Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
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Im 16, and i can honestly say that i dont know much about myself, what i really like, what i dislike what i want to be and who i am. I think its mostly because i act different, maybe even fake around each person i talk to all day long and by the time i get home, and im finally alone, i dont know what personality is mine. or really anything about myself at all. I dont want to be like this, but i am. I act certain, different ways around people to get them to like me. I know my friends should really like me for my personality, but how can i show my personality when i dont know what it is and when i dont have the confidence to be me? Im really confused, and im not really sure where to go from here. (link)
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Hello,well your teenage years are and can be very confusing,highschool and or middle school unfortunatley teaches you to be someone that you are not to be liked and fit in with others,thats ok to a certain degree but if you are not being true to yourself then those relationships are pointless,most of the people you meet and are friends with in school do not last because everyone is not being true to themselves. The person that you are when you are alone and at home is your true self.There you have no one to judge you,no one to impress and you are just acting and feeling you wan to feel. Whatever you do for fun that you want to do and that brings joy to you not because your friends like it are the things you like.You can always try to write down the things you like and dislike from music,tv shows,maybe a favorite class,favorite book,favorite game..these ideas will lead you to bigger ideas of what you actully like and dislike.Say your favorite class is science(biology)maybe you want looj into becoming a biologist,just learning about life and the world around you, maybe love to dance or sing.All you have to do is take time to think and look deep within in yourself and say who am i?.You may not find this answer right away but it will come in time just be patient. Everyone is unique in there own way and has special attributes and characteristics that make them the way they are no matter who they are.So examine yourself when you are at home and the things you think about and do,this will give you complete insight into your many personality traits. Once you do this you will learn to be more comfortable with beng your true self around others because right now you cant because you dont know who you are exaclty. You are very special and beautiful inside and out and you dont need anyone to tell you that you have to beleive in yourself and everything that you are. Once you become your true self and show it to the world you will start to connect with new friends and if they dont accept you for you then they do not deserve to be in your life.Remember you always come first,your emotions and feelings,those are what matter most,if you cant be there for yourself then you cant be there for others.I hope this helped and if you have any further questions on this topic I would be glad to help you,I can easily come up with questions to help you look within yourself and figure out the things you like and dislike,it will take time but it will be worth it,you can always send me a private message,dont hesitate to contact me. The best of luck to you,YOU ARE AMAZING,IN EVERYWAY..NEVER FORGET THAT!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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ok ive used tampons for about 3 years now, so i dont need to worry about bleeding when i have sex for the first time right? cuz the poppin has already been done.. (link)
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Hello,well popping your cherry is breaking the hymen that covers the insdie of your vagina,your hymen can be broken or torn from anything,from exercise,stretching and especially using tampons. I am more than sure that you will not bleed the first time you have sex because yes you are right,your hymen has already been broken!:)I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I feel like my mom just really have a natural reaction of trying to sound insulting to me. Which doesnt quit. How do I not feel so angry. (link)
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Hello,well I am sure your mother does not want to insult you or make you upset I mean you are her child and she loves you.However you have to realize that parents go through alot,with money issues,her job and daily stressors I am sure she wants nothing more than to make you happy but when all that strees builds up unfortuantley they tend to take there anger and frustrations out on the people closes to them. If you guys are close or even if you are not you should simply sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with her,simply start with how was your day or are you ok.It is always good when you have someone that cares about what you are going through.You cant turn off anger because your emotions can sometimes be uncontrolable bu you can try to put yourself in your mother shoes and be optimistic about the situation.Nothing lasts for ever and I am sure these insults will cease in time.I know for a fact that if you sit down and talk to her about this about how you are feeling that things will change.Sometimes and parents and ppl in general dont know the way they are affecting othets.She probably has no clue you are feeling insulteed and the only way she will find out is if you tell her exactly how you are feeling,that may be hard since you have alot of built up anger and resentment against her but it has to be done in order to see a change or it will get worse and you dont want that.Communication is key in any relationship so you have to be open and honest with your mother and things are garuanteed to change because she doesnt want to hurt you in anyway,she loves and cares about you!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I've recently started to have sex(him and I have both been checked out, no STD's). When we have sex he obviously likes to touch my g-spot(i think the clitoris is also known as) but when he does I get a really strong sensation going through my body that literally makes my knees and my body go weak and I cant handle it so i make him stop and because im afraid of what might happen if i let him continue. How can I be able to handle the feeling when he does it?
Another thing is, He likes me to be on top and I say yes, but it hurts ALOT more than being on bottom. I've been on top quite a few times and I dont seem to be getting any use to it because it still hurts everytime. Is there any way I can get used to the pain or make it become less painful? (link)
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Hello,well the clitoris is not the g-spot,every women does not have a g-spit but the pleasue it has is very powerful.However,the clitoris has tons of nerve endings that can cause intense pleasure and clitoral stimulation usually leads to an orgasm,what you are feeling when he stimulates your clitoris is this extreme pleasure before and probably when you are habing an orgasm,this pleasure is what sex is all about the pleasure can be very intense for some women where they can take it anymore,Nothing bad will happen if he continued,the pleasure would just continue or increase.About being on top,you dont have to do it everytine he asks you,its you choice to if you dont want to then tell him,he may not know that this postion causes you pain if he did he would probably not ask as much.The pain may subside in time once you get use to it but if the postion you are in isnt comfortable then you may want to change it up to find something that will be pleasurable for the both of you.Communication is key in any relationship snd if you cant communicate that you are in pain or what you like or dont like then it makes it difficult,both of you should enjoy the sex that you have,if one of you is in pain then it is not as enjoyable.So just try to be honest and tell your partner exactly what you want or dont want it will be very beneficial!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I like this guy and he likes me. Hes annoying at times and just not someone i want to be with but i cant help but like him anyway. I kind of just want to go out with him to get him over with. I just want to kind of explore him and then move on. Is it bad or weird to want to date someone just so that you can end it ? (link)
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Hello,honestly I think that is bad to be with someone together to get it over with,that would be a pointless relationship,a relationship is a big step although you may not realize it now and peooples emotions are very sensitive,he may like you alot and would love to have a chance to be with you and if you just play with his emotions for your own pleasure it may hurt him deeply.If you hoinestly cant see your self with him then be upfront with him and tell him,It is bad to lead someone and or pretend to like them becaue if someone was to do that to you it would be hurtful.You can explore him without being in arelationship with him,maybe if you got to know him he could be less annoying and you could really get to know more about him you know!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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There's this girl in my high school that decided to go to a different school for one year and now she's coming back here...but I really don't want her to.
I know that it's not my choice but hear me out. I thought she was SUPER nice the first day that I met her. Her smile looked really genuine and she asked for my name and things about me and we talked a lot. Then after a couple of weeks, it seems like she hates me. And when my friend transferred over here (it's a guy), she finally started talking to me again, only just to keeping asking "What's his name again? Ohh long did you know him?"
And there's this one time one of my friends were feeling down and she said. "Come on, we're best friends. You can tell me what's wrong." And after he did, she kinda immediately blew him off, as if it wasn’t interesting. I asked her, "he's you're best friend?" And she replied, "pfff no!"
I heard her mumbling to someone that she has so many friends on facebook and not even half of them are her friends! About 3 months after that, I kinda physically disliked her too. Seriously, I thought I was going to die around her; we had one class together and it wore my body so much because there's just an aura that she gives off when we're in the same room that makes me want to cry. It's not healthy either.
So...she's coming back in a week and I know I can't prevent things but what can i do to control myself? It's a stupid issue/problem, I know and if she's in one of my classes again, do you think it's best if I switch classes? (link)
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Hello,this is not a stupid issue it is very valid and I totally understand where you are coming from,In life you will meet people that you could care less for,people that have certain attributes bout there character that just turn you off to the point where you cant stand to be around them. I agree with you that she is not avery nice young lady and she does not treat people with the respect they deserve,I beleive she has problems within her self that have not been resolved so she takes it out on others and she does not even realize it.Unfoirtuantley when you come across people like this there is nothing you can do personally to change them or the way they act. You should just worry about yourself and hope that they will change for thre better. I absolutley do not think it is a good id ea to switch all of your classes or anything because of one person,you should not have to sacrafice for the way someone else is,you should simply keeo your distance from her a much as possible and zone her out.If it gets really bad you can always tell her how you feel abotu her in the most polite way you do not want to be rude or mean as she is because I doubt if she notices the effect she is having on you or the way she treats and acts towards people. Once you tell her this or even when you distance yourself from her she will get the picture that you dont want to be bothered with her anymore because of the way she treats others and you,because you dont want to be around people that bring others down.Remember you hav to do whats best for you and what make you comfortable and you cant change others just work with what you have!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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i asked this question before but i have a little more detail there's this guy i liked since last year May, he was in my english class. He seemed like he liked me, he was always staring at me and sometimes looking away when i caught him.i told him on msn that i liked him and he didn't believe me then he said he had a g.f but even after that he would still stare at me and stared to act fidgety when i passed him. he even talked to me on msn after that. i asked some ppl that know him if he had a g.f but they said they highly doubt that he has one...okay i'm not being racist or anything but he's indian and i'm black, so i was wondering if that was the reason why he said he had a g/f because i heard they can't date out of their race or religion or he just didn't take me seriously? maybe panicked? what do you guys think? i'm starting to think that maybe i should just get over him even tho it's gonna be hard:( (link)
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Hello,I mean I dont think he lied to you honestly,those people that said he didt those are ther opinions,They probably dont think he has one because of the way he may look or act,but I am sure they fail to realizze that relationships are not base on looks,personality is key in a relationship. Liking someone or having a connection with someone is not based on a race,people may perefer a certain race but I dont think that is what is going on,I beleive he really has a girlfriend but he may think you are pretty and obviously he enjoys talking to you or he wouldnt be staring at you or talking to you on msn. My advice is t take it slow just talk to him as a friend since he has a girlfriend,he already know you like him so if things dont workout with her you never knoe ehat could happen,so just think positive and dont worry.Dont give up just go with the flow and let things run its course its the only thing you can do,you cant force anything or it wont happen,things happen for a reason so just dont worry about it so much and be calm!!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Okay,first off i haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years,(15/f.blah.whatever)and it only lasted a month. I know people always say "love yourself before you can love someone else"- i do, and i have great friends and i'm really happy.I know i dont need a guy to be happy- Its just I reaaaally want to be in love! Its not helping that all of the sudden theres like romance everywhere,but me, all aloonnne!its like taunting me haha.I keep envisioning meeting "the guy of my dreams" at like the movies or the mall-because i heard if you do this you can attract it to happen-but none of it works!I can't be set up with people,no no no. I'm not ugly,i have a great personality. Its just the fact that its impossible for me to ever meet a guy anywhere! So i guess what i'm asking is- How can i meet guys at like the mall or something like that? And have you ever had a -love-at-first-sight thing happen to you? If you have,what happend? Thanks so much for the imput and advice! (link)
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Hello,you may feel like you are the only one with this problem but in actuality alot of people have this same problem and it can be pretty upsetting being alone. You are still very young and actually kids at your age do not share true love ,the relationships usually last for a few weeks and are gone,its just off and on with random guys. I f you want true love you have to be friends with someone first,someone that undestands you,tha you are comfortable with,someone that care for you and that loves you for you. You cant turn love off and on its rare to find true love because so many guy are still very immature and noot willing or ready to open up. Well you can meet a guy anywhere you go,just out in public a guy may approach you or you may approach him but since you are very young you obviously cant go to a club or anything so at school might be your best bet. Also when you are looking for love and for a boyfriends it usually never happens,things usually come when you least expect it I know it may be hard to get this off of your mind when you see relationships everywhere,but if you keep in mind an optimistic attitude and know that there is someone out there for you,someone special then you will feel that much better.It may take awhile for you to meet that guy but its such a refreshing and warm feeling to know there is someone special out there waiting for you,to care for you and to be there for you in every wya.dont fret your life is just beginning you are going to have plenty of experinces with guys do not worry. I am 17 and have yet to be in a relationship,I have talked to many guys but you will find that it is hard to actually meet a guy you connect with and that you know will be there for you,what keeps me going is the fact that I know that there is someone out there for everyone you just have to be patient.If you keep thinking about it and let it consume your mind it will make everything worse,beleive me I have been there,just go with the flow,go where ever life takes you and everything will fall into place and will be fine.Your time will come!!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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OKAAY . :]
This is a bit longggg . just sayin' ;]
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I was playing a volleyball game in an away gym and my friend , Ally , had a guy friend there , Lenny . Lenny had some friends there [ who were pretty cute BTW ;) ] After we'd played Lenny came over , congradulated us for winning [ YAY ] and asked the name of Number 10 on our team for his friend , Cole [ who was espcially hawt ! ] Then , Lenny talked to Ally for a bit and Ally indroduced Lenny and I to eachother . Lenny said , ' Oh yeahh , and her too .' and went over and told Cole our names ... I think ...
The problem here is that I'm not really the prettiest girl on the team , not that I'm not pretty , [ number 10 is surely pretty ] and it just kind of confuses me why he would pick me over the other girls there . Maybe this is just because no guy as hawt as Cole was ever asked me for my name ... I don't know . I also feel kinda weird about how Lenny asked for my name after number 10's . Maybe he forgot ? I don't know .
I'm sorry if this is a bit of a stupid thing to ask , but I'm just really happy about him asking my name . IT REALLY BOOSTED MY SELF-ESTEEM .
Ally also mentioned talking to Cole and Lenny on MSN one night and them mentioning me a bit . Ally's not really one that I can trust all the time , so I'm also not so sure about this one . But , I don't think she'd lie to me about something like that ...
I just want to hear someone else take on this situation . Is what all them said real ?? It might be a bit confusing , but hopefully you can figure it out .
THANKS :] (link)
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Hello,well I think he definitley asked your name as well,hey dont put yourself down I am sure you are a very beautiful girl inside and out and just because a guy is suoer hott doesnt mean he wouldnt be intersted in a girl like you.Sometimes guys see something special in a girl besides looks,matbe he thought you were a really good player,just becaue the other girl was pretty doesnt mean she is better than you in anyway. Everyone is special and unique in there own way. He obviusly wanted to know your name for some reason so that is a good ego booster,complimants are always nice but remember you dont need other peoples compliments or gestures to know that you are beautiful and amazing.Fell confident about yourself and remeber just because a guy is really cute or popular does not mean he wont be interested in you,its all about the connection you have with a guy and the feeling you may have for eachother.Think about it this way,no guy is out of your reach simpky because of your looks its all about personality so just be yourself and you will get a great guy because you deserve someone great and special!!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I have this huge crush on this super cute guy in my class. He’s so hot that im melting everytime I’ve bumped into him. But guys, this dude is out of reach. He did couple of tv shows and commercials, very talented and got so much potential, and I’m like a very shy girl , sitting at the back of the class and don’t talk much with the guys in my class. I know he noticed me looking at him and I think he started to be more alert with my existence in the class ever since. I don’t think he’s interested in me since we’re so different in so many ways. but hey, opposite attracts and he might wanna get to know me as much as I do-I mean, who knows right? Maybe I can get some advice over this.
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Hello,in my opinion no one is out of reach,its not about popularity or what you do when it comes to relatuionships,its all about connections and the way you two get along. You should never settle,you should aim high and get what you deserve.Every girl deserces the best and to be treated with the upmost respect and care.You being shy has nothing to do with you deserving him or not or the connecetion you two may have.I think you should continue with the subtle looks so he will continue to notice you and if you get up the courage you can even say hi to him and or compkiment him,tht will definitley show your interest but not being too obvious. Or you never know he might just come speak with you first,never put yourself down and feel you cant get something and that something or someone is out of reach, nothing is out of reach as long as your try,you never know what life will bring you.So you should be confident in everthing you do I am sure you are a beautiful girl inside and out so you should go for it you never know what the turn out will be,you may be surprised.Remember to always live in the present and go with the flow,dont try to rush anything just ket it happen and everything will be just fine and having a positive optimistic attitude never hurt either,makes you look at life and sitations in a new light.I hope I helped,the best of luck to you and if you have any further quesetions on this topic or any other topic I would be more than happy to help you,just send me a private message:).The best of luck to you,and remeber you can get ANYTHING you want if you try hard enough,look at it this way,EVERYTHING is within your reach!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I've got a very off period, and I was just curious does sex/masturbation have the ability to postpone a period in any way? If anyone has a clue, please let me know. I'm very curious. (link)
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Hello,there is absolutley no way masturbation can postpone your period,it can however soothe cramps and leep them to a minumum and possibly slow down the flow of your mensturation.However,having sex can postpone your period to a later date most likely only when it is your first time simply becaue your body is not use to this.Your body is always adapt to new things,your body has an apadtation process.When your body is introduced to new things it tries its best to adapt to its best abilities to protect itself from harm.When this happens you can have weird symptoms during this adaptation process,its nothing to worry about.Your period will be back to regualr in no time but there are also may other factors in iregualr periods.If you want more information on some causes irregular periods I would love to to tell you more.I hope this helped,the best of luck to you and if you have any more questions on this topic or any topic you can send me a private message!:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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me and my ex dated a few months ago, for about two months. we were crazy about each other, but we just didnt work out, for the stupidest reasons. afterwards, we tried to be friends, but i was mean and ignored him to try to make him want me back, and eventually we just stopped talking. well, now, after not talking for so long (but me still thinking about him everyday and missing him like crazy) he just got a girlfriend. and i mean she's really not that great, and he doesn't seem very interested in her. what should i do? talk to him? i never see him anywhere. so i could like text him.. but what should i say? and how should i act? or should i just be upfront and tell him i want him back even though that would probably scare him off and i'd get rejected. i mean, he DOES have a girlfriend. what to do!? =[ (link)
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Hello,well if you really have these feelings for him that are this strong then you should definitley be open and talk about it, it is worth a shot because you never know what could happen,you dont have to direclty say I want you back or anything because that would probably turn him off and even though you probably are not fond of his new girlfriend that would be pretty rude,just think if you were with him and an ex did that you would be pretty upset. just simply maybe say hi and if he does not respond like through a txt or if he calls and you dont respond then you know it wasnt meant to be and just move on,but if he responds you could just ask how he has been and that you miised talking to him,which is reasonable to say since you guys did date and where crazy over eachother. You should act no certain way just be yourself,acting differently will never work. If he really has strong feelings for you then he will more than likely come back to you but if not then you have to move on,that just means he is not the guy for you,there are plenty of guys out there for you and will like and accept for you for you,peoppe are put in your life for a reason but they are not there forever unless they are meant to be.Dont worry about it at all if he is not the one for you,I am sure you are quite young and even older women dont have realtionships and things just dontworkout,it just takes time to find that right guy!So just think positive and everything will be fine:)I hope this helped,if you have any further qustions I would be happy to help you on this topic or any other topic,just send me a private message,the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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having a new b/g friend how do u get them to give u oral (link)
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Hello,well when you are in a relationship you should always be friends first and really get to know eachother before you take that next step and jump into a relationship it is not healthy and when you are friemds first you know enough about eachother and are comfortble enough with them to tell them anything. They should know what you like and what you dislike even when it comes to sex,but you still have to be able to communicate with them to tell them what you want when it comes to sex or anything else. Sex is a very intimate topic but it should be able to be discussed openly in a relationship.If you have already had sex or even have not it will come into play soon and if your partner knows what you like in advance then when you guys have sex you will get exactly what you want and hopefully you will return the favor to your partner. There is always the chance that your partner may not be comfortable performing oral sex but that is where communication comes into play, you never know until you discuss it.So all in all just try to talk tothem about it and just let it happen:)I hope this helped,if you have any further qustions I would be happy to help you on this topic or any other topic,just send me a private message,the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I've liked this guy for about two weeks, well 2 months kindof but I was sure of it two weeks ago. But anyway he has no idea, and I don't know if he likes me or not, it's possible but I'm not totally sure yet. While I'm in the process of trying to get him to like me, what are some subtle ways I could drops hints to him that I like him? I'm not up to being totally obvious about it, I just want some simple ways I can sortof get him to maybe wonder it if you get what I mean. We talk the whole period in one particular class so thats my perfect chance to do it. (link)
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Hello,well as you may know you cannot get guys to like you,you just have to be yourself and they either like you or thet dont,guys have to accept you for you if they are really going to like you:)Well you can simply give him a compliment or two on what he is wearing,his hair or even if he is ready,his looks..you can say wow you look cute today or just anything that will get his attention, I am sure he likes talking to you so you should have no reason to be afraid and if you are really comfortable with him you can be upfront with him and tell him how you feel,that is if you are ready for this,dont be shy guys like a confident and blunt girl so they wont have to read between the lines, and communication is key so if you cant communicate with him then it may be even harder,so just be yourself and go with what you think sounds best for the given situation and time,I beleive your best bet is the compliments because they are subtle but gets your message across,the compliments can be given over a period of time not just one day to show your interest!I hope this helped,if you have any further qustions I would be happy to help you on this topic or any other topic,just send me a private message,the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I really, really, REALLY have a MAD crush on this guy in the 8th grade. I am in 6th grade! He barely talks to me, but sometimes he'll say "bye", help me cheat at cards, and one time he borrowed my pen without asking (because he knows he doesn't need to.. he's so cool!). I think he might like this girl but I hear they're just friends. Do you think that he thinks of me as "some kid"? How do I make him like me, even with the age difference? (link)
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Hello,well as you have hear age is just a number,it all depends on the connection and the fun you have with a guy when you are together,it is not simply saying I like you. Tbere is a chance he may like you but then again guys get really influenced by their friends when it comes to age differences.Guys usually talk and say wow your dating her she is so young,especially in middle school it is kind of a big deal but when you get older you realize that age is not that important unless you are speaking legally,guys become "alittle" more mature and not as much influenced by there friends as now but there are some middle school guys,a small amount,that might not care what there friends think. About this situation,i dont think you should worry about it too much I think you should just be yourself, you cannot make someone like you,and if you pretend to be someone else that you are not to like you then they may like you for a short period but then your true self will come out and things will change,you can just start with small things like saying hi and bye like he does and or complimenting him,but dont come on too strong it may be a turn off,so all in all go with the flow and be your self,you never know what could happen!:)I hope this helped,if you have any further qustions I would be happy to help you on this topic or any other topic,just send me a private message,the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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hello:) 18/female.
i have a good guy friend ben. we have a different relationship i guess you could say. he use to have a girlfriend of two and a half years but they recently just broke up. i'm the kind of girl who NEVER will text a guy first because i'm always paranoid that i'm being annoying or that they wont want to talk to me. well ben realized that we were not as close as we use to be and this was about 3 months ago when he was still going out with his girlfriend and he mentioned that he was the one who ALWAYS had to text me first. it's true, he does. but it's not like we talk everyday. we dont even talk every week. but when we text or see each other in person we talk about EVERYTHING like i tell ben sooo much because i trust him. the thing is, i've always liked ben as more than a "best friend" which is why its so hard for me to text him first. i overanalzye everything and if he didnt text back i'd feel stupid and start assuming he doesnt want to talk, etc. also when i dont know what to talk about i start being random and i also think that may be an annoyance. i'm just wondering though could not texting ben be a turn off? like making him always text me (when he ever even does) make him feel more distant from me? i just LOVE when he texts me first though because i know he wants to talk to me and it makes me happy :) i dont know what to do. (link)
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Hello,Well I think it could be a turn off about you not texting him frist because he wants to know that you want to talk to him,I am sure it makes him kinda happy when you text him as well just as it feels with you,but then again he may not like to text that much and like more personal interactions like when you guys talk in person,it maes the most sense. If you are comfortable with talking to him then it shouldnt be that weird texting him,you have to good communication skills with a guy and actually i dont beleive it is your fault when you text him,it takes two to have a conversation and if he isnt talking about much or not asking questions then the conversation may be dull and it may feel like it is your fault. I have had the same problem I mean sometimes guy dont communicate well and just dont like to text that much,you shouldnt think much of it that is just the way he is. I could see if you guys didnt have good or steady conversation in person then you would have something to worry about,and also if you guys arent leaning to a relationship or anything and are just good friends then you reaally have nothing to worry about,just calm down and go with the flow you have no need to be paranoid. Just dont worry and talk to him like you would a regualr friend and everything will fall into place!I hope this helped,if you have any further qustions I would be happy to help you on this topic or any other topic,just send me a private message,the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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This guy told me he liked me, I told him I liked him, and now, all the sudden on facebook, he's in a relationship with his ex girlfriend and her status messages are all ... " (link)
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Hello,well he is no good for you,if he really liked you then he would not be back with his ex or he would have atleast told you that his feelings for his ex are stronger for her than you. I know it is maddening and annoying to see them together but you should never show this guy any attention any more because the way he treated you was unfair and rude. Girls deserve to be treated with respect and loving kindness,we deserve the best and should never settle, he was just a bad apple in the bunch of many guys you will meet,dont worry about him or her because you will find someone so much better and will treat you the way you deserve,just think if he treated you this way he may be treating his current girlfriend badly as well.So no worries you should be glad he showed you his real self before you went any further with him because I dont think he would have treated you the way you deserve anyway:)I hope this helped and the best luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic you can send me a private message and I would be more than happy to help you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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So, I'm 16/f, sophomore. and I am attracted to this frosh (freshman) in one of my classes. we barely ever talk, but I don't know why, I always want to talk to him, or get him to notice me. He's not even THAT cute, he doesn't have perfect skin and what-not, but with him, it doesn't even matter. he has brown short hair and blue eyes. I'm usually not attracted to these types of guys, but he is so ... i dont know. I just can't get him off my mind, and I don't even know like anything about him. well i know some stuff, but I'm always trying to impress him when he looks at me. and hes almost 2 years younger than me. I dont know what to do or how to think or why this is happening haha. I guess I'm just confused? He doesn't show any signs that he likes me or anything ... or at least I can't tell. But, ugh ! I want him to like ask me for my number or somehting. I don't know haha. any feedback to my questions? (link)
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Hello,feelings and emotions can be very strange and unpredictabe,it is usually very hard for othrers to actually describe why they feek the way they do it is a mystry to them but all feelings are meaningful. Obviously you see something in this guy that gives you this instant attraction it does not have to be explained it is there and that is all that matters,you should go with your feelings and instincts sometimes. I am sure he wouldnt ignore you or anything if you just go and start a conversation with him just saying hello,or asking him about a question from clas or about homework even if you know the anwer or not lol.Just go for it to see what happens,he could end up being a great friend or maybe something more you never know what life might bring you!!I hope this helped and the best luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic you can send me a private message and I would be more than happy to help you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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15/f. boyfriend-15/m
Okay. I know I'm probably going to sound super stupid and all, but I'm beyond paranoid and this will just make me feel better. Yesterday, my boyfriend and I were making out. I had already told him I wasn't going to have sex if we weren't being safe. But, we got naked and he was on top of me. He didn't go in, and he says he didn't cum or anything. But, I coulda sworn I felt something. Or maybe that was just me? I don't know. I'm just so paranoid. And it's probably about nothing. I just need reassurance, I guess that I'm not pregnant. Haha ? :/ I felt really sick today and I don't know. I'm just weird. But yeah. Help ? :D Haha.. (link)
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Hello,You are 100% not pregnant. The only way you can get pregnant is through vaginal intercourse and you guys did not do this. In order for you to become pregnant the sperm has to fertilize one of your eggs and most of the sperm the at enter the vagina die before even getting close to your egg because of the acidic enviornment. I am sure what you felt was not cum and you are simply feeling sick because you are supr worried about being pregnant. Worrying and stress can cause physical symptoms. I think you should stop worrying because everything is just fine and if you keep worrying you will make yourself even more sick. Also even if you were pregnant you would not feel sick right away,most women do not have symptoms for maybe 2 to 5 weeks into pregancy. So just calm down lol,everything is fine:):)I hope this helped and the best luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic you can send me a private message and I would be more than happy to help you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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15m i recently told a very special girl that i like her and now im confused if weather she likes me or not. we were texting asking each other kinda personal level questions. Do you think she likes me or i have a chance. Shes a year younger and we've been friends for more than half a year. Any advice would help thanks (link)
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Hello,if you dont mind cn you send me a private message and tell me how she reacted when you told her this because that is basically the answer to your questions,you have to kind of read between the lines.Since girls are very emotional creatures and want that positive attention from a guy if you told her you liked her she would open up to you and tell you if she feels the same because girls usually try to wait for the guy to make the first move so they know that the guy is interested. From what you are telling me it seems as if she has a general liking for you that may get stronger, if she didnt like you she probably wouldnt be asking you personal questions,just shallow questions and I dont think she would talk to you as much!I hope this helped and the best luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic you can send me a private message and I would be more than happy to help you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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