Just out of curiosity, is there like something wrong with me?: I hate to be touched. It bugs the hell out of me. Like, I dont even let my boyfriend just hit my arm when we talk. It bothers me! Is there anything wrong?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? Siren_Cytherea answered Friday April 8 2005, 9:13 pm: It's possible that you're untrusting - I am.
I had to play a character in a play that had serious proximity issues. There was one point where my love interest got really close to me while I was mad at him, and he made me so nervous. He made me stutter, and I NEVER stutter. In her character, I HATED to be touched, and it was because she's an incredibly untrusting person. Trust has a lot to do with touch.
Or it could be an abuse issue - if you were ever hit, or physically hurt in some way, that would definitely put you off being touched.
There's nothing wrong with you. You probably have some past issues to get past. If you haven't told your boyfriend about this, you might want to. He might be able to help you get past it.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
karazimonki answered Thursday April 7 2005, 10:14 pm: No theres nothing wrong with you i think you have this "diease" (for lack of better words) that you don't like that or it could just be your pesonality.
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fenderjs441 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 10:02 pm: umm well not to be rude but doesnt your boyfriend get really bored of you i mean if you dont like being touched obviously you dont hug or kiss or other fun stuff lol so i dont know you so i dont personally know of somthing rong with you but if i was your boyfriend (wich im not a boy or a lezbian so would never happen) i would think somthing was rong with you not even letting your own b/f hug or kiss you...pleas dont take that the rong way if you wanted honesty thats what you got... [ fenderjs441's advice column | Ask fenderjs441 A Question ]
_eMiLy answered Thursday April 7 2005, 8:16 pm: If you were abused in the past then that's why.
If you have trouble trusting people then that could be one of the reasons. Personally I don't think many people can give you advice on that here it could be trusting issues or things that have happend to you in the past you should go see a doctor about it and see what they make of it.
I know it sounds extream going to the doctors but not wanting/letting people touch you could be a major issue in your future.
Best of luck hun
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xxBrOkEnxx answered Thursday April 7 2005, 8:01 pm: i dont think so but if you were abused,because it sounds like you were but im not saying you were.(sorry if i confused you)maybe go see a doctor [ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question ]
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