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♥BASiCS
Emily prefers to be called/a.k.a em,emz,lili,mimi,lee or emi
13 from England living in Spain - loves; giving advice, making friends, music, photography, the color pink&more ..
hates; racism, terrorism, poverty , animal testing, cockroaches, darkness, sluttyness, being tired


♥MUSiC
+ : r&b
+ : rap
+ : hip hop
+ : reggaeton
+ : slow jams
+ : acapella
+ : pop


♥CONTACT
msn&email :: myxboo@hotmail.com
aim :: siimply x emily
yahoo :: emilys0tempted


advice

My boyfriend and I sometimes get in like Hickey fights. He always gives me them but whenever I try to give him one it never works...Ive tried on myself at home before too and I think im doing something wrong. My question is exactly how do u give a hickey and do you know of tips to help it work better besides like biting?

You probably aren't sucking hard enough. Just suck harder and you'll probably get it.
♥Em

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Hi Does anyone know any sites that have LiveJournal layouts? thanks for all your help.

www.ljlayouts.org has loads of free layouts.
There's also loads of LJ layout communitys on livejournal just search Layouts or LJ Layouts or premade layouts.
♥Em

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my behavier in school has always been quit bad..
i carnt sit still for more tahn ten minutes. im also dislexic anyway i over herd the teachers talking about me and they have been writing a kinda diary of me...my english teacher left her diary on the desk and it had written down every thing ido. i dont know why they are doing it,has anyone been in this situation?why are they doing this? i feel like i carnt be myself anymore.has anyone got any idaes?please reply soon xx

They are probably just making a diary on your behavior. Like you said, your behavior isn't the best in the school so they are probably making a diary to later show your parents or something.
They've done that with a few kids in my school that have behavior problems. I guess the only way to stop it is my behaving.
I know it's hard to keep still for all them hours, even I find it hard but it has to be done.
♥Em

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I have this friend and lately her parents divorced. At first she wouldn't tell me but then she did and she started crying. I feel really bad for her, how can i make her feel better? She keeps on saying that people will think that she is a divorced child.. But she really isn't. Shes so nice.

You need to be there for her in every way you can support her in every way you can and whenever she feels the need to cry or talk about it tell her you'll be there for her.
Let her know that she won't change and people won't look at her diferently just because her parents are divorced. There are lots of people who have parents that are divorced.
♥Em

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i got a sun burn on my face today..and my face is like kinda red..like along my nose and forehead and cheeks..well i dont really wanna looks so red tomorrow for school....is it possible that i can lessen the reddening by tomorrow? Thanx!

Put some after-sun on if you haven't got any just go to your nearest drug store they should have some you can get it in spray or cream.
If the redness still doesn't go down cover it up with some make-up.
Good luck.
♥Em

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I got my prom dress todaii and its strapless...do you think it would look better to have my hair in an updo or styled down?

If you're thin then you could wear it up or down it doesn't really matter, up would be good to show more skin if you wanted to but down would look pretty too.
If you're on the more heavy side, if you leave your hair down it'll draw attention away from your arms and shoulders as they will be covered.
♥Em

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How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity?

I think people should wait till at least they are 15 but then if they are 15 and still immature then they shouldn't it all depends on your mental maturity.
♥Em

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i got my period for the first time about 1 year, and 8 months ago. I haven't had it very many times since. i get it like every 2 or 3 months? i heard that body weight has something to do with it and some sites tell me that im "emaciated" and stuff like that, but i eat, have a fast matabolism, and im active. do you think this is why my period is irregular? ps im like 5'6 and 105, i think. thankss

For the first few years your period will be all over the place, don't worry about it. It happens to most people
♥Em

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Anyone know any music videos to download which have hip-hop dancing in?

Or anysite that teach hip-hop online or anyone will teach me bassic stuff online like tips n step by step stuff?
lush me x

You could try Ciara's videos Goodies & 1,2 Step. She has some good moves in them. She's dances more crunk than hip-hop but that's all I can come up with off the top of my head.
I'll keep editing this I'll keep thinking of some.

edit//
Destiny's Child - Lose My Breath
♥Em
*Also, why don't you buy one of them DVD's that teaches you to dance there's diferent ones for hip-hop and everything =)

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Hey, i really need some tips that will suit me so im going to list about me so it helps..

Race: White
I have frekkals over my nose which i hate
I have a masive forehead and i want people to be less attracted to it!
I have BIG blue eyes
I hvae nice lips and lipstick does not suit me clear lipgloss dont much either..
I have curly brown hair
And im alergic to foundation any tips anyone for

WANT -
Make my frekkals less noticable
Make my meat head less noticable
Make my eyes look smaller
Any kind of good lipstick colour or lipgloss which will suit me
Any makeup which makes my hair look thinner than it is and goes together well with my face!

ALSO CHEAP MAKEUP WILL BE FAB THANKS PEOPLE!!
x lush me x

Hey hun,
Well, here I go...

*Use concealer on your freckles. I have freckles on my nose and if you just put concealer on it helps make them less noticable.
*If you want to make your eyes noticable and want them to stand out rely on pale colors for eyeshadows such as pastel colors. If you want to make them a little smaller go for tan colors and darker colors.
*For your lips if clear lipgloss doesn't suit you, you could try one with a little bit of color in it like a light pink or something like that just try on a few and see which you think suits you more :)
*Get your straightend you could use normal straightners at home the best kind are ceramic ones they aren't VERY cheap but I think you can find some somewhere for about 30 dollars if you do that you'll have to do it all the time which can also ruin your hair. You could also get it done at a salon with a relaxer that'll keep it straight for a few months AND it'll thin your hair out like you wanted :)
*For your forehead if you don't already have them and you're up for a little hair cut you could get bangs. Yeah, it's a big trend, I know but it'll hide half your forehead (or all of it depending on how you get them) and they look good on almost ANYONE!
*Last - some places to get make-up online (I'm not sure where you live so I can't give you any stores) are www.urbandecay.com, www.hardcandy.com and www.sephora.com. If you're a member of ebay alot of people are selling brand-new make-up too and alot of it is real cheap.

Hope I helped :)
♥Em

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How much does it cost to wax legs? When does the hair grow back?

It depends on the salon you go to it normally costs around $30 but if you do it with one of them at home wax kits it'll cost you much less ike $10 or something around that.
As for growing back it usually takes around 2 to 4 weeks to grow back.
♥Em

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where can i find slightly fitted band or vintage T's i cant seam to find them anywhere, if you could a website would be nice our the store name thanks -XXOO

Hot Topic has alot of good band tees.
♥Em

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Hey. I'm working for a summer camp this summer (duh) and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what I could wear. I don't have a dress code, but I can't be a slut either. If anyone has ideas and WHER TO FIND THEM, I would really appreciate. I rate based on effort!! Love ya much!

American eagle, hollister, abercrombie.
Places like that have good summer clothes that aren't too clingy or too thick.
♥Em

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Hey, i'm a 15 year old black girl and at my high school if your a certain color, you are expected to like certain things and listen to a certain type of music.Well i'm not like that i listen to "other" music.And when i say other music i mean stuff liken green day and maroon5 and stuff like that.Also some of the stuff that my caucasion friends talk about i can identify with and some of the more preppy clothes they wear i like.i'm afraid to tell my friends this because i am afriad of their reactions.what should i do?

Tell them about it, if they don't understand and make fun of you then they obviously aren't worth your friendship.
You seem like a great person, if they can't face the fact you don't have the same tastes as them it's their loss not yours :)
♥Em

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Just out of curiosity, is there like something wrong with me?: I hate to be touched. It bugs the hell out of me. Like, I dont even let my boyfriend just hit my arm when we talk. It bothers me! Is there anything wrong?

If you were abused in the past then that's why.
If you have trouble trusting people then that could be one of the reasons. Personally I don't think many people can give you advice on that here it could be trusting issues or things that have happend to you in the past you should go see a doctor about it and see what they make of it.
I know it sounds extream going to the doctors but not wanting/letting people touch you could be a major issue in your future.
Best of luck hun
♥Em

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Hey,
I need some make-up tips, I've always worn alot of make-up. I'm 21 if that helps and obviously female.

Extras;
I have a normal type of skin that tends to change to a little bit oiler in the summer and drier in the winter.

I have dark Asian eyes and I wouldn't mind opening them up a little.

I have small lips, I'm not intrested in making them look any bigger but I wouldn't turn down any tips on making them bigger.

Fire away the advice, ladies.


Hey!
Well first, for your skin you should choose a foundation for normal skin types if you can't find one and/or it doesn't say on the bottle ask someone in a store.
Apply a layer of moisturizer underneath for dry, winter conditions.
If you use powder keep a pressed powder handy for when you're in a more oilier moment or more humid days.

Eyeees
Sweep a light-colored eye shadow over entire eyelid but not too light no like neon green or something crazy
Use a pencil to create a thick, smoky line along top lashes (thick enough to be seen when your eye is open) and a thinner one under bottom lashes.
To widen eye area, fill in brows using a brown-toned eye shadow.
Use two to three coats of thick mascara unless you already have long lashes then you could just use a good clear mascara that seperates them

As for the lips, you can use a darker lip liner providing you like the whole lip liner look then a lighter lipstick with wet effect on your lips that would make them stand out more but if not then clear lipgloss or a semi dark one would work there is also a special lipgloss for making your lips seem fuller it's called Fat Kiss or something similar to that.
Hope I helped hun
♥Em

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Hi im 13 female and i wanted to know if any one my age knows how i can earn $3000 dollars (three thousand dollars) i live in florida close to mims i need to earn money but dont know how.. i want to earn money for a horse and my grandpa said that if i get $3000 than i can get one. so i need help i rate 5's thanks
hopeful one

You could get more than one job.
In a shop, babysitting, odd jobs like mowing lawns and stuff for people, dog walking, pet sitting, etc.
Good luck on getting your horse hun.
♥Em

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My younger sister is 18 next week so its quite a big deal (as we're english!) but i have no idea what to get her. As anyone got any ideas at all? im really stuck! I rate high guys!

Go shopping together and then go get manicures together and stuff, or you could organise a surprise party even though that's not very original.
Urm, you could buy her a necklaces with 'best sister' or 'little sister' or something like that on it.
Orrr like someone else suggested you could get her a car, if you can afford it obviously.
♥Em

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I have a pair of Berkenstocks that are very noisey when I walk. The leather squeaks when it rubs against the buckles with every step. Is there something I can treat them with to get rid of the squeak?

You can try talcom powder and if that doesn't work vaseline on the buckles.
Good luck squeaky ;]
haha sorry, I couldn't resist
♥Em

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Is it true that chewing bubble-gum will help your ears to pop?

Yes, and sucking sweets. That's why on alot of planes they hand out sweets to suck when taking off :)
♥Em

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