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so theres this guy i like but we never hang out i guess u can say we're from different crowds but i love talking to him but i cant tell if he likes me too we have so much in common and he makes me laugh so hard so how do i tell if he likes me

The best way you can tell if someone likes you is if they look into your eyes and do this thing that makes you think they like you. I think that if a dude likes you they would stare at you most of the time there around you. So check his body language and just check the way they look at you.


I hope I helped

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i really really like this boy named james i cant stop thinking about him its just i know he will never be interested in an ugly girl like me. and all my friends know i fancy him and they wind me up. ii dont know what 2 do cos i really really like him but i know he wont be interested in me :( can you please help me :(

What you need is some confindence and a great self-esteem.. Why would you lower yourself like that?? But anyways try to impress him all you need to do is just let him know how you feel. When your around him just look the best you could be because you wanna make him want you and like you. Just look pretty Im pretty sure you not ugly dont down yourself!!

Hope I helped

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My parents have recently told me that they might get divorced. I actually found this as a shock because they used to fight a lot, but the fighting seemed to have stopped. I've been really upset because if they do decide to divorce, than not only will my parents lives be different, so will mine and my 3 younger brothers who have no clue what's going on. Anyway, what kind of stuff happens in a divorce and what should I expect? How can I deal with this?

Okay I dont know how your parents will decide how to go about the divorce but it will be tough on you and your 3 little brothers.

Sorry to hear the bad news.. But when couples divorce and they have children they may go to court to fight for custody on whos keeping the children but if they decide on there own then that good. But what will happen is if your mother gets to keep you and your father gets to keep you 3 brothers what will happen is you will be aloud to see your father once a week on a weekend or once a day depending on what the judge has to say.. But anyways.. Also it will be rough on you if you want be able to see your mother or father together living together because they will be split apart and see either you father working hard at his job to afford child support if your mother wants to get money to take care of you or he has to give lots of money a month for you and your 3 brothers.. Your mother will may have to take a second job and spend long hours on the night working hard not having any quality time with you or her 3 sons. You may have to become more of an adult and take up and help around the house and may have to get a job as well..


But its all on what your parents decide to do..
It will be hard on your little brothers the most because they dont know whats going on but if they see your mother/father packing and they may ask where they going and then they say going bye-bye son they may take it really really rough...

But I hope they work out there diffrences

hope i helped

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okay. i love my boyfriend to death. i feel like i love him a lil to much. i trust him i really do. he has showed me that i could trust him and that i have nothing to worry about. we pretty much spend every day together. but when i leave him and i'm not around him, in the back of my mind something feels werid. this is the 2nd guy i have been in love with. the 1st one moved outta state. could i be holding back how much i really love him bC of the last relationship? yes, i have talked to him about this, he understands me and listen to me, he is pretty much what i have been waiting for to come into my life. i just don't know what i need to do i don't understand why i'm so scared to leave him everyday and be away from him, i've never had this feeling before

Girl its just love!!
You love him so much you just cant stop thinking about whats gonna go wrong just chill sit back and let God plan yall future if the love you have for him is true you need to stop thinking about it and let it be because the love you have for him is x2 much love he has for you he listens and understands you thats a true man

keep him and never let him go

hope i helped

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Is urine suppost to be yellow? Or is it better if it's clear?

Urine is suppose to be clear because if its yellow or green that means you do not drink lots of water like neccassary.

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My tonsils are getting red and they have like white specks on them. It's really gross. Is this strep throat?

Either you have strep throat or your throat just may be really raw meaning real swollen and red like raw meat consalt your doctor immediately!!

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i like this girl but, how do i ask her out?

Well if you like her then what you need to do is win her over by making her laugh, writing her love notes expressing your real feelings, maybe even taking her out somewhere where yall both can talk and have fun..

I think you need to first treat her as a friend then in the end expressing your real emotions towards her.

Girls love to laugh just be your self.
Crack jokes and make her feel like she never has before

I think if your the shy type just ask her out in a love note

hope i helped

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Okay im 15, female,and from USA. I really like this guy who still likes his ex, ex, girlfriend and she has a boyfriend. well this guy and i talk all the time unless hes around her or his other best girl(friend). He is everything i want and more. We are best friends also and i have only had 2 girlfriends and i have never been kissed or anything else. I'm sorta afraid of guys . I mean not reall ybut im afraid at waht they can do . But also he has experience in making out and thats all but i just dont know how. I really think he likes me . I mean we always talking and we can just talk forever. Our teachers cathes us looking at each other every once in awhile. like in the middle of class. well thats my story thanks!

Well if you really have feelings for this guy I think you should go for it! If he still has feelings for his ex than maybe you will have to back off and see what happens next.. But if yall have such a grwat connection and you think he likes you then give him hints that you like him too..

Alot of flirting helps...
Maybe even sitting on his lap if you have the guts lol..

But anyways all you have to do is relax and act normal..

Also Practice kissing your hand or in a mirror it may help..

Or you can practice with a real trustworthy guy friend who you feel will help you learn how to kiss.

Hope i helped

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ok so these guys in my Spanish class pick on me always.. they always call me monkey and stuff and make noises too... its really annoying and they do it cause they think they're funny and i've tried to ignore them and it didn't work.. and i told them to shut up and that didn't work either what should i do?

Maybe talk to the principle. That is the best thing to do so thoses dumb guys stop bothering you. Hope this advice works

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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.


even though you are going through a phase you just want to die you need to fight it!! You need to get your life back together! first by getting your life together you can see a doctor to fix all your promblems then get back in the game and later you will never feel like killing yourself again


please don't try it remember you can go to hell for doing this it an't worth killing yourself!!

please don't kill yourself!

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how soon can you get pregnacy symptoms ?

soon you have sex you might get some symptons if you are pregnate. that how soon you can get them hope i help

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Pls help me, I'm so confused! I'm 17/M, and black. I've always been real popular with the girls and I never questioned my sexuality bfore but now I do cuz I'm very confused about my friend Steven.

He is very different from my other friends who are mostly hiphoppers, he's got spiky, black hair that is long in one side and I think hes gothic - very pale and white, and like real skinny and pretty like a girl. He also has many of his friends wearin' only black.

He is one year younger than me and I guess I've been quite protective towards him all along. I always stood up for him when some of the other black guys wanted to beat him up because he's white and wears gothic-kindda clothes and even eyeliner.

Latey I've become more and more obsessed with Steven and I can't stop thinking about him when we're not together and even think of how it would be to have sex with him?
I know that he's bisexual cuz he's told me, and I think he knows the effect he has on me and it's like it's humouring him. I sometimes get the feeling that he's actually teasing me and I don't know what to do

I try to convince myself that it's just curiousity, but I'm not too sure? I have NEVER been attracted to any other male bfore and I really don't want to be gay! It would be such trouble with my friends, my family, my whole life!
I relly need some advice, and fast!

you have to face the fact!! If you are a guy that is attracted to a guy that mean your gay! Im really sorry to tell you this but your gay.If you can't stop thinking about someone that means your inlove since you can't stop thinking about that guy that mean your gay! Face the facts you know it but you need to get use to it!

im sorry for this news but its true

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what are some tips for making out and kissing?

i need to know everything!

the guy will start kissing you on the lips then trying to kiss you on neck and you just sit and kiss him back!

hope i help

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its kinda weird that i have my own advice cloumn here but yet have more problems then half the ppl here... anyway...

my best friend who ive known since i was like 0 is a year younger then me and this is her freshamn year and shes messing her entire life up shes sneaking out all the time and having UNPROTECTED sex with a boy shes not even dating and who is 17 and whos using her and she knows it but wont stop and shes hanging out with the wrong ppl and her parents favor her older sister and shes just ruining everything for herslef shes a georgous girl and was validvictorian in 8th grade and has everything good going for her and is throwing it all out the window ive talked to her numerous times about all this and she says shes gonna change but doesnt and im just afraid shes gonna end up pregnany with a mixed baby and ruin her life forever PLEASE HELP ME thanks in advance!

Maybe you should call the police. this is sexual abuse!!!! You should really contact the police cause this just plain wrong!!

Maybe if that guy is put to jail for sexual abuse she might stop!!

This is the right thing to do.

trust me!


hope i help

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im thinking about having tomarrow be a beauty day. idk its weird but try to play aroudn with my hair and make up. and.. anything else. so yeah.. anyideas..?

a bunch would be good and i dont feel like going out to get anything for it but maybe down the street or something because we have a little 7 11, nails and more, and drug store close by that i could walk to.

thanksss

for hair
1. curls
2. braids
3. 2 curly hairs sticking out with twist in the back
4.straighting
for make up
1. a lil touch of pink lip gloss
2. light pink eye shawdow

well this all i got hope i help

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I keep crying cause of this and it's making feel so stupid. My father has always yelled/cussed at everyone about the stupidest things, which already upset me. But now, my mom is starting to start yelling at me about the dumbest things. I cried for about two hours cause of it the other day. Do I even have a reason to be crying? My mom used to be the only person I could talk to whenever my Dad upset me by yelling at me, but now I can't even talk to HER about it cause she just does the same thing. Is there something I can do to either take my mind off of it or get them to stop or SOMETHING?

I am really sorry cause you are crying! Maybe try to figure out what you are doing so worng then stop doing it so your yelling parents will stop yelling at you and make you cry!

hope you feel better

good luck!!!

Hope i help

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theres this boy i like we have broken up 4 times he recently broke up with me and im trying to get him back the first time because ............. well im not actully sure but he did and the 2nd because i was "suposably" flirting with other guys the same for 3rd and becuase we were fighting and this time because i kised another guy witch is why he broke up with me for 3rd time and i gues he thinks im gona do it agian i want him back i know he stil loves me and i stil love him ive said that i would change when he neds time to think i would give it to him but he wont talk to me and work it out what do i do and dont tel me to move on tel me how to get him back!

If you want him back you have to make him trust you again. You need to show you mean it when you say you never going to do it again. You must promise him you are never ever going to do that ever again!! Talk to him and say please i promise i won't ever do it again then tell him i love you so much!! Then say please i want you back!

Then after all that stuff i promise you he will get back with you again

hope i help if need anything else ask me

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I met my bf online a year ago. We talk a lot, like everyday. We usually talk on skype, which is by the way a good program. One time, I called his house phone and asked for his name but an old lady said there is no one by that name who lives in there. I called the next week and i got the same answer. For some reason, he gave his password in his e-mail and maybe he forgot to delete his sent mails and read that all his mails had a a girl's name on the end. I asked him about it and "he" vehemently denied it. He said, he's sharing an e-mail account with his cousin Leah. Well, the pictures he gave me was that of a guy and he sound like a guy..he sounds husky. I am in love with him and I don't think I could accept the fact that my bf is a lesbian pretending to be a guy. He sent me pics of a guy, and even a driver's license with his name and picture on it. I asked him many times if he could get a webcam so i could view him but he always say, "yeah, next month baby..." until i completely forget about it. We plan to get married and he's coming over my country this christmas (as what he said). Now, im really confused. I don't know where to seek help to make sure if my bf is really a guy... My bf is from ontario, canada.

Ask him are you lying to me
ask him are you really a guy
ask him plz today show me a webcam and i belive you
if doesn't show you that means he is probably lying to you.
ask him why does every time i call i answer to a old lady

ask him why does you never show me the webcam

tell him he better not be lying to you or the realationship is over

hope i help!!

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I called my mom an assh*** and an idiot because I was upset with her and she took away my computer for the whole Saturday, she stole all of my money I'd been saving up for years and won't give it back. (It was about $130.00) and she slapped my head three times. while I was doing my duty in the bathroom. Oh yeah, and she hasn't stopped yelling at me for an hour and I can't do anything this whole weekend. Did I deserve all of this being taken away? Did she overact?

And I told her sorry but she doesn't believe me. I need to hang out with my friends! But how can I?

you probably need to call the police for child abuse. Because if she hit you and take all your money you been saving up and never give it back that is child abuse.also if she hit you for really no reason is child abuse. I understand why you call her a ass hole because she in unfair she is like the meanist mom ever!! sorry to tell you that but is the truth contact the police when you are readdy.

hope i help



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I am 13 and Well i have a bf and he is the best bf i could ever have but we havent kissed yet. I dont care or anything but he said when hes ready he will do it. Im ok with tht but Im really scared when hes going to do it and if im going to be good a it.
I just need to know if i should kiss him 1st or really wait for him????

Another thing is I have a girl best friend and a guy best friend and there dating each other. Thts not it but. They always make out everywhere when Im with my bf and it get annoying. It makes me feel weird becz I havent kissed my bf yet.
And on one field trip we had they were making out on the bus and like touching each other everywhere and me and my bf were just sitting there with his arm around me. They keep on telling him to kiss me and it gets annoying. I just want him to do it on his own and mi girl best friend keeps on telling me that hes a bad bf becz he hasnt kissed me yet. It just gets annoying becz she doesnt support me at all. I just wish they would leave me alone. What should I do on this whole situation.
PLEASE HELP ME.

ignore the people that keep on getting on your nerves!! when your readdy kiss him and when he is readdy yall shall kiss don't make people make yall kiss You should do it for the love yall have for each other. Your friend is being mean to you tell her you is not like her you don't want to make out like her. when you and your bf is readdy kiss don't do it cause anybody want yall to kiss do if yall really want to.


don't let people get it your way ignore them!!

hope i help if you need any else to talk about talk to me

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