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Prom
I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of two years. Since the first time he left for college over a year ago it's been set in stone for both of us that he'd fly back for both of my proms (I'm still in highschool). Prom is in April so we booked the flights about a week ago. I just recently found out there is an age limit for prom this year, and my bf is one year over the limit. I'm trying to talk to administration about it, but knowing my school they aren't very lenient about rules. If worst comes to worst and my bf isn't allowed to come, even though we've already booked his flight home, I don't want to go stag. The problem is I know my boyfriend is going to be extremely upset if he even finds what I'm thinking.. I went with my friend to his school's prom last year and as a result my bf and I got into multiple arguments and my bf still hates my friend to this day. I know it's kind of selfish on my part, but prom is sort of a big deal (my bf said so himself!). But I don't know if having a date is worth upsetting my bf....I'd rather not go to prom than go stag honestly. If admin. won't let us break the rules, should I take someone else as my date (I really do want to go to prom, but preferably with my bf), or be kind to my bf and go stag/not go at all?
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Wow that sounds pretty complicated. The first thing you should do is talk to your school admin first. If that works, everything will be set and you would have no worries. If he can't go because of his age maybe you should get his opinion on what you should do first. I personally don't feel that it's
right to take another person as a date to prom when you have a boyfriend. Maybe there's a group you can go with?
It's a tough decision to make but please have the support of your bf in what you choose to do. :)
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