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I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her?
Me may be with this girl because he likes both of you. But if he did ever break up with his girl friend would you really want to go out with a cheater? think about it.
xoxo Chels
I am going to this Volleyball day camp for 4 days and I really really like it but I'm terrible at it cuz I'm new and like everyone else can spike n stuff. I probly won't make the team next year but i really like the sport. Wut can i do?
Just try your best and never give up because practice makes perfect!
xoxo chels
What's a good way to get rid of pimples?
Washing your face every day...i've herd that thoothpaste works!
xoxo chels
i went out wiht this kid for ova a year and he cheated on me 8 times. i have a huge issue with trusting poeple becuz i am constantly afraid of gettin hurt. . i am way over him now, but i like my bestfriend =( he went out with my bestfriend[a girl] and she still likes him too. But, a few weeks ago i met this guy, he is truely amazing. he is everythin i need from a guy, he is sweet, romantic, trusting and he cares about me. now i have a big problem with trust and so does he bc he has also been hurt in the past. should i give up on my best guy friend and let my best girl friend have him, [bc i dont wanna fight wiht her] or should i go for the new guy? Help please!!
Is this guy really worth possibly loosing your best friend? I would talk to her and ask her what she would think about you going out with her ex,esp. if she still likes him.
xoxo chels
alrite..i`m gonna be gettin my braces off soon, and i really don't want yellowish teeth with white spots, so im gonna use whitening stuff. But i dont kno what works the best, does anybody use some that works really good?
Pretty much anything works that whitens your teeth. Try crest white strips they work good and fast!
xoxo chels
I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx
Tell him that you just want to be friends. That way you can still talk to him on the phone and do stuff with him.
xoxo chels
okay, I have this guy friend named "Joe" and we hav been frends for 5 years and alot of people say we shud go out , but we deny it! i like him and i wanna no how to no that he likes me before making a move. how can I find out he likes me? I rate!!!!
Ask him how he feels about you! You've been friends for 5 years so im sure he can express his feelings.
xoxo Chels
Well I heard that usually after you have sex your voice changes but then the guys voice changes also and thats when their getting older I mean when is my voice gonna change if I dont have sex because I dont want to like around what age and well it be ina good way and well guys like u more...Im just Curious!
Umm i've never herd of such a thing. Im pretty sure its not true. bc what dose sex have to do with your voice?lol
xoxo Chels
i'm 13 yrs old, 5ft 7in and 140lbs. i wanna lose weight but not to much. during the skul year i don't way as much because of the sprts and conditioning I do. i don't wanna way that much when skul starts. any ideas how to lose a couple pounds in a few weeks? thanx
You chould set a goal to run a mile or two a day until school starts. That way you will be in shape for sports and not weigh as much when school starts.Try it!!
xoxo.chels
does anyone know any good places to make a babysitting flyer that will catch people's attention????? please help asap!! if you help, i'll rate 5!!!!!
Try putting them in neighbors mail boxes!
xoxo chels
I seriously think I might have a problem. I'm goign otu witht his boy and I totally love him. I know I do. The only problem is, once guys start likign me alot and really falling for me I start ebcomign a total bitch. I'll say things on purpose to piss them off or to get them upset. I can't understand why. This isnt the only relation ive been in. Ive been in one for about a year before too and i did the same thing. I'm 18 too. any ideas why this is happening? its kidna like i cant stop either. im starting to think im evil or sumthing.
Your afraid of getting hurt. And when your around someone you like you pbly get nervus. Just be yourself and your not evil!
xoxo chels
ok theres this guy i've liked for a while and he knows that. well he always wants to hang out and be friends with benifits. well i told him that i actually want to have a relationship with him. he told me he doesnt want to rush into getting a gf bcuz he just broke up with his old one. but they broke up like 5 months ago. so he said lets hang out more. is this guy just using me? is he scared to have a relationship with me? i'm clueless.....please help me
How long did this guy go out with his girlfriend when they broke up? if it was a long term relationship he could be scared to get into anouther relationship and get hurt. Give him time and i deff don't think he is using you.
xoxo Chels
Well today I woke up with a really stuffy nose. I went to go take a shower and I bent down to pick up some shampoo and when I got back up I got dizzy and this gray fuzz took up like half my vision. It started from the bottom of my eye but seemed to stop halfway. It made my eyes water and head spin.
Maybe it was from getting up too fast + a head cold? This never happens when I just get up really fast, but I do get a little dizzy. But I was hoping for your help...because I'm not sure. =o/
Thanks!
It sounds to me that you have a cold. Or sometimes what you get up too fast you feel really dizzy. But it gose away!
xoxo Chels
hey some of my friends are doing this thing when they all gang up on me and its really annoying and im not sure if they r my friends still and a lot of ppl say 2 just hang out w. the guys bc none of them r like the girls (talking about eachother) should i or just play it cool and stay w. my "friends"?
I wouldn't do eaither. don't play it cool,stick up for yourself also don't stay with your "Friends" because true friends don't do that to eachother. I would ask them whats going on, give them a chance to stop what they are doing. After that if they don't stop then I wouldn't be friends with them.
xoxo chels
Ok, I like this guy. He is a very good friend of mine, and i trust him with anythin. well, He likes me too, and he admits it. if wea chillen togetha hell gimme a kiss.. or he'll hold my hand or hug me, He does it infront of our friends too. but idk wut we are to eachotha. we dont have the title of b/f and g/f but id liek to be more than jsut friends, even tho he is 3 years older than me, it doesnt bother me. ive known him for some time now and i have feelings for him liek ive neva had for anyone before. what do i do?
If you like him and he likes you then you should ask him out. Try asking him how he feels about you two dating and if he like the idea then ask him out but if he seems like he dosn't like the idea then i wouldn't ask him out yet. Hope I helped!!
xoxo chels
well i have this boifriend and i have een goinout wit hym for over 3 month n i really like hym and people told hym that i have been kissing other guys and i havnt so how do i get hym to belive me
I would talk to him about it. And if he dosn't beleave you then that shows he dosn't trust you and thats what a relationship is mostly about.
xoxo Chels
Hi whats your name?
Hey my names chelsea!
Ok i have a huge problem. See tomorrow i start school and my parents told me that i have to take this other person to school w/ me. Well He is just so happens to be my moms boss's little brother. Unfortunatly he is my age. i really dont want to take because i know my mom and his brother will try to hook us up. what should i do?
If your mom and his brother try to hook you two up just say your not intrested and who knows this boy not even like you.Plus no one can make you go out with someone you don't want to.