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Hey Whats up! My names Ashley! Im probably the biggest music geek that you will ever meet.. My life revolves around music and singing. I enjoy theatre and being in plays and shows. If u look at my ratings and feed back I am a pretty good Advicenator.. If thats what you want to say... Just ask me a question... anything and Im sure I could help!

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~*I'd give up forever just to touch you, and I know that you feel me to somehow.you're the closest to heaven that I'll ever be, and i dont want to go home right now*~

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theres this really annoying ugly ignorent kid at my school saying stuff to me and id like to give him some good comebacks because im sick of his attitude and the way he talks to girls... anyone have any good comebacks?

Be like... yea... uh huh? yea and so's your mom! or something like that... One that is really retarded but get their attention is...

Are you insinuating that I should tolerat such diobolical insubordination from one whose mental capacity does not even exceed to that of an imbisul?

Try and remember that and it will really get to them!

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-Ashley-

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Since I have a pudgy tummy, I was wondering of any body knew of any stretches or excercizes that only focus on your stomach? please help!

um... I think that crunches work pretty well.. also push ups believe it or not! you could try doing polaties and stuff like that... Hope I Helped!!! PLEAE RATE!

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my school is not fair to me. all the kids that go to junior high work 7 hours and only get a 15 minute break! to me that is completely outragous! and the high school students either dont get lunch or get lunch 1 time a week! and they work longer. i cant stand my school. how can i change how my illegal school is treating kids that they think have no responcibility even to have enough time to relax at lunch. my friend's school has freakin 50 minutes! i hate school. im so stressed and i feel like killing myself because i dont have any break time. please help

Okay.. first of all there is no reason to kill yourself over a 15 minute break at school. Im sorry but i just dont see that as a reason...anyways.. Try and talk to an administraitor... or take it to the state because you're completly right! it is illeagle! Talk to an administraitor and ask them why they only allow 15 minutes? in my school we get 42 minutes for lunch... That sounds like a bunch of bull to me. I'd seriously start a strike or a petition or something... Good luck... hope I helped in some way!
-Ash

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i dunno wats going on with me...i try to do my best in school and i have lots of friends and all and i had good grades but lately my grades been dropping lower and lower and lower...and my parents are like really strict about that...i feel ike everything is just to much for me and i cant take it anymore...its going over my head...i have a bunch more things to deal with and this school thing makes it even harder...my math teacher is gonna send like a progress report to my mom and im gonna be dead!...i dunno wat to do anymore! please help me!

-confused

Sit back and take a breather. I know just how you feel right now.. BELIEVE ME! Just breathe and keep your hope... things will get better soon.. you just have to work harder at it. Ask ppl for help.. ask your friends to help you if you dont like asking teachers. Sit back and think about what it is that might be holding you back so far... and once you find something... try and iliminate it from your life for a lil while... even if it means your friends. You'l be able to be with them... jut not chyllen all the time and stuff. Hope I helped!
-Ashley-
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I was at my friend's house the other day and we decided to make him pass out. Then i wanted to try it just to see how it felt. So i hyper-venalated myself, held my breath, and let him pick me up with my arms crossed at my chest. Before i knew it i woke up and was on the floor. Everyone was staring at me and i didn't remember anything but it was really cool. I did it about 12 more times. Is there a health risk when you do this? Can it cause serious damage to your brain or anything??

HELL YEA BuDDY!!! there deff. is! you can get brain damage from that! and also you can do something to our lungs with that! Dont do it anymore is my advice
-Ashley-

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I'm in a relationship at the moment, and im really happy. Yet at the same time i kinda wish i wasnt. It's not like i dont like him or anything it's just I'm only 14 and i dont really feel like i need a bf. I was just wondering what do YOU think is the rite time to start dateing, and why. ane Please help me decided what to do. Thanks.

I think that the right age to date is when you feel like you are ready to...Just becasue you arent feeling him right now doesnt mean that its not the righ time for you. I think that you should let him know whats good and tell him that you guys could get together some other time... but not now cuz u jut have too much goin on. Hope I helped!
-ashley-

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WEll to start off i asked this guy out (daniel). Then the very next day my friend asked him out 2. she knew how much i liked him and crap. Well he said yes to her. First i was really pissed but then i got over it (lol). But about a month or 2 later she still thought i was jealous when i was totally not!!! She blamed me for flirting w/ her bf (him) and my other friends bf! When i was totally not! She accused me of writing notes and crap but i wasn't. Then she started flirting and writing love notes to this other guy while she was still dating Daniel. She broke up w/ him and asked out her ex-bf (stole him from me 2 weeks after we stated dating ARGH!!) while he was dating my bff. She kept writing notes to the guy and daniel. She always accuses me for flirting w/ other girl's boyfriends while she is doing the exact thing!!! I have NEVER EVER tried to steel ANY of these boys away!!!!! She's driving me nuts!!! o yea, she also just asked my current bf out, just to make me jealous! (he said no I was the only girl for him =) ♥ )WHAT THE NERVE!!!!! she's eally cool when it comes to everything but boys! wut up?
i rate high!
Player?

wow... IT seems like she has some issues with herself... She has this thing with owning things...or people. Dont let it bother you. just try to accept her for who she is if she is your friend. Try and get it through to her htat u have more respect for her and her relationships than what she thinks that you do.Let her know that its not fair that she does that to you and u guys are supposed to be friends. Hope I helped!
-ashley-
p.s. tell me how it works out

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ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f?

Well.. no and yes. I would say that he is not because he at least made it a point to be with you somewhat on valentines day, so try taking that into consideration...Yes because he made it an all sports day instead of a love day. But its just this one day... sit down with him and u tell him that you understand and respect his passion, but it just kind of made you feel bad when he didnt want to bewith you on the special day... Tell me what u decide and what happens! PLEASE RATE!!!
-Ashley-

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Everyone sayd first loves never die well i believe that.. I met my first love when i was 12 and i haven't forgot about him since im 17 now ! Everytime i date a different guy all i think about is him.. When i was 15 we started dating again.. But his parents made us break up because he was too old for me or so they said..Anywayz now i haven't seen him since and i can't stop thinking about him ! What should i do because i don't have his # or address??

I think that you should seriously try and find him and make life like the movies... and bump into him somewhere and start a casual conversation... and then see if he is still worth it... and if he is... consider yourself cinderella!

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I have this friend, And I seriously think that I am falling for him. We talk all the time and we claim eachother as best friends and all, But now, I dont know, I've seriously fallen for him. I tlak to him and I get this big smile on my face and I just start giggeling. All I ever want to do is be near him! ugh... oh yea, He's younger than me. What do I do?
((Confused))

Um... Weird? lol... Thats like your little brother right there! lol... I have my lil brother ;-D lol.

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Is there a medication that can be taken for worrying and feeling anxious?

Umm... i think you can take prozac as well... but just look at the commercials... theres plenty of stuff that they have on that topic
Hope I helped!
**Ashley

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what are some really good stores to find name brand things that arent to expensive??

kohles,tj max,marshalls, ross... anything like that has pretty good stuff for low prices... i should know.. i am POOR!!!! lol Hope I helped!
** Ashley

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for my school i have to like read lots of books. Does anyone know of any teen books that are good, but not to to long?

Keeping you a secret is pretty good.. im not one for reading but i read it and it was awesome! an amazing book though is running with scissors... thats a pretty darn good book! Hope I helped!you can go to google and check those books out and see what you think b4 you try it
**Ashley

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ok, like 2 years ago i sprained my ankle from cheerleading and ever since then it always pop when i walk up the stairs or get finished working out. is that normal? and my wrists pop everytime i bend it back and forth, but i think it's from tumbling, but is that normal too? i was just wondering cause some of my friends have the same problem. thanx!

Well im not posotive but i seriously think that you should have your mom take you to the doctor... and maybe your friends should to.. Tell them and tell me what happens
**Ashley

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What exactly does Prozac do for you?

Its an anti depressant

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I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated!

Hey there...
I think that its awesome that you know what yo believe in. you see... with me.. i converted myself as a christian 3 years ago... but after a while i didnt believe in a lot of the stuff that they believe in and so now im thinking about being jewish since thats my family's biological religion that we never practiced... I think that its better becasue i dont really believe in jesus and I do believe in God. And its a lot easier to understand and stuff... You might want to take that into consideration... If You'd like. Hope I could help! Tell me what u dedcide!
**Ashley

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okay in school every one calls me a slut and im not one i never had sex,or gave anyone head!! what should i do when they call me it? please help!!
i rate high

Hun... honestly on that one i dont think that there really is anything you can do except wait it out. Or if u wanna take a big leap into this you can just joke around with it and be like "HELL YEA!!! but you see the thing is I never knew that there was such a thing as a virgin slut" or something like that. you can just try and go along with it no matter how much it pisses you off... I promise.. the rumors will go away faster... Hope I Helped! Tell me what u think and what happens!
**Ashley

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my dad discriminates people and judges them because of the way they sing or how they look and I try to tell him but he wont listen and its making me mad. im sitting here listening to him laugh at steven tyler from aerosmith. what do i do?

Honestly hun I dont think that there is anything you can do about it. but if u want to try something you can ask him if he could do just as good or better than that and get a record deal?! and if he says no then tell him that until then to stop! and if he says yes... then say"well i dont see u on american idol or anything like that or getting anywhere" am i right or wrong? Well I hope I helped!
Tell me the outcome!
**Ashley

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okay, my mom has been going to NY with her boyfriend like every 2 weeks for a month and half..and other times before it. whenever this happens..she says i should watch my brother and sometimes she would sleepover in the city and then it is required that i stay home and watch him. Well, i am getting annoyed with this becuase i want to hang out with my friends..but i can't just tell her to stop gong out, she has a right to also, but i am 16 and i have the right to go out too..How do i talk to her about this and what do I say? PLus..whenver i do get to go out if she is in the city, my friends have to give me rides and they are getting annoyed.

When your mom has time... try and sit her down calmly.. and tell her straight up that u know that she is an adult and that you are a teenager and that she should deff. have the right to go out and everything... BUT you are a teenager and you need to be with your friends at this point in time. And also that through the experience so far you have learned so much on how to take care of kids better... but now after doing all of this you want to go out and you want her home at some points and also tell her that at some point it might be nice if she could come home and spend some sort of time with you.
I wish that i could help more but i dont exactly know the whole entire situation.. But i hope I helped! let me know what u think and what happens!
**Ashley

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I have a BF(boy friend)and he said he was goin' 2 call me but he never did is that any sign of he wants 2 break up with me?or doesn't want to call me no more? i rate very high.

~~GRAPE~~

Grape..
Is this the first time? cuz if not then no.. he probably got cought up in something and forgot about it. Not in a mean way though...If ur gonna be with a guy this is something that you have to lear.. guys never call when they say they will... Hope I could help!
**Ashley

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