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Well i am 14 years old and I am a female !! Ok me and my friend always get in big fights and she is always tellikg me on how i am such a baby for liking some of male stars like aaron carter and Dream street ! And I don't know if she is a good friend or not !! I feel like she doesn't like me for who i am !! And she always wants to get together with me but she is always busy when I am and I am always busy when she is !! Well i hope u can give me some advice if ahe is a good friend or not !! thanxs !!
Needing advice !!! (link)
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If your so called "friend" doesn't like you for who you are...then she ain't a good friend! A true friend really wouldn't care about the fact that you like male stars. My advice, talk to her, 'n if she doesn't care about a thing you say..then drop her 'n get a friend who cares. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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alrightt now i have this ex who just doesnt know when enough is ENOUGH !! i mean let alone does he call me naims, he does it almost 24/7! its like he assumes hes over me but all he can do is say "ugh shes so ugly!" and stupid stuff like that. better yet hes trying to get his friends (also mine) turned against me ! hell be like "say shes ugly or ill kick u in the balls" and its like .. umm no? THERE MY FRIENDS TOO JACKASS !!! but the thing is the 3 ppl who he hangs out with are like super close to me. and there all bigger than him and more mature so idk y they dont jus put him in his place. hes spoiled and it makes me mad to see him get his way and always talk about me. schools in like 5 days and i knowww wen he sees me hes gonna jus not shut up as always so what should i dooo :[ (link)
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Wow...he sux. Just ignore him. Go on with your life, 'n forget about that jerk. If I were you, 'n I saw him at school, 'n he started sayin all that crap...then honestly...I'd say "SCREW YOU JACKAZZ!!!!!" Well, yeah~ lol, that's what I would do. Not that very mature...but hey~! it seems like he deserves it. Hope I helped!
-tori
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this is gonna be long so bare with me!
i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said "when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you." well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never hurt me like that. i started school today and this girl that i've known since i was really little, she had gone to another elementry school than me, i found out that she might go out with him. i told her not to because of the things he did to me. she wouldn't believe me at all. so i told her if you want to go out with him, fine, but if you come crying to me telling me that he's been messing around with other chicks i'm just gonna say i told you so. she said okay. she told me later in the day that he still had feelings for me and now she's not sure if she wants to go out with him or not.she won't believe anything i say! she thinks i'm just doing it because i'm jealous and i'm not. i love my boyfriend and i DO NOT like this other guy anymore and today i found out that she gave him HEAD and that's she's not a virgin. If she did that to him then that's the only reason why he's gonna want to be with her is because of that. and if he finds out that she's had sex then he's gonna want to have sex with her as well. He treats girls like shit and i can't take it... she came up to me today saying "em, it makes me really annoyed that you say that stuff about rob and it's not even true." i was like okay... and you definately know first hand? she's only known him for a month... NOT EVEN! THEY ARENT EVEN DATING! should i just be straight forward and tell her what he's gonna want from her? or should i let her get hurt? (link)
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Do what you can to get her to understand that he's not a good guy. Just keep trying to get it through her head. If she doesn't wanna listen,...then that's her choice not to listen to you. But still, keep telling her. So I don't just watch her get hurt, just be straight forward. Good Luck, 'n hope I helped!
-tori
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okay well i want a boyfriend and like i like this guy and i talk to him and say hi and stuff should i ask him out? (link)
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Sure, go ahead, if you like him. Good Luck, 'n hope I helped!
-tori
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alrighty then my best friend that i've been bests friends w/ for like 4 yrs won't speak to me. and i had no idea why until yesterday --- i'm going out w/ chris and i just found out that she had feelings for him and i told her that i'd break up w/ him just so she could try to have him and she wont say a word and i try to talk to her but she just ignores me so i dont know if i should break up w/ chris...i mean i really really like him and he treats me right.....doesnt try to have sex w/ me, he just holds my hand and kisses me, and is always there when i need him most...i just dont know wat to do...help please i need it
~*lashes*~ (link)
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No, don't dump your boyfriend just because your friend is being all ignorant about it. She's just jealous.'N because you just figured out yesterday that she likes your b/f, then that's not your fault, it's hers for not telling you.'Cause how were you supposed to know? So it's not your fault, so don't feel bad about it. Your friend is just being a bad friend to you right now. Give her some time, 'n I say don't dump your boyfriend.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do?? (link)
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It doesn't matter how they look. That shouldn't be what people look for in a person. Unfortunately, that is what people mainly look for in a person. So, as long as he is a good 'n sweet person, 'n you like him, then go for it. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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okay well see im going to the movies with my 2 bestfriends and they are bringing their boyfriends!! see i dont have one so i feel left out what is a good way to get someone to like you? (link)
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Ask one of your guy friends to come with you. It all comes in time when it comes to getting a boyfriend/girlfriend. There really isn't a way to get someone to like you. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him? (link)
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This is something no one can decide for you.You have to decide based on the help/opinions we give you.I had a boyfriend, and he cheated on me once. I like him so much,I just wanted to forget about it and still continue with our relationship. Unfortunately..that didn't happen.He dumped me the next day because he said he didn't wanna "hurt me" anymore. I was miserable. Later on, he asked me out again, and I said "yes." All my friends keep saying "once a cheater, always a cheater." Honestly...I get pissed when they tell me that, but I just avoid it. And we're still together. So, it depends what your heart tells you. If you really like him, then get back with him.Good Luck, 'n hope I helped.
-tori
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this is going to sound idiotic but i have never had a boyfriend and im 13!!!!!! i dont think im ugly and i am really smart and stuff but no matter how hard i try no one has asked me out!!!! (link)
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Hey~!You're only 13! A lot of 13 year olds don't have b/f's 'n g/f's.It all comes in time.'N you never know, someone might like you, but they might be too nervous to ask you out.Be yourself, 'n that's all that really matters.Don't try too hard.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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ok.. Ive been going out with this guy for a while and i just talked to his best friend and told me hes been cheating on this other girl with me.. I have heard her name b4 from his brother and i asked his best friend if that was the name and he said yeah, i really dont wanna lose him, but the bad part about it is i lost my virginity to him and he said he lost it to me, well his best friend told me out of the blue that he wasnt a virgin.. I don't know what to do, i actually fell for him and i know he is going to give me an excuse or make up a lie when i go and try to break up with him !! I dont know what to do!!!I will rate 5's for the effort!!! (link)
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Talk with him, 'n if you feel like he's not telling the truth..dump him, cause that's following your heart.If you really trust him, then stay with him.'N you don't have to rate me a 5, I'm just here to help!*^^* Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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I'm on my high school cross country team and we've been having practice everyday since early august. Well anyway, a few days ago, i saw this really pretty girl that i didn't recognize. So i went up to her and asked her if she was new to the school district and she sed yes. I introduced myself to her and tried to make her feel at home. I figured that if I made her feel at home, we could become friends and maybe more. She's really nice and i like her alot. What should I do now? (link)
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Get to know her more while hanging out together somewhere.So far you're doing great.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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me and my friend has been friends for a long time. And she was always has a attitude and makes me look like the bad girl... I really dont want to loose a friend but i am getting really sick of her wat should i do? (link)
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Hey~just talk to her.But DON'T get mad at her or start yellin 'n stuff, it'll just make it worse.If you 'n her have been friends for a long time, 'n if she's a true friend, then she'll listen.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out? (link)
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It depends who you like better.If you still like your ex better, than tell the other guy that you'd like some time because you just broke up with someone else.I'm sure he'll understand.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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i like this kid, ive been friends with him since kindergarten n weve dated before but it never works out. im starting to like him again, and he kind of likes me but i dont want the relationship to fallto pieces again. and i like to be single, yet i really like him. what should i do? (link)
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Do you like being single better or do you like the guy better?You choose, it's your choice.I'm just here to help, 'n give some help.So, if you want a relationship with him again, then go for it.If you're afraid that it'll hurt your friendship between him, 'n don't do it.What cause your relationship to not work out in the first place? Think about that, 'n see if it might apply how your relationship will work out the second time you go out with him, if it happens.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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hey tori. my name is sami and im 14. i really like my guy friend. he used to like me too at the begininng of summer but now that school has started i dont know anymore. i try hinting that i like him in my AIM profile and stuff and then he trys to guess who it is. and when he guesses himself i just say no. im too embarassed to say yes cause i dont wanna make our friendship too akward if he doesnt like me too.. ive asked my friends and they dont think i should tell him. i dont know im crazy about him but what should i do? thanks in advance. -sami- (link)
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hey Sami~ Be brave!You're 14, 'n you'll have a lot more opportunities with guys.Give it a chance 'n say "yes" when he guesses that it's himself that you like.If he says that he just wants ya'll to be friends, then just take it.Don't get all upset over it.If he ends up saying that he likes you too, then get together.Your friends might say not to tell him because they don't want you to get all upset about it, but take the chance.It's better to take the risk 'n know what you wanna know 'n get an answer, than staying quiet and being really curious the whole time.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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I've been dating this guy for a year..and i love him with all my heart..But my mom doesnt approve and she doesnt want me being around him without her around..She doesnt trust me at all..what could i do to get her trust back?..i really need help!! (link)
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Sit her down, 'n talk to her.Try to get her to understand that she has nothing to be worried about.Ask her why she doesn't trust you.'N just explain to her, why you think she should trust you.Good luck, 'n hope I helped!
-tori
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can you make a guy love you?! and if so..what kinda stuff can you do?! (link)
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You can't make a guy fall in love with you.Guy or girl, a guy can't make a girl love him, 'n a girl can't make a guy love her.Love just doesn't work that way.If it did, we'd all have the people we love with us right now, but we don't.It comes from the heart.Just try talkin to him, 'n be friends with him, that might be a good start to a relationship.But don't try to make him love you.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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I was obbsessed with this guy for like 6 months. I just got over liking him but my one of my best friends told me she went to a party and asked him to slow dance and they danced together 3 times. When she told me this i was speechless even though i stopped liking him. I am kinda mad that she danced with him-or i think i'm mad. I'm not sure whether or not i'm mad or just jealous...i still might have feelings for him. Do you think i'm mad at her or just jealous? (link)
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I think you still have feelings for him..but you just don't notice it.You never know.Love leads you to crazy directions~!!Yeah~ I think you're jealous.Hope I helped!
-tori
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Saturday I was out at the mall with my friend. We go out together almost every night, but we never really have set plans...just hang out and find random things to do. While we were shopping, my cousin called to ask if I could babysit. I told him I would call him back and I told my friend. She told me to do whatever I wanted and I asked several times if she would rather me hang out with her. She said it was fine and I apologized because I felt like I was ditching her. She still told me it was fine. Well she hasn't talked to me since. I've left messages on her computer and her phone and still nothing and I dont' know what else to do! Did I do something wrong that I am not seeing? And should I just give her time to come around? (link)
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I don't think you did anything wrong.'N you basically answered your question."should I just give her time to come around?" Yeah, that sounds like a good idea.She might have said that it was fine 'n all, but maybe to herself..it wasn't fine.Just keep trying to get in touch with her, 'n give her some time.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up? (link)
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I think you two should take a break.You're right..it won't be the same if she likes someone else.Of course you want her to be with you, 'n you're also right about the fact that you can't force her to be with you.I suggest you two take a break, to straighten her feelings 'n your feelings.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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