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My friend and I like a guy
Ok so me and my best friend like the same guy and I think he likes her too because they are always flirting. He doesn't know that I like him but I think he knows my friend does. I think she kinda forgets that I like him sometimes and I get pretty jealous and then feel bad because she's my best friend and I know I don't have a chance with him but he knows how to talk to girls and is really cute and I have no idea what to do!!!! Please help!!! I am a girl (obviously) and I am a freshman in high school
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Hi there! I'm sorry to hear about the dilema you're in. I know you feel awkward and jealous that he likes your friend and your friend likes him too. You need to ask yourself what you want. Do you want the guy? Do you want the friend? If you tell your friend, there is a chance that you might put a strain on the friendship and she is your best friend after all, especially if he likes her too. If it were me, I would let them be if he liked her and she liked him back. I just wouldnt see how I would be able to fit into the picture without making myself feel uncomfortable around either of them. Im sure there are lots of guys out there and of course, they wouldn't complicate the situation like this one. You need to talk the options and the possible consequences through your head and see which one gives you the better outcome. Hope I've geared you in the right direction. And remember, it's your freshman year, you have lots of time to get to know the rest of the people in your class and school and you will meet more as you move into higher grades :)
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