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hi, im hailey. ive been through alot in my life, and ive done and seen things that a teenager shouldnt have to deal with. but i do give good advice and i love to help people :)
E-mail: twistagrl2005@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: kentucky
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: April 20, 2009
Answers: 2
Last Update: May 14, 2009
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I am 16 year old girl and I don't know exactly how to say this- but I have no confidence in myself. I have no self esteem. I look in the mirror and my reaction is always like- oh wow my hair looks so bad. Or my makeup looks so ugly and dull. But then again, my friends are like- shut up you're beautiful. I am dissatisfied with many things about myself- I have a saggy ass, I have a camel toe when I wear volleyball spandex, my breasts are tiny, my whole body shape is petite. I'm tall and skinny. I have love handles, my hair is frizzy and only looks good when I straighten it and it gets even more damaged, I pick at my cuitcles/nails and bite my nails so they are ugly, I can't wear tampons still, I love to sing but I have a terrible voice. I like to dance but I'm a clutz and run into things. I break a lot of things I touch. I can't wear high heels. I've only been to 1 formal dance in my school and my friends are already going to prom. My friends are taking advanced classes and I am getting A-'s in regular classes. My parents are overly-strict. I don't eat healthy and sometimes I worry about getting diabetes or appendecitis. I am VERY stubborn. It's hard for me to make friends. I feel like no one loves me. I feel like I'm selfish a lot and when I try to put other people in front of me, I feel like they're more important. I feel like i'm too nice and I need to stand up to myself and be a little bitchy towards the people who bully me. But when I do become a little bitchy, I feel bad about it. Ahh HELP!!!!! (link)
girl, you cant put yourself down like that. you need to have some confidence in yourself. dont think about all the bad things about yourself and think about the good things. everybody goes through feeling this way so dont feel alone. you just need a dont give a fuck attitude an youll be fine thats helped me through alot it could work for you :)


I'm 17 and I've had sex for the first time about two months ago and I didn't bleed at all, one of my friends told me it might be because my "cherry" wasn't popped. Is this normal, even though it really hurt? Since then I've had sex two more times and still no bleeding, but it still hurts a lot upon penetration, is my boyfriend doing something wrong? Or should i not worry? (link)
dont worry about it. its not a big deal. your cherry will pop one day :)




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