i asked this question before but i have a little more detail there's this guy i liked since last year May, he was in my english class. He seemed like he liked me, he was always staring at me and sometimes looking away when i caught him.i told him on msn that i liked him and he didn't believe me then he said he had a g.f but even after that he would still stare at me and stared to act fidgety when i passed him. he even talked to me on msn after that. i asked some ppl that know him if he had a g.f but they said they highly doubt that he has one...okay i'm not being racist or anything but he's indian and i'm black, so i was wondering if that was the reason why he said he had a g/f because i heard they can't date out of their race or religion or he just didn't take me seriously? maybe panicked? what do you guys think? i'm starting to think that maybe i should just get over him even tho it's gonna be hard:(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? THINKPOSITIVE7 answered Saturday January 31 2009, 4:24 pm: Hello,I mean I dont think he lied to you honestly,those people that said he didt those are ther opinions,They probably dont think he has one because of the way he may look or act,but I am sure they fail to realizze that relationships are not base on looks,personality is key in a relationship. Liking someone or having a connection with someone is not based on a race,people may perefer a certain race but I dont think that is what is going on,I beleive he really has a girlfriend but he may think you are pretty and obviously he enjoys talking to you or he wouldnt be staring at you or talking to you on msn. My advice is t take it slow just talk to him as a friend since he has a girlfriend,he already know you like him so if things dont workout with her you never knoe ehat could happen,so just think positive and dont worry.Dont give up just go with the flow and let things run its course its the only thing you can do,you cant force anything or it wont happen,things happen for a reason so just dont worry about it so much and be calm!!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
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triquetra answered Saturday January 31 2009, 6:29 am: Well, he's showing all the sings of liking you, but I think that he's just scared to admit it. It's a big thing, telling somebody that you love them eve though you know that that person loves you back. Unless of course there is something which he knows which you don't know and he doesn't want you to know.
I don't think that colour, religion or race should be any part of relationships unless it's important to the couple. If you like the person and they love you back, then there should be no reason as to why you shouldn't go out together.
Don't give up on him, give him some time and just be kind around him and see what happens. There's no lost cause until all options have been exhausted.
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