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How do I keep it all in?
There's this girl in my high school that decided to go to a different school for one year and now she's coming back here...but I really don't want her to.
I know that it's not my choice but hear me out. I thought she was SUPER nice the first day that I met her. Her smile looked really genuine and she asked for my name and things about me and we talked a lot. Then after a couple of weeks, it seems like she hates me. And when my friend transferred over here (it's a guy), she finally started talking to me again, only just to keeping asking "What's his name again? Ohh long did you know him?"
And there's this one time one of my friends were feeling down and she said. "Come on, we're best friends. You can tell me what's wrong." And after he did, she kinda immediately blew him off, as if it wasn’t interesting. I asked her, "he's you're best friend?" And she replied, "pfff no!"
I heard her mumbling to someone that she has so many friends on facebook and not even half of them are her friends! About 3 months after that, I kinda physically disliked her too. Seriously, I thought I was going to die around her; we had one class together and it wore my body so much because there's just an aura that she gives off when we're in the same room that makes me want to cry. It's not healthy either.
So...she's coming back in a week and I know I can't prevent things but what can i do to control myself? It's a stupid issue/problem, I know and if she's in one of my classes again, do you think it's best if I switch classes?
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Hello,this is not a stupid issue it is very valid and I totally understand where you are coming from,In life you will meet people that you could care less for,people that have certain attributes bout there character that just turn you off to the point where you cant stand to be around them. I agree with you that she is not avery nice young lady and she does not treat people with the respect they deserve,I beleive she has problems within her self that have not been resolved so she takes it out on others and she does not even realize it.Unfoirtuantley when you come across people like this there is nothing you can do personally to change them or the way they act. You should just worry about yourself and hope that they will change for thre better. I absolutley do not think it is a good id ea to switch all of your classes or anything because of one person,you should not have to sacrafice for the way someone else is,you should simply keeo your distance from her a much as possible and zone her out.If it gets really bad you can always tell her how you feel abotu her in the most polite way you do not want to be rude or mean as she is because I doubt if she notices the effect she is having on you or the way she treats and acts towards people. Once you tell her this or even when you distance yourself from her she will get the picture that you dont want to be bothered with her anymore because of the way she treats others and you,because you dont want to be around people that bring others down.Remember you hav to do whats best for you and what make you comfortable and you cant change others just work with what you have!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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