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my friends secret: her brother is abusing her


Question Posted Wednesday January 9 2013, 4:30 pm

I'm 10 and my friend is 9 and her dad abuses her and I think her brother also or he did abuse her brother because he's 20 now well he touches her and stuff and he forces her to have sex and he put glass up her "down there" and she told me but she told me I can't tell anyone but she tells me everyday now stories and its sad and I'm scared for her. Her brother protected her but now no one knows where he is please help me

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Additional info, added Thursday January 10 2013, 1:53 am:
I meant her dad is abusing her sorry and he abuses the mom also.

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logo08876 answered Saturday January 19 2013, 4:03 pm:
May I make onemore Sujestion dont beafraid to go to the police with it and let theme now as well there is noi shame in you doing the right thing to help here

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JacquelynLupei answered Sunday January 13 2013, 9:08 pm:
Report it to the school counselor and talk with your parents about calling the police. No matter if she want's to tell or not, your responsibility is to your friend. YOu have to protect her if she can't protect herself. This is very stressful, especially for someone young like yourself. Just tell someone. The school counselor or principal and your parents would be your best bet.

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Angie123 answered Friday January 11 2013, 9:11 pm:
Sweetie, just make sure everyhting is true...and if you feel it is then you have to tell an adult. It is not right! Your friend is getting hurt and for her safety and happiness you have to an adult like your mom or your dad. I really hope you follow this advice.

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MandaBear answered Thursday January 10 2013, 6:52 pm:
You need to tell your parents about this. You cannot keep it a secret even though she may have promised you not to tell. This is illegal. Your friend is getting hurt and you have the power to stop it. If you or your friend don't feel comfortable telling your parents then tell a teacher at school or a counselor. Tell any adult that you trust and they will help you and your friend. Don't be scared or nervous to tell an adult about what is happening to your friend they will call the police and make sure that no one hurts her anymore. I hope that your friend finds help and I hope that you make the right desicion by telling an adult.

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karenR answered Wednesday January 9 2013, 11:07 pm:
Your friend needs to tell someone who is older that will listen to her and help her. A teacher, an Aunt, maybe even YOUR mother. If she has nobody she feels she can trust, she needs to call the police. This is a crime.

Since you are underage, you cannot have a column on the site right now. We won't delete until you get a few good answers but we will have to soon.

Its great you want to help your friend. If she doesn't do something, talk to your mom about this. She might be mad at first but you can't let her be abused.

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