the way, but definately at least to 3rd. (it depends on how it goes and how i feel then)

So please don't say anything like "oh don't do it".

I just need to know where. And it couldn't be in either of our houses b/c my parents would find out.

If you can't get to his or your house the next best thing is deff. the back seat of a car. Its cramming but it works.

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I want a tattoo so bad. I know I can get one done, and it'll look good. My parents will NOT let me get a tattoo at all, they are sooo strict. I would get it around my hip area somewhere where i could hide it. Would it be possible to hide it for 2 years. Or should I just wait?

you can't get a tattoo till your 18 - legally. Your parents mkae the rules and you will have to live with that or move out of their house. I have wanted a tattoo for a couple years and my parents have always said nooo. once i turned 18 i told my parents i was getting a tattoo and said go ahead.

Just wait something you like at the age 16 you probly wont like at the age 18. Tattoos are permanent you can't go wipe it off if you don't like it anymore.

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ok there are these shoes called crocs I think. they are those plastic type shoes that are like 8 dollars at walmart. people have told me they are comfy but i dont see it ... they are hard plastic basically. Are they really comfy? will they help me if im on my feet say, 9 or so hours a day?

I got my fake crocs at target and i love them so i imagine that the realy crocs are alot more Comforabtable. I work 10 hour shifts and my feet feel awesome lol! I would get a pair if i were you.

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I'm calling my boyfriend and I think he might be mad at me. His phone rings once then goes to the voicemail everytime I call..is he ignoring it, or is it just turned off?

Usually when a phone is off it doesnt ring at all it just goes right to your voicemail. With it ringing once it probly means he is ignoring your calls.

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Can anyone PLEASE tell me where i can check the balance of my gift cards for the following cards...
- Commerce Bank Visa
- American Express Gift Card
- Vanilla Visa Gift Card
- Abercrombie and Fitch
- Victoria's Secret
I really appreciate any help you can give me, but please to tell me to google it, or to check the website...

Thanks SO much!!

Theres a number on the back of all of those cards. Just call the number then itll ask you for the card number and that is located on the back of the card also i believe. Then that will tell you how much you have left on the card.

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okay so i need the facts: someone told me its good to wear a bra to sleep when your devloping because it helpss to shape them and when your already developed it prevents sagging. but then someone else told me it deforms your breast if you wear a bra to bed? which is true? do you guys wear bras to bed?


thanks in advvv

i have always wore a bra to bed and my boobs seem to grow just fine.

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OMG.
OK, so i have my medieval project due tomorrow and i only have a few more things to do.

well, i am the queen and i have to have juornal entires and now i need a visual.

can someone please link me to places that have:

~ queen's daily life

~ information about medival castles
(french would be the best, but i`ll take any)

PLEASE PEOPLE.
i don`t have much time and my little brother went on my computer and deleted al my bookmarks!
and please don`t say search on google or whatever because i`ve already done that 3985 times!

THANKS AnD i`m a rater.


HELP!!

One this isnt a question asking for advice your asking us to do your homework.
1. im not your teacher but im damn sure your teacher didnt give you this project yesterday.
2. if you actually search the right words you will get information from google - its one of the best search engines out there.
3. No need to rate people 1's because we wont do your homework for you.

If its your computer what was your little brother doing on your computer?

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does taking lime after sex stop pregnancy?

yea um no try again. Yea its one of those myths that stupid people believe because they just got done being stupid and having sex without a condom or being on birth control.

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how far away is jacksonville from florida

Umm what kinda of question is this? Jacksonville is in florida.

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hey :] okay, im 14, 5'4, and i weight 110 pounds. Im not fat at all. A lot of guys tell me that im perfect and that i have a nice butt and nice boobs. But i still wanna lose weight. I wanna lose like 7 pounds. Does anyone know any good moves for your inner thighs,thighs, abs and obliques? I dont eat a lot and i have gym this semester in school so i'll be working out and running everyday, i do pilates for 2-5 hours a day too(after school). Thanks ♥ Sabina xo

What makes you think you need to lose more weight? someone your height is supposed to weigh around 120 and that was said by my doctor. if you lose 7 pounds you will be underweight. Maybe you should talk to your doctor about what you should do to be healthy.

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on the show juvies this kid had to take a drug test and it came out positive, is that good?

its not good for him because a positive on a drug test means he has drugs in his system.

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How can you restrict your phone number on your cell phone when calling people? For instance, if someone hit star 69, your phone number wouldn't appear. Just like when someone calls your cell phone and it says Restricted Number. Anyone know how to do this?

you would put its *67 then the phone number.

*69 is to see who the last incoming call was from.

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okay, see i have an 18 year old boyfriend (im almost 15) and i know that he wants to have sex. i want to and all, but im still a virgin. and sex hurts right? and yes his penis is fairly large so it wouldnt fit in that good and then it would really hurt and we would have to stop. and plus im so nervous but i really want to do him. what should i do?

1. Condsidering your a virgin having sex is going to hurt.
2. Itll fit in you its just going to be painful
3. If your nervous about having sex with this guy then chances are your not ready to have sex with this guy.

If you have any questions just ask
kim:)

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so yeah i went 2 myspace and a got a new friends request thingy
i opened it and then it said that there r no friends request in my folder. WTF????? i don't get it. and i also had a new comment and an invitation 2 something. after i looked for the friends request and went back 2 "home" all of it was gone! and i looked at my profile 2 see the comment but there was no new comment there.
so please help me i am really confused. AND I WANNA C THE COMMENT!!!

They are fixing up myspace. If you get on myspace often tom had posted something about this so dont sweat it. Its happening to everyones myspace page.


kim:)

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Well first off- I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend Logan*(both turning 14 soon). Well me & Logan will be going out for two months next friday and that weekend I'm going to the beach with him and his family. He really wants to have sex & I do too- but..I'm kind've scared because what if the condom breaks? I really don't want to be pregnant. & I'm not sure if it will hurt or not. Like will I be sore the next day? But I do want to do it & plus if I say no he'll probably get upset. Ahh. Help me please

i can tell you right now that you are not ready to have sex with this guy. First you sound more worried about having sex with this guy then anybody i know. Your scared the condom is going to break, your scared you may get pregnant, your scared itll hurt, And scared you will be sore.

You said that if you tell your boyfriend that you wont have sex with him he will probly be upset with you. Do you really want to have sex with him or are you just saying you do so that he wont be upset with you?

Your only 13 going on 14. think about it please.

kim:)

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do you think that giving a hj as a freshman is slutty? because some of my friends have.. not my close ones but i know that a lot have. and i have a boyfriend that i really love and like i want to but like a lot of my close friends would consider that to be slutty. like i really dont think its that big of a deal.

Its not slutty. And honestly alot of people around you have done that to guys. Probly even some of your friends that claim they havent. If you care about your boyfriend and you guys feel that you want to start doing stuff like that then you can. Your friends dont have to know what you and your boyfriend do behind closed doors.

kim:)

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well i didnt know what category to put this question under, so i just chose the one i thought most people would look at. anyway, on ebay it asks for my credit card number....and i didnt know what number they wanted. so how long is the credit card number that they want?

Its the long number going across the front of the card. And if it was your card you would obviously know that so i suggest that you dont put the credit card number on ebay if you dont know what you are doing.

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