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first sex.
okay, see i have an 18 year old boyfriend (im almost 15) and i know that he wants to have sex. i want to and all, but im still a virgin. and sex hurts right? and yes his penis is fairly large so it wouldnt fit in that good and then it would really hurt and we would have to stop. and plus im so nervous but i really want to do him. what should i do?
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yea its probabally going to hurt. seriously though, he is way older than you and probabally more experienced. if i were you i would hold off until you found someone you are really comfortable with. if you are nervous you most likely arent ready for that type of thing. plus not to mention since he is 18 and you are 'almost 15' it is illegal and probablly considered rape. hope i helped. - savannah
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1. Condsidering your a virgin having sex is going to hurt.
2. Itll fit in you its just going to be painful
3. If your nervous about having sex with this guy then chances are your not ready to have sex with this guy.
If you have any questions just ask
kim:)
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Ok, I went through sort of the same thing. Im 18 now but when i was 16 my b/f was 18 and he wanted to have sex. so we did. only problem was that i was a virgin and it didnt fit and it hurt me to much. The thing you have to understand is. if your a small girl and he has a large penis its probably not gonna go in to smoothly. and its better if you get on top. and the pain really isnt that bad. your cherry (hymen) will usually break and you will bleed. nothing to worry about tho. although you should inform your b/f incase he doesnt kno this. and make sure to use condoms. even if he doesnt want to because even tho you may b on birth control you have to worry bout sti's and possible failing of birth control method. you dont want a baby at 15.. so anyhow good luck. and make sure your ready .. and you love him and he loves you. and if hes pressuring you and you think he;ll leave you if you dont have sex . than dont.. **** him. you'll find better. and your first time should b special. it means a lot down the road.!
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i know this sounds stupid coming from a 13 year old.. but if your nervous.. i dont think your ready yet.
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i was 14 wen i lost my virginity nd my boyfriend was 18 2 haha . but yeah its gunna hurt , i mean its not gunna kill you youll get over it .. jus relax take it slow . nd make sure this is wut u wunna do dont do nuthing you dont wunt to . you only get to lose it once . uhm i dont no wut else to tell you .. if you smoke or drink you might want to get your party on a little b4 n mayb that will make it hurt less .. but after you do it a couple times itll be bomb haha .. well i hope i was sum help .. good luck !
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then if you love him and you beleive he loves you as well.. ANDDD you think you are ready then go for it!
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