Hi I am a 13 year old girl, I've been noticing lately how some people stare at me. I weigh 97 lbs. I am 5'6, I have some acne(my doctor precribed some really good medicine for my acne), I have long brown hair with sandy highlights. I look absolutely fine. I smile at people but some of them just stare at me with hatred in their eyes. Why do people stare at me?
As normal people, we sometimes expect the worse out of our situations. I look at people sometimes when I'm just casually walking to class and what not and they stare back but I wouldn't say they had hatred in their eyes, especially knowing they didn't know me or know anything about me. It's a tough sitatuation to think something like that is happening, but just be positive about it and try not to stare at people. When walking, keep your eyes fixed at a certain distance. It would make people think you have a destination in mind that you need to get to. You seem like a pretty girl from what you described. Let's just hope everyone's secretly jealous because you're gorgeous :) I mean, if you were a celebrity or a model, they'd definitely stare. ;) Hope everything works out!
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Can I take summer classes if I get awarded for financial aid in the 2012-2013 year?
Can I take summer classes when I recieve financial aid?
I have aid and I still got money to take classes in the summer. It all depends on your award and the school. Talk to your financial aid department. They'll be able to pinpoint all the information you need.
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I've noticed that these days, everybody belongs to a group of people, and that people call these 'cliques'. I know what a clique is, and I am part of one at my school. Teachers always say crap about how we kids need to get along with one another and that cliques should be "outruled" from public schools. What is so wrong with a clique? Are they dumb? Are they considered a sterotype? I'm confused.
When I was in middle school, a little while ago, but not too long, I did notice that certain people tended to hang with each other but honestly, it seemed like everyone was friends with one another. It's just that some people were more closer than others. I think teachers feel that cliques exist only to include a certain group of people who share certain things in common and excludes all other people from it because they lack that thing the group has in common, or whatever the reason is. I don't think anything is wrong with a clique, because there's nothing wrong with having a group of friends with similiar interests. I mean, isn't that why you guys are friends in the first place? I think teachers want their students to feel that they can be friends with anyone and that a student shouldn't feel bad or negative about him/her self just because they don't belong to a group of friends. Everyone in a 'clique' to me, should always be willing to expand and make more friends, and not stuck up about being in such. They aren't a stereotype, but it's common to find certain 'cliques' with people who have distasteful personalities. Just keep that in mind. Always be open to meeting new people and making friends. It's middle school, and I say from experience, make the most friends you possibly can at this stage of your life because when you get older and become slowly separated from the people you're used to seeing on a daily basis, you'll always have the assurance that there will be someone else that you know and can talk to in the future, in high school for example and maybe even college.
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I'm a 17 year old girl, and I'm a very sensitive person. I'm quite self-conscious and constantly worry about being judged. I have been this way my entire life.
For as long as I can remember, my parents have been making snide and sarcastic comments to me about what I wear, what I eat, my acne, the fact that I've never kept up a sport or instrument, etc. It's not that they sit there and laugh at me for having a pimple, it's more like, "Sure, eat more of that greasy pizza, that'll help your skin." I guess I'm supposed to laugh it off, but I get offended and try to make some clever comment back, which is usually more rude than clever, and gets me in trouble.
I can tell that they're coming from a good place (trying to get me to change my behavior or improve myself), but they're doing more harm than good. I have told them repeatedly that I don't like it when they mock my intelligence, but they just get angry with me and tell me that I can't take a joke. Yup. I can't; I just have a private cry and a cigarette or two.
What can I say to make them realize that I am NOT okay with such comments? Thanks :)
Hi there. I understand what you are going through because with my parents it's the same deal. I haven't figured out a way to solve the issue either but I try to ignore them as best as I can and remember that my parents want the best in me. Our parents aren't psychologists and they don't understand how things register in young minds. My parents make fun of my face if I happen to break out as well, not realizing that there are certain times when breakouts are more likely to happen. Getting back at them by being fiesty, I'm sure you've noticed, won't help you either and I can tell that you're a type of person who doesn't let people walk over you, no matter who they are and that's an admirable trait. If the matter is that serious, then you need to tell your parents that you think they're acting really negative towards you when it comes to "making fun" and that you don't take it the way they mean it and you would prefer it if they stopped. That's another alternative. Remember, no one is psychic and most people can't read emotions, so the best way to let someone know how you feel about something is by downright telling them. And at least it's your parents, who you know will always look out for you and I'm sure will adjust to make you happy. :)
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Super random question ha.
18/F not that it really matters.
So my dad went food shopping last week and got me 4 boxes of Souffers mac & cheese that you heat up in the microwave. He had gotten them out of the open freezer in our grocery store so he thought since it was open that it was actually the refrigerated section and put the 4 boxes of mac & cheese into our fridge when he got home.
It was no more then 10 hours later that I noticed his mistake and moved them to the freezer.
A few days after I did that my mom came to visit and I was telling her about it and she said it might not be safe to eat them now and that I probably should have just kept them in the fridge and cooked them at a lower time. She says it could go either way, they might be okay or I might get sick if I eat them so now I'm worried.
We don't exactly have money to be throwing around so I really don't want them to go away but I don't wanna find out they're bad by throwing it up (which my mom joked would happen).
So the question is, what does anyone else think? Do you think they're still edible? Our fridge I'd say is a little colder then most, if you put an open cup of water in it for an hour or so, the top layer of water becomes frozen, bread that wasn't completely wrapped tight becomes hard as a rock (compared to bread in zip locked bags that just gets cold, not hard)
From a microbiological standpoint, if the mac and cheese was meant to be in the freezer then that means the temperature of the freezer is cold enough to inhibit bacterial growth. If at any temperatures above the recommended, there is a chance that bacteria can grow. I wouldn't worry about the quality of the food if its been less than a day but I would cook it out fast to make sure nothing happens to the possibility that it was in the process of going bad. More than likely, cooking the macaroni would have killed the remaining infection.
I would just buy the box macaroni and cook it :) It tastes better, less preservatives, you know and it comes in different shapes haha
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I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of two years. Since the first time he left for college over a year ago it's been set in stone for both of us that he'd fly back for both of my proms (I'm still in highschool). Prom is in April so we booked the flights about a week ago. I just recently found out there is an age limit for prom this year, and my bf is one year over the limit. I'm trying to talk to administration about it, but knowing my school they aren't very lenient about rules. If worst comes to worst and my bf isn't allowed to come, even though we've already booked his flight home, I don't want to go stag. The problem is I know my boyfriend is going to be extremely upset if he even finds what I'm thinking.. I went with my friend to his school's prom last year and as a result my bf and I got into multiple arguments and my bf still hates my friend to this day. I know it's kind of selfish on my part, but prom is sort of a big deal (my bf said so himself!). But I don't know if having a date is worth upsetting my bf....I'd rather not go to prom than go stag honestly. If admin. won't let us break the rules, should I take someone else as my date (I really do want to go to prom, but preferably with my bf), or be kind to my bf and go stag/not go at all?
Wow that sounds pretty complicated. The first thing you should do is talk to your school admin first. If that works, everything will be set and you would have no worries. If he can't go because of his age maybe you should get his opinion on what you should do first. I personally don't feel that it's
right to take another person as a date to prom when you have a boyfriend. Maybe there's a group you can go with?
It's a tough decision to make but please have the support of your bf in what you choose to do. :)
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we know eachother and shes a shy and quiet girl but adorable anyhoo i confessed my love to her and asked her out i think she likes me but idk and she said that she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now cause of school but she said she'll end up having a relationship with me idk what that could mean i thought it meant that either she wants me to wait for her or something anyhoo then i said to her that i would wait for her and she said thats really sweet so i assume she wants me to wait what do you think it might mean?
Hi there. I do think that she does like you but can't have a relationship with you although once you both declare that you like each other, I don't know how you can go back to making things normal around each other. If you continue to talk, a relationship might end up forming. But if you are willing to wait for her, that is sweet, just keep in mind, depending on how old you guys are that school will be an ongoing thing.. even when you're on breaks and whatnot so just keep in mind that you can't wait forever for soemthing that won't happen. Also theres the possibility that she's scared of a relationship too.. You should try to talk to her some more and make sure that she is not scared but if its what I first mentioned then respect her wishes and continue to be her friend and be there for her, she might realize that she wants a relationship after all. :)
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Hi, I wasn't sure what section to post this in. I am a 19 year old female.
So my pubic hair started growing when I was about 12, and it grew a lot.
The problem is that I don't know how to remove it. I've tried shaving, but I just got heaps of red dots and it was painfully itchy. I tried using hair removal cream (that you leave on for a few minutes, and then take off), but that also gave me a rash. Ive tried cutting the hairs with scissors, then shaving, but it made no difference.
I have no idea what to do now, every time I try to get rid of it, I get a painful rash and it grows back really quickly. And because I shaved it, it is now three times as worse as it was (its on my legs and reaches up really high)
I have extremely sensitive skin due to a skin condition. I even get a rash/cuts when I shave my underarms and legs.
Should I just go and get it waxed? I am afraid of this also causing a rash and being painful because of my sensitive skin.
I'm pretty sure if you wax, you'll get the same symptoms. I think you should talk to a/your dermatologist for any kinds of hair removal creams for sensitive skin. It's most likely due to the skin condition that you have, that your skin becomes itchy and irritated. Just remember to always use a fresh blade and to prevent itching for me (because I get it too, minus the skin condition), I use a cheap hair conditioner as shaving cream.
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hello all...i m from india 22 i m a very gud girl but before 3 months i had cmpleted my graduation and had no job.I was free at home and i wathched porn and masturbated rubbing and all ,I broken my hymen by inserting 2 fingers in deep down,i bleed...after that i m scared i am not even concentrating in study.i wanted to tell my mom about broken hymen so i told her that i am having itchy feeling in vagina we went to doctor.But doctor did not said about hymen rupture.I am not finding any way to tell my mother i cannot tell her directly i m totally confused but i m totally pure...i waste a lot of tym on net surfing to check for hymenoplasty i am totally confused.
Hi. I understand your concern. I am Indian too and like you, I know what the pressure is for you. I've grown up in America and as you know, it is quite different here in how we view issues like these. I know it is hard for you to think of yourself pure because of what you've done, but you need to realize that it's all in the mind. Please try to relax your mind as you have not done anything wrong. The only person that you would want to talk to is either your mom, or the person you end up marrying. You have nothing to worry about physically. It is all an emotional feeling that you have and hymenoplasty is very expensive and is not very safe. When the time is right for you to engage in sex, you should have no worries and no problems. Please concentrate on your studies and don't let this issue bother you. No one has to see you but you. And remember, everything is in your mind and how you perceive it is how you understand it.
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19/f
I am in my freshman year of college. I live in the suburbs and commute to my school, which is about 20 minutes from my home. During my first semester I had a lot of trouble making new friends. I have a few friends but it's hard to hang out with them since I am not really around much, and since I'm not there on the weekends. I feel so alone and every time I think about going back to school (I'm on break right now) I just feel a sense of dread.
I really want to be able to meet new people and start over this semester but I don't know how and I'm so anxious that it will always be this way and that I will always have no friends.
I was thinking about rushing a sorority this semester but I'm so scared that I won't fit in and that I won't connect with anyone since I don't live there.
I feel so hopeless and I need a way out. Sometimes I even want to kill myself beacuse I can't take it anymore.
Please help me.
Not having friends in your freshman year of college does not mean it's the end of the world for you. You still have three more years to go. I just transferred schools and I had a group or a small set of friends I hung with. Now, I have no one. It is quite lonely but here and there you do meet people. You have to realize that people our age, we already have our established personalities, friends, cliques, etc so it will be a bit harder at our age making friends. I strongly believe that's why sororities exist anyway, so if you feel that you want to join one, then go ahead. You will always have the opportunity to observe on the outside how the other girls behave and act and you can see whether it is the environment for you. College is all about adjustment. But always remember the REAL reason you're in college, to get an education. That's so much more important than having friends but it is equally important to maintaining a positive atmosphere for the next semesters to come.
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Here's the thing: I'm sixteen years old and I really like this guy who's twenty four. You don't need to tell me.. I know. It's bad. Let me start off by saying that it's not a sexual/physical kind of attraction. I mean yes, he's attractive. But that's beside the point.
I'm sure the majority of you are wondering, how could I have even gotten at all involved with someone of his age? The thing is, he's one of the youth leaders at my church. Yeah, I know. You don't have to say it. I know it's terrible. And don't me wrong, I don't plan on doing anything at all, anytime soon. I don't even think I'll ever tell him. At least not until I'm eighteen.
Look, I know it's wrong. I totally get that. It's inapproprate, I totally get that. But there's still that part of me that believes I have a chance with him (not now, of course, but) let me tell you why. Let me start by saying I could be totally wrong about these. But: He's hugged me, totally on his own, without me even needing one. He's joked around with me, while playfully hitting my hand. We've talked on Facebook about how people in today's society need to stop judging people and let them do what they want with who they want. Also, he's sent me smiley faces. But I'm sure that's nothing. Anyways, I've caught him looking at me and looking away right when I do. We've had moments where we look at each other for a while, etc. Whatever, a lot has happened. My point is, it sometimes slightly seems like there's... something there. But at the same time, of course, he's a youth leader. He's a pastor's kid. He's naturally and supposed to be nice. But I seriously feel like some of those things... they're unexplainable. Y'know?
Anyways, like I said, I'm not going to do anything and I'm not going to tell him. I definitely don't want to do anything to get him in trouble or ruin whatever it is that he and I DO have. So I'm definitely waiting for any of that. But there's still that part of me that really likes him. He's so real. And so chill. I don't even know for sure if I want to tell him in the future, for fear of losing him as a friend. Or an accquaintance. Or whatever he is. But at the same time, I've noticed those little things, as aforementioned. You can't tell me that any other youth leader would act that way towards any teen girl. But then again, I could totally be wrong about all of that; although I don't think I am.
I am totally, completely and most definitely over thinking all of this. And I know that. I'm just not sure of what to do about it. Hell, I'm not going to do ANYTHING about it yet. But it's just so hard to hold this inside. Especially when I see him at church and such. And what am I supposed to do when he does something else a little.. "off"? Obviously I can't say or do anything about it!
In conclusion, I really like this guy. And the little things, not gonna lie, I don't hate any of them. Haha. But it's going to be hard waiting like 1.5 years until it'll be okay to tell him how I really feel. But how can I even know for sure that he feels the same way? He SOMETIMES acts like it, sometimes. But what it all comes down to is if how I feel is going to ruin everything. I'm not exactly sure what "everything" is in this case. I'll figure that out later.
And in your answers, please don't restate themes like "only time will tell" or "if it's meant to be, it will happen". They're both true, no doubt about that. But I'm looking more for an answer that will really help me solve all of this.
I'm really sorry this was so long and I really appreciate you guys taking the time to read all of this. Even if it's all stupid.
Overall, I don't want to bluntly tell you that you're overthinking this but you have to realize from a 3rd person point of view, what you described is the one thing you're fearful of. The fact that you're 16 and he's 24 is a big sign right there. I know that most guys wouldn't take a younger girl very seriously. Honestly. They might be into it for the fun of it, but when it comes down to business, they don't want any part of it. I think you're smitten by an older guy and you're looking for excuses to tell yourself that you're into him. Smileys don't really mean much as I have spoken to normal guy friends and they are friendly and send smileys through facebook. I wont deny that you have a connection. You really do and I'm happy for you that he gives you positive vibes. But I don't want you to get your hopes up for something that's highly unlikely. Sometimes we want to feel that we're one in a million, but if everyone felt like that, then we're really all just the same. Yeah I know that was a bit depressing advice. I just want you to be careful with your feelings. Waiting till youre 18 doesnt really make a difference in telling him because he will be 26. No answer can really solve your problems, it's all in the mind and how you choose to perceive your reality.
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I have a friend and we're like best friends. A while ago she messages her crush on Facebook. She finds out tht he has a phone and starts txting and calling him. Then she asks him if he likes her and he said a little bit but more as a friends. Then a month later she tells me that he told her that he likes her. And then I started having problems with my friends and got mad cuz everytime I wanted to talk to her about it it's always "ok, hold on I'm talkin to ????" and then she never texts me until I'm like "HELLO???". I want our friendship to go back to normal but everytime it does something happens again. This is the 5th or 6th time writing about her, all for different reasons. Someone please help!!!
If she let her affections for guys be stronger than you, then she's probably not a good friend to begin with. Just the fact that she didn't know who you were was a big sign right there. How could you forget someone you used to talk to in a month?! That was really rude of her, honestly. She probably thinks you're some girl desperate for her attention now, unfortunately if she treats you that way. Be cautious of people like that.
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I met my friend back about 2 months ago when she first moved into the apartment complex. This woman is 52 and lives alone. I live across the hall from her so I would visit often. We both gradually started getting into refurbishing our old furniture, shopping together and hanging out. We seemed to of got along very well. (I am 27) suddenly, yesterday I come home from my mothers to find all my board games I gave too her grandson in front of my door with a note that read already have thanks anyway then to find out she removed me from Facebook and now walks by me like I don't exist?. I don't know what the hell too think. I went out of my way to help her many times. I even texted and called her bit no answer. I am not good with confrontation in person...should I move on or what?
Yeah, I believe you really should ask her. She does owe you an explanation. It would be the right thing to do, on her part.
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18/f Ok, so I've been working at my job for about 6 months now, and there's this guy (he's 21)... He and I have been talking a lot over these past few months. It's kinda gone through stages, like at first he just plain teased me, and we weren't at all that close. Then he started bugging me more and more, and that bugging turned into playful teasing. Then he started hardcore flirting with me. Now he's acting very sweet, and teasing a bit too. My coworkers make fun of him for how obvious he is. Like he says "Only for you." a lot, says things like "Lisa, you make me smile." and goes "Liiiiisa, you should massage me~", and I fake scold him, blah-blah. Well, after knowing me for sometime now, he's discovered I'm a Christian, and that I'm "innocent", as he likes to put it. Also that I'm pretty serious about relationships. But he still keeps flirting with me regardless. And it's like, hardcore too xD! He knows I disapprove of drugs, cigarettes, alcohol, etc., so he kinda brags about how he quit smoking, doesn't drink anymore, stuff like that. He hasn't asked me out yet, and at first I thought he was just being a player, flirting 'cuz he's bored or something, but then I thought, maybe he's trying to take it slow?
The problem is, I was recently chatting with a girl at work, and she said she went on a few dates with him around 6 months ago when she first started (before I started working there). She said a friend hooked them up. Well after those few dates, he told her that he had recently gotten out of a 4 year relationship with a girl, and that he wasn't ready for another relationship, so he stopped seeing her. He doesn't talk to her at all, ever. Now I'm worried... I'm wondering if he just used that line as an excuse, or if he actually meant it. If he did mean it then, would he still mean it now? If he finally asks me out sometime, will the same thing happen to me? Why would he flirt with me, knowing that I'm a relationship gal? What are your guys' opinions? Thank you~
Considering he told the girl at work that, 6 months ago, he might actually want to move on. I know when people break up from a relationship and they're pretty stressed about it, they don't really go flirting with the world. I don't think you should use the girl's input over your own. I mean, don't just void it completely, but just remember it and keep it in the back of your mind but continue to do what makes you happy. If he knows you're the relationship type of girl and he's a good guy, then he will or should let you know what his deal is, or at least he should ask.
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I can't believe I'm actually at this point. I'm due in May, and something just happened tonight that scared me to the point of considering this. My husband is, and has been, stuck in TRADOC for almost two years because he's being medically discharged from the Army for having three herniated discs brought on by the training. TRADOC is just an acronym meaning you're in training and not in the "real" Army. So being in an environment where they treat you like crap for almost two years he has slowly been slipping into madness.
He called me at 11:30pm tonight, it's after 2am right now as I right this. I can't sleep. He asked how much gas I have in the car and said I had enough to go to base and give him his two handguns fully loaded. I instantly had that sharp sick feeling overcome me. I asked him why and he said don't worry about it. I said I refused to take him two fully loaded hand guns and to try and fall asleep. He said he couldn't. He snapped because he heard someone in a different bunk talking sh** about him. I couldn't believe that was what set him off, I mean, no matter what in life people are always going to talk about you. I stayed on the phone with him to calm him down. And I tried to call his unit's CQ office to tell them, but no one answered. What a nightmare right? As far as I know he went to bed. I can't sleep because it's like I'm waiting for a call about him doing something. It is so stressful, and sometimes I get depressed thinking "Who the hell did I marry??".
This isn't the first time he's presented signs of being mentally unstable. It's starting to really scare me, and I DON'T NEED THE STRESS. I mean, I got woken up at 11:30 and it's after 2 right now.. I don't need this, you know? I told him that and he made it seem like it was all about him. And it has made me think of how scary it is that I'm carrying HIS CHILD.
Do I want to raise a child with an unstable father? What if he ends up being institutionalized, or actually hurts someone or himself? I plan on calling SOMEONE in his unit to tell them about this, I won't just let it go. But, what if he ends up completely losing his mind and then this child will have a crazy father? What if I end up leaving him because I can't handle it anymore? And if I do leave him, would I be able to support this child all on my own? (I'm 21) I definitely wouldn't feel comfortable leaving our kid with him alone if it ever came to that. I've been here for him and I've tried to help. What if it never gets better? I want nothing more than for this baby to have an amazing life. I come from a broken family, so I don't want the same experience for my child. No life is perfect but I keep thinking how my baby would probably have a better life with a couple where neither of the parents have list their mind.
What should I do? I've been crying about this. I'm so lost, and I want the best for my baby but then I also want to keep it. I know I'd never be the same again, but it's not about ME right? What is the right thing to do? Not what's the easiest, or the hardest thing to do - the RIGHT thing to do. If this escalates, or never gets better after he's out WHAT SHOULD I DO? Leave him and give my baby up for adoption in the hopes of them providing a more stable environment, or just wait it all out and see how it goes?
I really don't know what I should do. And I'm really sad about it all. Please help me.
Hi there. I'm sorry to hear about your problem. It really is a tough decision to make and there is no right decision either. You honestly have to do what is best for you. Your husband seems to be suffering from PTSD. There is help for it but the success rates of getting over the issue is something I'm not well aware of. I'm no psychologist. I understand when you say you are from a broken family but does that really mean that because you are from a broken family, you can't raise a child, with the possibility that it will be on your own? I would honestly try to see how life would be different with your husband away from taht environment first before you make the decision and make sure he seeks professional help. I know you say the baby is due really soon. Leaving your husband too might make him escape into more madness too, he might even come after you for all you know if you decide to leave him and give your baby up for adoption. I think you need to think rationally and fast and try to see if you yourself are able to provide for your baby and try to talk to a doctor/psychologist/psychiatrist/therapist and explain your husbands symptoms and see what they make of it. Try to rule out all possibilities of you keeping your baby first before you decide to give him/her up. The last thing you want to do is live with regret. I hope things work out for you. Take care.
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So im a freshman girl and i have a friend that always talks to upperclassman and texts them non stop. And th guys are really nice and stuff. Shes not that pretty and shs really short and has acne but hAs a decent chest and not that skinny. I don really have acne and im skinnier but have smaller boobs. And she dreasea in the plain tees and i dress a lot better. Im not conceident. How do i become more lile her?
I don't think you should try to be like anyone other than youself. You already described yourself as having no acne and you dress better. Forget the boobs. I think you should just work on being more outgoing and confident in who you talk to, that is all. The more expressive you are the more people will like talking to you.
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I am a freshman in highschool,and im a girl. Ok, so there is this guy i really like, and he is really shy. He always talks to me about the same subject everytime, before the bell rings in the class we have together, and he gave me a picture he drew today. But the wierd thing was that we were on opposite sides of the room, and the teacher had said to sit down, and he still came over to hand me the picture, but didnt say a word. It was just a picture/comic about his spanish teacher. So does he like me? Im not sure, but he pays an unusual amount of attention to me, and he is so nice to me(sometimes he is a jerk, but i know its cause hes tryin to look cool infront of his friends) Please help me!!!! DOES HE LIKE ME?
P.S. i am not particularly attractive, cause im overweight and have acne problems, but my eyes and lips are full and beautiful, and i dress very stylishly, so this is why idk if he would possibly like me or not)
There is a chance that he does but you're clearly overthinking it. Just let it take its natural flow. I'm sure that he is being brave and trying to show you that no one can stop him from what he wants to do, especially when it comes to making a good impression on you. Don't worry about your weight and acne. Real guys can see past that and hopefully that is what he is doing. If he's nice to you then you have nothing to worry about. As for acting like a jerk around his friends, I would be a bit concerned because that is not the way to treat a girl you like or any girl for that matter. All I have to say is take things easy and you will be fine. :)
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Ok so theres these 2 boys i like who like me but idk who to choose i've known them both for a long time ones straight fwd while the others shy what do i do?!?
Choose the second because if you truly liked the first, then you wouldn't have looked at the second. :)
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Ok so me and my best friend like the same guy and I think he likes her too because they are always flirting. He doesn't know that I like him but I think he knows my friend does. I think she kinda forgets that I like him sometimes and I get pretty jealous and then feel bad because she's my best friend and I know I don't have a chance with him but he knows how to talk to girls and is really cute and I have no idea what to do!!!! Please help!!! I am a girl (obviously) and I am a freshman in high school
Hi there! I'm sorry to hear about the dilema you're in. I know you feel awkward and jealous that he likes your friend and your friend likes him too. You need to ask yourself what you want. Do you want the guy? Do you want the friend? If you tell your friend, there is a chance that you might put a strain on the friendship and she is your best friend after all, especially if he likes her too. If it were me, I would let them be if he liked her and she liked him back. I just wouldnt see how I would be able to fit into the picture without making myself feel uncomfortable around either of them. Im sure there are lots of guys out there and of course, they wouldn't complicate the situation like this one. You need to talk the options and the possible consequences through your head and see which one gives you the better outcome. Hope I've geared you in the right direction. And remember, it's your freshman year, you have lots of time to get to know the rest of the people in your class and school and you will meet more as you move into higher grades :)
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im a sophore in high school and i have never hooked up with anyone. This week i met a really cool guy, SENIOR guy, named John. Well out of know where, we eneded up haning out this weekend. I was really excited since I had a huge crush on John and all, so i wanted to be with him, and yes , also makeout with him too, if there was a chance. So anyway, we did makeout. it should have been perfect. it was at the beach, at night. so pretty. But the makeout felt weird. im not sure why because I really liked him, but i felt like gross and wanted to stop. like it just felt wrong. Im not sure anymore if i like him, or if theres seomthing wrong with me? like why dont i like hooking up? and am i gay or something? like what??? please help.
Hi there. I know how you feel, the first time you do these things you might feel a little uncomfortable doing them but they take time to get used to. I dont think you have anything to worrya bout. You dont have to think you're gay either because regardless who you made out with, you would have felt a little uncomfortable. The same thing happened to me too, as you become more comfortable with the guy it gets easier. :)
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