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I feel like my mom just really have a natural reaction of trying to sound insulting to me. Which doesnt quit. How do I not feel so angry.
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Hello,well I am sure your mother does not want to insult you or make you upset I mean you are her child and she loves you.However you have to realize that parents go through alot,with money issues,her job and daily stressors I am sure she wants nothing more than to make you happy but when all that strees builds up unfortuantley they tend to take there anger and frustrations out on the people closes to them. If you guys are close or even if you are not you should simply sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with her,simply start with how was your day or are you ok.It is always good when you have someone that cares about what you are going through.You cant turn off anger because your emotions can sometimes be uncontrolable bu you can try to put yourself in your mother shoes and be optimistic about the situation.Nothing lasts for ever and I am sure these insults will cease in time.I know for a fact that if you sit down and talk to her about this about how you are feeling that things will change.Sometimes and parents and ppl in general dont know the way they are affecting othets.She probably has no clue you are feeling insulteed and the only way she will find out is if you tell her exactly how you are feeling,that may be hard since you have alot of built up anger and resentment against her but it has to be done in order to see a change or it will get worse and you dont want that.Communication is key in any relationship so you have to be open and honest with your mother and things are garuanteed to change because she doesnt want to hurt you in anyway,she loves and cares about you!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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