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i need help iam virgin but hymen broken
hello all...i m from india 22 i m a very gud girl but before 3 months i had cmpleted my graduation and had no job.I was free at home and i wathched porn and masturbated rubbing and all ,I broken my hymen by inserting 2 fingers in deep down,i bleed...after that i m scared i am not even concentrating in study.i wanted to tell my mom about broken hymen so i told her that i am having itchy feeling in vagina we went to doctor.But doctor did not said about hymen rupture.I am not finding any way to tell my mother i cannot tell her directly i m totally confused but i m totally pure...i waste a lot of tym on net surfing to check for hymenoplasty i am totally confused.
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Hi. I understand your concern. I am Indian too and like you, I know what the pressure is for you. I've grown up in America and as you know, it is quite different here in how we view issues like these. I know it is hard for you to think of yourself pure because of what you've done, but you need to realize that it's all in the mind. Please try to relax your mind as you have not done anything wrong. The only person that you would want to talk to is either your mom, or the person you end up marrying. You have nothing to worry about physically. It is all an emotional feeling that you have and hymenoplasty is very expensive and is not very safe. When the time is right for you to engage in sex, you should have no worries and no problems. Please concentrate on your studies and don't let this issue bother you. No one has to see you but you. And remember, everything is in your mind and how you perceive it is how you understand it.
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Hello! Firstly, there is no need for you to panic, its ok for your hymen to be broken. Some girls break their hymen playing sports, riding a bike, dancing, or doing other physical activities. Not every woman breaks her hymen during sex. Don't worry about people thinking you are not a virgin, or not pure, because having a broken hymen does not always mean you have had sex.
Also, I want to say, do NOT get any kind of surgery down there for your hymen. It will most likely be an unprofessional who will take your money and hurt you. You do not need to 'fix' your hymen. There are a lot of people on the internet who will lie to get your money, or to hurt you. I really want you to understand how easily someone can trick you, especially when you're asking for a surgery like that.
It is ok for a woman, especially a 22 year-old woman, to masturbate. You are still pure.
Also, your doctor probably did not say anything about the broken hymen because its normal for a woman to have a broken hymen.
Lastly, if you are not comfortable with telling your mom about it, you don't have to. I don't tell my mum when I masturbate, I am just not comfortable with it. Most girls would be scared to tell their mum that, because it might be a bit embarrassing.
You have nothing to be scared or confused about. Concentrate on your studies, there is nothing wrong with you :)
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