-Hey world I've been on here awhile now i just wanna say being on here has been great! im not a specailist but im here for anyone that needs someone to talk to. :) feel free to ask me anything and don't feel ashamed, im not here to judge.we all have daily battles,but it doesn't mean we have to face them alone.with that being said I look forward to meeting you ;)
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I'm a high school sophomore and the year is almost over. My mom wanted to make me a bank account but I kinda lost my student ID and I haven't gotten my permit so I can't really make one. Are there other things I can use as identification? (link)
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Maybe you could get a new school I\'d or get a temp. The bank may even take your birth certificate. I hope everything works out, I hope this helped. Good luck ! :)
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Well ive been with this guy for almost 2 years. We broke up about twice so far. The first time i managed to get him back and he told me that he missed me and realized he still loved me. But it was also partly because i gave into him and gave him bj the two times we saw each other while broken up. But its cause i asked him straightforwardly the thirdtime when we were about to do it again. But the three months togwther then was mostly us doing sexual stuff like up to third base and thats it. But we didnt have much time to just bond and talk. Were also a bit long distance seeing eachother only once in a week or two. But this time he broke up with me again giving me a bunch of excuses. His friends even told him that we wouldnt work out which i think possibly influenced his decision. But his friends dont even know me because my parents are strict so i mever got to meet his friends. But well a month of no contact with him then the second the month ended i started talking to him and asking to see each other for closure. But once i saw him it wasnt closure but me asking to get backand being desperate. Then he blew up on me saying we should just let it go now hefore it gets even harder to let go later on and that hes trying to move on. Then i stomped out yelling i just dont get this. Then he texted me a day after explaining that he feels like hes in the relationship for sex. And then from tere we judt argued back and forth because i got hope from that. And on saturday i lashe out on him ecause he asked this girl to prom when he knew i still liked him and i wanted to go to prom with him since junior year. And then he lashed back put on me. And then we argued intensely until thursday. Because on thursday he told me the modt hurtful things like im annoying him that he cribges when e sees my texts and that everything was in the past its over and that he takes back all the hope an consideration he gave me a few days ago when he really thought of possibly geting back together. And that im lucky he hasnt blocked me yet. Well to be honest i feel so hurt but i still want a try but im scared to hear hurtful things. But i want him to be with me again. Idk if i should move on talk to him or what i should even do!!! I honestly want some possible way to slowly get his love for me back again. (link)
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Relationships aren\'t easy.it hurts to feel like something that once was so perfect could turn so wrong. But somethings cone to an end whether we want them to or not.i think he dies care and part of the problem could be his friends .but if the only thing you guys could be was only physical, that majes any relationship toxic.my advice is to take it slow and be friends. He cares enough to be honest. Go to him and say you want to have a clean state.no drama just be cool and asjs to be friends, if he cares enough then he\'ll accept your request. Then you guys can get to know each other and maybe find love. If for some reason you can\'t work it out.then maybe he wasn\'t meant for you.
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I feel really good when I laugh and I love laughing. The problem is that I find almost nothing funny. A lot of people laugh when other people get hurt which is what most "funny videos" on youtube are about. And I honestly don't think they're funny ._. I also don't like most "funny" movies. Can anyone give me some ideas what I can watch? The only person I can think of that makes me laugh is ellen degeneres ._. (link)
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Sometimes its hard to find funny things ti watch. Since you lije Ellen(I do too! ) on Pandora they have comedy stations tyoe ellens name in and it will play comedian\'s similar to her. (Or try searching comedians similar to Ellen. I hope you\'ll laugh soon :)
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my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
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I had no idea what this was, I read on it and what coronary artery disease is (also no as chd meaning heart disease. Means that it is more difficult for the little blood vessels in your heart that help produce oxygen &blood.the best thing is to go to a doctor and get checked out to be for sure.i found this out by going to Google and typing in \"define
Coronary artery disease\" it\'ll have a definition pop up
Click on that and it should have helpful things to understand smore I hope this helps and that you feel better. I hope everything turns out for the best.be well :)
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I've been using Triphasil now for month I thought my period is gona come back to normal but not yet what should I try or must I contineu using it? I want to try for a baby wil it help me to fel pregnent (link)
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I've never use the product, but since you just started taking this you should give it a few months for your body to react and adjust. Have you talked to your doctor? Also there is a site called americanpregnacy.org they can give you tips on how to get pregnant and aswell as other helpful tips I hope this helps I wish you the best on finding the best method and a healthy baby!
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I truly loved a girl name preethi she lives in Coimbatore im Arun maheedhar in same area because of her situation and completion of her parents she left me we both doin masters in Coimbatore the day of her proposal is Nov 8 th around 7.30 in the evening then our life was awesome for few days like upto Dec 30 th the same year 2013 I was last seen her at Dec 30 th 2013 evening I dropped her in a market place and I left with tears and my tears still not stopped today april 6th 1.14 am I was feeling very sad abt the memories I tried to erase her memories but I can't I tried many things but only fail remains in love in carrer in life only her memories left with me now I want to die with that same memory but I don't want any resurrection after this life it's enough I'm now not fit for my life. Her birthday is April 9th so on that day I pray for her life for last time and I want to die with those memories please tell a way for a quick painless death (link)
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Im sorry for the way you feel...I thought about raking my own life once.i can't tell you how to hurt yourself, but I can tell you that your life is so priceless and that you gotta be strong. Your life is worth living.it doesn't seem like you cant carry on but you have to take it one day at a time .
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Do you guys honestly think that everyone is destined to meet someone? Especially during a certain time of their life.
I feel like everyone around me has someone or has people in their life they could potentially be with. Whereas me, I don't know anyone who I can see myself with at all. I'm about to be 21 and I can honestly say I've never really been in true love before and Im scared because my life is going to get tougher and more hectic as I continue with school and my career and I'm worried I won't find anyone. I'm also worried that the longer I hold out on finding someone, the more people I could have potentially be with, will find someone else. Sorry for sounding a bit confusing with my thoughts. But what do you think? (link)
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I believe love happens when its supposed to,i think that.its great to focus on.school and.work,but if you really want to be with someone look into speed dating,or going tobs spot that you like hanging out,etc..give.it.a try! everyone hope this helped in some way good luck!
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Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl. My glasses broke about 1-2 week(s) ago, and my parents set up an eye appointment for me at the end of next week. I have an oval face shape, light blue eyes, and a lazy eye. I have an idea of what kind of glasses I need but I'm not for sure. I need some help, what kind of glasses do I need due to my eyes and face shape? (link)
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The best advice is when you go to your appointment,just try a few on see which.pair feels good on you. Good luck! ,hoped this helped
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hey im 18F
i need some advice on how not to get distracted easily. I get it, its a weird question, but my problem is i cant completely devote my time on a particular activity for long, i lose focus or get distracted. Like studying or keeping a resolution etc.
I really need some thing that will help:/ (link)
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Every body has this problem, whether its getting distracted or procrastinating.mu best advice is to just do one task at a time,having alot on your plate.can.cause you to feel like you need.an.out let or it.could.be whatever it is.isn't fun.just try to focus on one thing at a time. Hope this helped
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My boyfriend always calls me gorgeous and babe but i dont know what to call him. Any suggestions? (link)
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I had that problem too. you can call him things that remind you of him. Be creative. Example :give him a cute pet name . Or just call him handsome or sexy
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I am 25. I was sexually abused when I was a kid by 2 men. My stepfather have had bad intentions towards me when we were still living in his house. He was touching my boobs. The ones whom I thought who will take care of me, they were the one who did unacceptable things to me. When I was still pregnant, I told my mum and my sister that no guys are allowed to stay in our house for a long time. Maybe they can sleep overnight but stay so long, I'm not comfortable with that. I gave birth to a healthy baby girl. She's now 8 months. I am very protective of her.
The mother of my sister's bf has a cancer. He's the one who is taking care of her.They are living 2-3 hours away from our house. He doesn't have good connection with his aunts and grandfather and he's saying that they don't treat him good. My sister knows that too because she visits him sometimes. The guy comes in our house too sometimes, he sleeps here for few nights and I don't have problem with that. He's a good guy. Until my sister asked my mother if her boyfriend can live in our house while looking for a job until he finds a stable job. His family is pushing him to have a job already and he wants here in our place to look for a job maybe so that he can be near my sister. I don't like it that he's gonna live here in our house. I'm not comfortable that there is a guy in our house and I have a daughter. I am always afraid that she can experience too what I experienced when I was a kid. I just don't like it. Well, he can sleep for few nights but the idea of him living here at home makes me mad. My mum wants to accept him at home as a help since his mother has a cancer. I had an argument too with my sister because of it. Am I being too selfish and only thinking of myself? Please help. (link)
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No you are not being too selfish. You have gone through a lot of things in your life,you are a parent now and to. Want to protect your daughter from what happened to you is a good thing.. I understand that and you all need to sit down and talk about it. They have to understand your point of view. And you also have to realize that not every man is like the people who hurt you.
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Although I am sure I'll get a lot of controversy for this, I am a senior in high school and my boyfriend graduated last year. We've been dating for a year. Our relationship has always had ups and downs like any relationship. We have really bad fights, fake break ups, and then make up. Everything is okay in the end.
Lately I've been feeling indifferent about the whole relationship. While he's usually sitting at home and playing videogames all day, I'm at school trying hard to get into college. No matter how hard I try to motivate him, he never seems to want to get a future. I tell him I can't have a future with him if he doesn't try. He says, "I'm trying." He's been saying that for maybe 6+ months now. I don't want to be selfish or inconsiderate, because I know how hard it is to find a job, but I remind him how relatively easy it is to get into college. He never tried his senior year because "it's expensive". I'm dirt poor and so is my family, yet with the right research, I am already applied for college.
Another thing that is getting to me is that he doesn't seem to try in our relationship anymore, either. We go on dates every month or so. He doesn't really go out of his way for me anymore. He drives far to come visit, but he doesn't really ever give me gifts or flowers or anything like he used to. He used to surprise me just because.
I told him he changed, but he says, "No. You have." We fight about it constantly because it makes me feel unloved, and he always puts it back on me, saying I never do anything for him. Okay, I get mad and I am a bit selfish sometimes, but I do a lot for him. I've called several people to get him into college and get him a job. I get him really nice things when I usually don't even have the money for it. I do my best to show him how much he means to me everyday. He doesn't even cuddle with me or kiss me anymore. I barely ever hear "I love you". I only hear it when we fight.
Please help. I just really don't know what to do anymore. This relationship is just dying out so fast... (link)
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When you invest time into someone,and they treat you with love and show you affection that you never felt before you get accustomed to that. Then one day they change it hurts. You tried to make it work you gave it your best. I think that.you should leave. It hurts I know right now but your not happy and you can't change anyone that doesn't want.to be changed. You love him enough to stay but you got to love yourself enough to.leave. it isn't easy but stay foucused on school and go after your dreams. I hope everything works out for you
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1. Boyfriend made plans to go play turkey ball. Comes back and starts talking about how he felt like a loser since all the guys had their girlfriends there playing too. Then he accuses me of not wanting to go with him when he has never asked me to come even in the past years.
2. He called a couple times while I was getting ready to leave the house for a family thanksgiving lunch. The texts he sends me say "I know you are at lunch with a guy. I can act just like you if I want."
3. Him: you never talk about guys around me babe.
Me: yea because if I tell you how guys hit on me, you are going to try and turn the whole thing around on me.
Him:you so you hide stuff from me.
Me:yea well im not hiding anything that you're thinking from you, but I haven't told you every instance where guys have hit on me because of how you react.
4. He always accuses me of sleeping with my coworker, whom I supposedly flirt with? Im not allowed to talk to my male coworkers. Or just sleeping with other guys.
5. He doesn't see what I have contributed to the relationship. He said me taking him to the nba game or taking him to eat for his birthday doesn't. Mean anything.
What do I do. Two and a half years together..
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Two and a half years is long a time. Have you ever.wondered why he's like that? He's insecure about himself and he feels your out of he's league . Its been two yrs you show him.that you love him by hanging out and etc. At this point you've did your best but I feel you will be better without him. He should trust in you and not.accuse you. Yes he is being unfair its better to be by yourself than to be with someone who always.makes you feel like your doing something wrong.
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hello am from Jamaica,i have been married for 7years and icant get along with my husband i thought he was a caring person but he is so selfish i had a successful business going beore i met him and all he did was borrow my money and at the end o the month he didnt make enough to pay me back cause hes into sales,now i lost my busines and i feel such resenment towards him he never wants to admit hes the reason i lost my business now we r stil in a rented house and can hardley pay the bills and i have to go to work and do everything aat home even if hes home all day he only talk about what he want to do to improve his life but nothing gets done each time i tried to talk with him about my insecurities it turnes out in a big argument cause hes saying that he is the best man i ever had i cant go on like this anymore i have lost even my selfesteem and i have two sons to take care of please help me i dont see any future with this man as he wont do anything to improve our way of living. (link)
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you've been in it for seven years. Your right he's selfish a man isn't perfect he will mess up but if he's doing you this way its time to leave the biggest investment was your marriage. You've tried talkin a marriage isn't great but if he is not helping you its time to go you love him but evidently he doesn't love you back he's you husband he's supposed to make you feel good build you up when your down sometimes he may forget but this is everyday he says he's the best? Yes he's the best at showing you that you deserve better
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I have been married to my wife for 7 years now. I recently caught her in an Emotional online affair. We have been going through months of counseling and have gotten over it. But, she has approached me to say she wants me to initiate sex with more compliments. However, she doesn't like the romance thing. She finds it disgusting. She does like compliments but she seems to want the dirty compliments. I am a usually preoccupied in the daily goings on rather than having sex on my mind. So when she puts me on the spot to say these things to get her aroused, I am clueless as to what to say. She doesn't like the mushy stuff. (link)
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Not to sound nasty but maybe you should ask what her what would she like you to say.. or you can just watch porn to get some ideas...
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m/26 gay,well I have a boyfriend whom I relly love with all my heart and been dating for almost three years now,but over the whole last year we've been going through a lot of hardships,a lot of arguments and problems,we are not happy anymore I reckon,I'm really sad 'coz he has tried to dump me like a hundred times,and I've always begged him not to do it.Currently, I cannot stop crying bc I have realized that he no longer cares whether I'm out of his life or not,so I'm seriously thinking about moving on with my own life and just forget everything about him but it just freaks me out the idea of being alone again and miss him too much,help?THANKS! (link)
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You've invested a lot of time into the relationship it hurts. No one said it will be easy but the longer you wait.the harder it will be you tryied to keep it together you did what you could the best thing is to leave. Start over sure you will feel hurt but its step one towards the new happiness you truly deserve good luck be strong :)
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I used to date a guy and then we broke up, I was devastated 4 wks, I deleted everything about him pictures, his phone number bcos he said he couldn't stay friends with me. we haven't talkd in 2 months... And 2days ago this guy called me, but I was not there to pick up the phone and I didn't know it was him bcos I didn't have his no on my phone anymore, and I sent a msg "pls who is dis" and he didn't reply, he called the nxt day and d same hapnd... So I went tru ma cuzn phone and saw his no and I compared it 2 d no which cals me and I know its him now and I feel bad dat I always kept sayin who is this.... What should I do, I still luv dis guy and I want to text him but I don't know what to say... (link)
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It sucks when we are put in akward situations. Tell him how you feel exactly .tell him what happened good luck !
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im in this relationship with this guy but im not sure if he likes me. i really like him though. all his friends say that he tells them that he loves me but how do i know for surewithout confronting him about it? (link)
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You know by the way he treats you. How he reacts when you are around.does he compliment you? How do you feel about him? Tell him how you feel. Iits not being mean or rude you just want to know.
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Hi I've been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I wanted it to be special. Since the only thing I'm good at is singing, I don't know any perfect song to sing. any suggestion??? please. (link)
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Congrats. To you and your boyfriend. You should sing the first song you have every listen to with him did a song play the night you guys met? Or pick a song that reminds you of him .you will find the perfect song;) good luck!
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Im 39 my girlfriends yougnger my heath is slowly but surly getting worse i HATE myself AND FEEL WORTHLESS I POSITIVE THE ONLY PERSON I LOVE IS GOING TO LEAVE... I'VE alway s hade bother with deprestion , low self esteam i feel im an idiot who is just wasting the earths scant resorces, i've try'ed 2 comit suioside a few times (some have been VERY painful) so i only WANT ADVICE 2 DO IT PAINLESLY , QUICKLY AND GARANTED TO WORK THANK YOU friends...
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Don't do that your life is so importaint don't take your life I've felt that way life gets you down. Please don't life has so much to offer you.
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