my name is amber
i used to get on here alot
bt the thing is changed and differant now, so yeah
but i'll answer any question and give you my best way of ahdling it or like yeah you know?
ha well, i've gone through alot, like more than most kids my age have, so i pretty much think i can relate to alot of stuff
so, like yeah, if you ever want to just talk, i'm here and listening
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When you make out with some one, is it normal to get cankersores like on the inside of your lip?
And also if you have them is it ok to make out with someone? Has any one done it?
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yeah i've gotten one before from makin out with this guy! but i dont think he has ever had one so that was kinda weird!lol but yeah you can get them from makin out with someone! you can still make out if you have one! i dont know how the other person would feel if they knew though.. try puttin salt on it to make it go away faster! it will hurt but it goes away so much faster!
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im a blond guy and i once learned that girls dont like blonds what should i do with my hair? my hair is short and i am male i rate high (link)
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psh dont change your hair color! who said girl dont like BLONDIE boys! i no i do! haha well yeah dont change yoursef just so peopel will like you! because if they really liked you they wouldnt want to change you!
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ok for my 8th grade graduation i need a dress...i want one thats not too dressy yet not too casual and isnt longer than my graduation gown so a little past knee length...can anyone give me suggestions of where to ifnd some for preferably under $100? some links would be helpful...tyvm (link)
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go to google
and go to like jc pennys
or dillards they have really nice dresses for a resonalble price
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ok so as most of you know i was rapped by my bfs friend and i told my bf after some hesitation...and he totally understood..he understood by breaking the guy (we'll call him "j") Js arm. and Js dad is a lawyer so you could tell his dad was pissed! and my bf might have to go to juvey 4 six months!!UGH and thats not even the worst part J keeps calling me and horrasing me..i cant tell my parents cuz they have enough on their platee already.. (divorce, cancer,new baby coming..) and so i cant tell them...and i am feeling really lousy..and im scared to go get a pregnancy test..what should i do!!!!????
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as you said there going though alot of stuff!
but still 'd tell them! im not trying to scare you! but what if this " j" kid does somehting worst to you! then with out tellin your parents they lose there child! which is more stress on them! wounldt you rather feel safe. you should get a pregnancy test just incase and tell your parents what " j " did to you beacuse that was so wrong and you dont deserve that! and your boyfriend breakin "j's" arm PROPS to your bf! i dont know you but i owuld of done the same thing to j because no one deserves going through that! so tell your parents it will help j should be the one who goes to jail not your boyfriend even though he did something wrong! but yeah i hope i helped you in someway
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Does anybody know any games to play on a trampoline me and my friends get so bored on the trampoline so if you have a game name it and tell me how to play thanks
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you could like practise learnin how to do front flips! thats what i all ways did! lol i eventually learned how to flip then land in like two jumps! haha yeah
or you could play PAINT!
..someone sits on one end and the rest play sit on the other end and they all pick a color.NORMAL COLORS not them hard ones that no one will ever get! lol then the person on the other end trys to guess and if he says blue and blues your color you get up and run on the trampoline like 3 times if he catches you your it!
COPYCAT! someone does a trick and the next people tyr to copy it and if they do it wrong they get a letter like the game HORSE
BUTT BOUNCE! everyone gets part of the trampoline
you jump three times and count togather and you have to jump on your butt and come back up without puttin your hand on the trampoline!
DEAD MAN! someone lies down with there eyes closed! and the rest chant DEADMAN DEADMAN DONT WAKE UP DONT WAKE UP TILL YOU HERE::hear whatever:: then with there eyes close they gotta try and capture someone!
ha yeah thats all i can think of! hoped i helped some
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so a little while ago was rapped..and i missed my period..im with the most amazing guy and if i tell him i know hes going to think im crazy (it was his best friend..who rapped me) and i dont know how to tell him..and i think im pregnat.my parents will kill me because they wont think i was rapped they'll think its an excuse BUT IM NOT LIEING!.but i cant be..im only 14..just turned 14 (the day i was rapped was my 14th bday..Jan 27th)
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wow! okay well im sure your parents will believe you!
you should tell them you where raped if your pregnat or not!
like im not saying CRY for them to believe you! but go up to them and tell them about " this dude " and what he did to you! and tell them you could possiably be pregnat!
i no it might sound hard! and yeah you parents will probably contact somebody! but thats for the best! you dont want that guy to go around and do that to more people! so you should really tell your parents!
your boyfriend wont think your crazy! he'll think his best firend is crazy for doing that to you! and if he does then maybe hes not right for you! but im pretty sure he wont think anything bad about you! so yeah well i hoped i helped you in some ways
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why would a boy aske me out if he knew that he wasn't allowed to date untill he's 17? (link)
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because he probably likes you! and yawl dont have to so called date! just be like boyfriend/girl friend kinda thing
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Iam a special ed student and iam going to be in the special olympics and when I found out that my volunteer was my worst enemy and when I asked mrs.Dawson if I could change volunteers she said no what should I do? (link)
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you should tell mrs sawson how you feel about your volunteer and stuff! she'll probably understand
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i REALLY don't get this. there are [a lot of] people out there who cut, and say it's addicting. but doesn't it HURT? why would you want to do something again that hurt you? i heard that "it takes away the hurt from the inside" but i still don't get why people do it. it kina bothers me.. 13/f in case it matters. (link)
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well it depends! some people do it because it makes them feel better! others do it because seeing the sight of there own blood makes them feel better
but i guess it always depends on who it is!
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Can you be forgiven for being gay? Is it really a sin? What if you just want to try it and see what happens are you going to be penalized for that? Can someone help me asap.. these questions are for a friend who really needs it (link)
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well i guess it depends on what you believe in!
the bible does say homesexual is wrong and its a sin! the lord will forgive if you ask! but in Gods eyes every sin is equally bad! like if you steal something in Gods eyes its the same as say the F word or killing someone! but the lord forgives! you ask he forgives! but being a homesexual and askin for forgivness of being that way and after asking still be gay//lesbian//bi.. is still sorta wrong!
i dont really about trying it i mean if you know its wrong then dont do it! thats just the satan trying to get you! so yeah i hope i helped in someways
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Hi! This is basically a follow-up question to 'valentines day carnation sale' {http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=414340}...
Well anyway, so this "nerd" named Trevor. I hate to sound stuck up/jerky but I really don't like him! And I told him I didn't like him, and my friend Christie (She and trevor are neighbors/good friends) kind of hinted it to him that I don't like him, and he asked me out again and at the time I was dating my ex Jimmy anyways, so it was easy to say that i wasnt interested.
Now it's starting to get annoying! He's changed lunch tables to practically stalk me. Like, seriously breathe down my sandwich, it's not just a cooincidence! Also, in math class, the students get to make our seating charts, right? Well, he made the seating chart with 2 other kids for this month, and guess where I sit? Right next to him! It's bugging the heck out of me. Even worse- he stares. At me. All the time. I never asked for a staring contest! All I want is one thing: PERSONAL SPACE.
Before I file a restraining order, what should I do?!?!?
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okay so something like that happend to me too last year!
he was like someone i would just not hang out with!:: as you said not tyrin to sound stuck up or w.e:: but he was annoyin! he wrote me a letter and was like i wanna kiss you and just hold your hand and blah blah blah! and he wrote i love you like ten times on the folded paper!
and at lunch he would try and sit right next to me! and ew like my friend cought him makin out with my year book picture! and i was just like oh em gee EW
but anyways! like not to be mean to him but tell him to please stop bothering you! you just have no intrest in him and that your sorry but stop following mean! try to say it nicley or something becaousei no how you feel! and i know being mean to the kid its kind of wrong but maybe he will get the point! the guy that did that to me! he still liked but eventually he got over me and now when i see him in like the hallways he pretends im all ugly and is like EW oh my gosh then he'll go and run around the corner! so yeah just be honest with him and tell him pleae just leave me alone and give me space or something
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how do i slow dowm my period for a few days? (link)
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well you cant really do that! it just comes when it wants and leaves when it wants! but i do think that if you excercise more its not as heavy! well at least mines not! so try excercing a little bit and it might not be as hevy or w.e
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At least how old do you think a girl should be to have a first kiss? I don't mean a peck on the cheek, and 8 year olds drooling all over each other's noses does NOT count (link)
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just when ever! yeah not at like eight but it at lest older than like 12! but dont waste it! first kisses are the ones that are with a guy..or girl! when it just happends and its not like planed!
that how mine was1 i totally regret that! i t will just come when its like right
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I'm writing my friend a letter about why she should not smoke weed. She wants to try it because her best friend at another school got high. What should my letter say?
NOTE: I want to avoid the following things...
1. Sounding like a parent
2. Sounding like a Hallmark card
3. iF YoU TyPE LyKe ThIs then don't answer my question or give me advice
4. I want to make her THINK sincerely
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well i used to do weed! i've been drug free for a month! and yeah im more proud of being drug free then being on drugs
but anyways! weed its nothing special when you write her a letter be honest tell her how you feel!
be honest.. write what you mainly wanna say down on something then re-write it! and fix what ever you think sounded weird!
i mean weed isnt good! and im not sayin she should but if she really wants to let her try it at least once! just so she understands! try and explain to her. that OKAY YEAH WEED MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD FOR A LITTLE WHILE! but how good is she gonna feel if one day she just so happendly gets cought with it! my friends got cought with it! and now they got like kicked outta are school!
but yeah be honest with her! and if its kinda hard to convince her to not! then make a deal with her!
tell er okay if you try it! promise me you'll wait another week till you do it again! that way she dont get attached to it! and will eventually just stop doing it! thats pretty much what i did!
but yeah i hooe i was some help to you! if the letter dont work! talk to her in person that way she will relize your serious
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My mother is having an affair, thing is. If she gets caught by my step-father, he will kick both her and me out. I have two years of school left, and I need to get good grades to get into further study because i dont have much $$. How do i convince her that she's gambling with my entire future? (link)
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i think you and your mom should sit down and seriously talk about it! becaouse that would be like really bad if you got kicked out and your grades slipped! so yeah try and talk to your mom about it! tell her how you feel and stuff
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Does any one know any good site to down load free music for an mp3 player? (link)
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yeah download limewire! its totoally free and has like EVERY SONG like ever made! lol
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13/f almost 14
I think i'm getting my period. >:|
Lately, I've had white stuff in my underwear and REALLY bad cramps [i got sent home from school for them today; along with the fact they made me puke.] Also; My boobs got bigger in the last month. What do you think? Do you think I'll get it soon? What should I do if I get it in school?
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yeah you just might get it soon!
i suggest you either wear pads just in case you start or bring them with you! or tamponds which ever you prefer
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Hi
I am 14 years old and me and my boyfriend have sex and we use protection but on night my boyfriend put his penis a little bit in my vagina, and took it out again,, it wasn't even in there for a minute. He took it out and i wiped my self off. I missed my period this month, and i am worried that i might be pregnant, I am going through a lot of stress this month and I am sick with the flu.. but i am still scared that i might be pregrant, what do you think.. (link)
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well if ur havin the flu and u missed your period i suggest you do go and buy a pregnacy test! just to make sure!.. some people when there first pregnant get flu like symptoms! so i would go and get one just to be sure because who knows maybe you just missed your period this month! hopefully
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k so this is kinda embarassing. im 13 & a female obviously. i've had my period since i was 11, and i've always used pads. mostly everyone that i talk ab that kinda thing w/ uses tampons .. even some of my friends that just got it in the last couple monthes. i really wanna start using them so i dont have to worry ab pads, especially since summer is coming up. any tips or anything? is it true that some people have a tough time putting in tampons? does it hurt? what does it feel like? ill give 5's! thanks so much (link)
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okay i was the same way with tampons. i was like there is no way IM EVER GONNA USE THEM! but as you said summer is comming up and not being able to go swimming or w.e beause of ur period sucks!
so it might be hard at first to put it in..it take patience because at first you wont be sure exactly where to put it! well obviously you know where it should go! but i suggest you get the plastic and not cardbored! if you get cardbored you'll feel as if it will never work! and get the small ones at first to!
read how you should apply it! most boxes of tampons come with instructions! sounds weird but if you read it. you'll understand more! and if your not on it now! i would wait till you get on it before you try beause it will be easyer to get the tampon it while your own it!
well i hope i was some help to you! and i get where your comming from about it being embarrising! it was for me to.
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i started culring my hair with a culring iron, and it looks really good. however, there is a problem:
it takes about an hour to curl my entire head (i have htick hair, and it just takes a while)but i want to be able to do it in the morning, because if i sleep on it it gets messed up. how can i either shorten the time it takes or prevent it from getting messed up by sleeping on it? an idea for a solution to either one would be great thanks. (and i want to coninue to use a curling iron, not curlers or anything). thanks! (link)
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well i agree if you like it curly then you huold get a perm that will curl it for you!.. you can go to a salon..which could be a bit pricy or you can go to a drugstore and pick up a box and do it ur-self.. but be sure to read it! because some come out more curly than others! and im sure you dont want it super curly.. i think what you would want is a suttle perm! i think that is what its called.. if you dont want to put any products in your hair then curl your hair at night! spray it light with hair spray and yes it probably will get messed up as you sleep but that way in the morning you can fix the ones that are messed up and not have to do the whole thing!
well i hope i helped you in some way!! and i have the same problem with my hair sept i scrunch it!..my picture show what it looks like..
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