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Hello :) My name is Jess and I'm 15 years old. I live in England and think it's pretty cool (apart from the weather!). I am really interested in Architecture and photography at the moment, and I hope to study Architecture at university. My friends and I have been through a lot recently which varies a lot so I hope I can really understand what most of you are going through. I definitely go for what I can when you ask a question, I just delve right in the deep end and tell you how it is. No babbling for ages, but straight down to the point. Don't be affraid to ask me anything, I'm here to help, not bite. :) x

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Picture of Vannessa Anne Hudgens flipping off the camera?
I need to copy and paste it, so i can show my friend.
I've seen it before but couldnt copy it.
If you know where i can copy it
please insert a link!
Thank you very much!

You can on to here:
http://www.google.co.uk [UK users]
http://www.google.com [USA users]
And click on the 'Images' button and tye in what ever you would like but keep it simple.
I'll look now for you.
But i couldn't find anything. I would just onto Google and do what i first said.
For more info, inbox me.
Good luck!

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Pump ups songs?! i need some new ones! any suggestions? i need them for running! thanks so much!

Here are some good songs to listen to:
I See Girls (Crazy) by Studio B
MyMyMy by Armand Van Helden
Call Me by Eric Prydz
Falling Stars by Sunset Strippers
Out Of Touch by Uniting Nations
The above is all on this CD:
The Very Best Of Eurphoric Dance Breakdown
They have 2 CDs and they are very up-beat and punp ups.
Jamiroquai, Maroon 5 and The Weekend by Michael Gray are very good Aritists with alot of up-beat songs.
Also, Floorfillers Club Classics is a very good 4Disc albulm with lots and lots of songs of what your looking for.
There are lots of songs that are what your looking for so you shouldn't have too much trouble in finding a few more yourself but i have helped you out.
For more info, inbow me.

[= SuperDuperJess =]

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so there's this song by either saosin or circa survive. not sure which band sings it.
but the title is "i've been dying to reach you"
but in the actual song it sounds like i've been trying to reach you... does anyone know the AACTUAL title, and what it actually says in the song. either "dying" or "trying" obviously..

helppp?

The song is:
Circa Survive-I've been trying to reach you.
Chek this out and see the lyrics:
http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/c/circa_survive/ive_been_dying_to_reach_you.html
Hope i helped you.
For more info, inbox me.

[= SuperDuperJess =]

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The notes are D#, A, B, and F. On the guitar the fingerings are

e-----2-----------
B-----0-----------
G-----2-----------
D-----1-----------
A-----x-----------
E-----x-----------

Plz helpppp!

Just looked on my Keybord and played them. It came up with this:
F 7 b5
If that means anything to you i don't know.
Lol.
For more info, inbox me.

[= SuperDuperJess =]

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Can anyone tell me when the American Idol New York City auditions are for 2007???

Thanks so much!

This is the website for the NYC aditions. CHek it out:
http://www.tvsquad.com/2007/01/25/american-idol-new-york-auditions/
I hope there is something there that can help.
For more info, inbox me.

[= SuperDuperJess =]

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Hey, um..I know my problem may sound stupid, but I guess I need some encouragment to talk to this guy I really like..lol..or what I could say...well I already know he likes me too so this shouldn't be hard..right??? Well for some reason it still is! Oh, by the way..I'm in grade 9 right now, but in grade 7 we used to like flirt and everything because we were in the same class and he would flirt with me.

Thanx for the help...in advance...

Hey.
Well. I always find it hard to talk to boys fullstop! And i hate it, so if you like we can on this together. Just talk to him on MSN or mySpace or what ever you have and just start with the easy steps in asking him questions like:
1) What's your favourite colour.
2) What's your favourite animal.
3) What's his favourite type of music.
4) What's his favourite band/singer.
Just ask all of the first step questions and then hopefully you should just talk to him if this all goes well. Try not to panic or be nervous becasuse at the end of the day it is just a normal person like you and me that you happen to like. S i would ask the simple questions first and then they might turn into a full convosation. You could even swap notes from one of your class that you may have together [this is a great way in talking to differrent people from classes [and you can make new friends by this]] Once you become friends in doing this then i think you could by ready in flirting, but keep it simple untill he starts playing along with it. I'm not a great flirter and so i can't give much advice about this but just stay calm and forget about that he is your crush "oh he's so Fit" because it will just get into your head and that will be all you think about.
Hope I helped.
For more info, inbox me.

[= SuperDuperJess =]

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14/f
I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We love eachother, believe it or not. I just have hard times showing it. Like i mean we can hold hands and hug but I want to show I love him, not just say "i love you so much baby". Does anyone have ideas or anything on how i could show my feelings for him other then words? Opinons and ideas are appreciated :]

Here are some things that can help with this:
1) Give him a present. Not sure what but your best to know what he likes and dislikes.
2) Mabe see a movie or something alot in the hols.
3) I would just hang out alot in the summer and jenerally be nice and friendly and stuff like that. [I am sure you are normally as well but just make sure that you are extraly kind and suport him in what ever he does-that's what works for me.]
I am not too sure what else you could do to be honest. But if you just generally be a nice person alot and hang out with him alot and all that stuff and i think that you should text him [hopefully you already do this] and possibly talk to hi on MSN or whatever you have.
But this is my opinion on what possible things that you can do.
I hope i help with my suggestions and opinions. :)
For more info, inbox me n i'll help you out.

[= SuperDuperJess =]

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I have missed my period for the past five months does this mean I am pregnant and if not what other problem could it be?

Hey!
Well. I could be. But to be on the safe side i would buy some tests [at least about 4-6 so then the result is sertun on what it says]. It also depends on how old you are and how many you have had. If you have always had periods and your quite old in having them, then you could be pregnant. But on the other hand you could well not be pregnant and so it is perfectly normal. Because as you grow up, you could miss or have an extra period because your body is getting used to the fact of periods. If your very worried about this and you have taken a pregnancy test and it came back as not pregnant then i would tell your mum about it and see what see thinks. You might even decided to go and see the doctor. Don't be embarresed to ask your mum because she has been thought the exact same thing and she will be the most help to you.
I could give you alot more advice but i don't know what age you are.
If you want more info then inbox me again [with age] then i'll help you out.

[= Good Luck Chick! =]

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what are good first dates for couples. i need some ideas plz! thanks in advance :)

Here they are!:

1) Cinema
2) Shop [you might want 1of your friends and he might want one of his as well]
3) An outdoor public swimming pool
4) Go out for lunch
5) Go out for dinner [V v v Romantic]
6) You could go to the beach [If you have one near you]
There are lots of things that you can do. I would ask who ever the=is guy is about what he likes doing and see where that goes. If you want a first date with someone you should just talk to them loads and then you could bring it up in conversation.
If you need more info, inbox me 'n' i'll help you out.
[= Good Luck! =]

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I need to lose weight,
pretty fast .
i mean about 30 pounds .

im 14/f and about 170 pounds 5'6''
yeah HUGE i know .

any tips or websites or specific plans ?
HELPPPP !!!!!!!

id like to lose some before school starts .

OK.
Here are my tips and websites and possibly magazines that have alot of thing that you can do:
1) Try to eat healthly [No Junk food]
2) Exercise regularly [once/twice aday]
3) Become a member of a gym near you [So you can go everyday if you wanted to work out]
4) Take a look at this website:
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/loseweight.htm [It is how to lose weight the healthy way]
5) Read some of your mom's magazines because i know for a fact that they read the type of magazines where they have some tips of loseing wieght.]
6) This olso has some tips and advice that you may find interesting:
http://www.jr2.ox.ac.uk/bandolier/booth/hliving/loswt.html

For more info on any of these, inbox me with a question [ask me a question of my column [Top.]]

[= Good Luck Chick!! =]

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where can i find a place online that has a catalogue or where i can print out an order form to mail in that has a pink zebra duvet cover. and thats not fur or velvet. thank you in advance =D

If you want to find anything. And ANYTHING then i suggest you go to:

http://www.google.co.uk [UK users]
http://www.google.com [USA Users]
And type in something simple but good about what your looking for in the search engine and click Search. Then there should be lots of websites listed on the page of place that have what your looking for.
Just found this with lots of zebra pints:
http://thethemeroom.com/faux_fur_duvet_cover_sets.htm

I hope these help.
If you need more info then you can inbox me.

=] Good Luck Chick =]

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i am a little chubby.
not, like. REALLY overweight.

im about 5'2 and 103-105.

i really want to lose 5-8 pounds

so my first question is-

is that possible to do in 2 months or maybe a little less with proper diet and excersise?

&

what kind of diet and excersise should i do?

thanks in advance.
!

You are the right weight. But as you asked the questions i shall answer them.
Yes. It is possibly in 2months, bnut you would have to change your way of life. Usually in women's magazines they have pages and pages of articles on ways to lose weight. I should look at those.
i am not too sure what you could do about diet or exercise, but i know alot of people that run alot. Some twice a day for 2-4 miles each. And others that run 2-3miles at one time. But don't go straight to the 3miles because you could give yourself a magor injury. Make sure you stretch first and warm-up first too. You could also go to the gym [This is a good way to meet new friends-if your interested] and use the wieghts there to build up the muscule [the only thing about this is that the muscule can weigh alot so it might make you more heavy. But this is just muscule if you do this option]. My mom and dad have a gym type thing in the garage and the work-out every so often. They have some of the things that you would find in a pulic gym in here.
As for the food. You should just eat healthily i think. But in the women's magazines they have different foods in there and ads that have a low fat and things like that [worth checking the out].

If you need more info, i am more than happy to help you out. You can email me:
jesshatcher@gmail.com
OR
jessiica1013@hotmail.com

[= Good Luck!! =]

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does anyone know where I can find piano sheet music to Hallelujah by John Cale? I know there are a bunch of other piano versions of it, but I really like this one... it's the version of the song that's in the movie Shrek. I've looked on different websites and haven't found it. Gracias mucho!

Try:
http://www.google.co.uk [UK users]

http://www.google.com [USA users]

And type in the search engine what you are after and there should be alot of websites that match your search on the following page. But make it simple-don't go to over board on the info you give the search engine.
I have just found:

http://www.sheetmusicplus.com/enter.html?s=googlej&t=piano&e=a&k=c06g272

Not sure if this site will help. By look anyway.
You could also try:

http://www.ebay.com

And see if they have what your after.
You could even ask your Piano teacher [if you have one] and see what she says.
Or you could go into a shop that sells pianos and ask them where you could get a copy-> They might even have one there.

If you want any help with this, you can email me:

jesshatcher@gmail.com
OR
jessiica1013@hotmail.com

I am more than happy to help you out.

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if you have not fat but not thin.. ((kind in between)) arms and if you lift a weight for a while each day (5 pound weight) would the fat in your arms go away and get thinner, or would the fat remain and only the muscle would get stronger??

All it would do, is make the fat into muscule. The weight is a little bit light for doing this. But it still works. I would top it up to twice a-day if you erally want this muscule and then it would come bigger and quicker.
If you need more info on fitness, send me a question and i'll help you out.

[= Good Luck Chick! =]

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I need advice, i am 14 and i have kissed guys in the past. . but now i have a differnt boyfriend, and he hasnt kissed a girl before (we have known each other ffor years) , and im really worried that he will eat my face off!!
we are going to be at a Dress-up party, in a couple of weeks. and i want to kiss him and he wants to kiss me, but im really worried!!!

HELP ME!

Okaii. First thing is..

DON'T PANIC!!

It will be fine. You take control in the kiss and then it shouldn't be too bad. I would take it slow with him because he hasn't kissed a girl before. And because of this it will probably be a little bit unusual/weird, but when he gets the hang of it, then he should be fine.
If you need any more info, inbox me and i'll help you out.

[= Good Luck Chick! =]

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0kay so ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years but this year hes qoinq away to colleqe .. not like away away but he`ll be an hour & a half away & hes qonna live in the dorms there i quess but im still qonna be here in hiqh school and i know we wont really see eachother that often =/ & its qonna be such a biq chanqe & he'll be really busy & so will I..does anybodyy think it`ll still work or we should break up or whatt? =/

I think you should stick together as long as you promise each other that you really want to be together and that each of you wont be fooled by anyother guy/girl [He will be promising that he wont nesicerily find someone else in college]. Just make sure that he really loves you and trusts you and you trust and love him the same. If this goes well until he goes.. then you too should be fine. I wouldn't just split up with him just because he is going away, you will still see him when he comes home for the holidays. But it isn't up to me, but i have told you what i think could work if you really want to be with him. Just ask your self weather he's the one. If your sure he is then nothing can come apart from you two.
If you need any more info, inbox me and i'll help you out.

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i like to wear my jazz shoes w/ out socks but lately they smell.

i'm too scared to wash them cause they're leather [split sole] but idk how to get the smell out.

Nowadays there are lots of companies that makes sparys that make shoes smell nice. I even believe that they now have Shoe Deadreants. But i am sure if you go to your local store/supermarket, they should have some. but if you can't find what you are looking for, then you could always ask someone there if they have it, if they say no, then ask if they know where you can get some. If your scared to do this because your embarrest then i would ask your mom or dad about it and see what they think. But don't be embarest to ask, because everyone gets it. I do too! Hehe.

If you need any more info then inbow me and i'kll help you out.

[= SuperDuperJess =]

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i just need a vote. which do you think is more popular, or do you like more?


straight or curly


thankss :D

I prefere Straight. But i do also like Curly too.

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i dont know what is wrong with my ipod. it turns on but it wonlt play the music, its not the headphones. does anyone know how i can fix this.

Did you put the volume up? If you did then it could be something to do with iTunes. Are you sure you pressed the correct button? (i am sure you did though-just cheking) I would ask your dad or mom if they know how to fix it. If not then you get an expet on iPods. Try:

http://podexperts.com/

Or you could ask this question on a forum or mabe ask your friends if they have iPods (probably someone that has had it for a while)

jessiica1013@hotmail.com
jesshatcher@gmail.com
for further questions or help.

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Well see I have a bf and weve been together for 8 months.
But theres a problem I like girls.

Well I have a problem telling my friends and things and i havent met a girl who is bi or lesbian ya know. So its hard.

My bf's fine with it and everything but imnot cause im either gonna be bi with a girlfriend or not be bi at all if i dont have one.
Im not gonna wait.

What should i do?

I can't make the desiction for you but i can make you see what could happen if you were/weren't bi.
If you were bi:
1) Your family might not aprove.
2) You could be left with complications in your life.
3) You can't have a baby with your girlfriend.
If you weren't bi:
1) Your family would be happy because you have found a man that is perfect for you.
2) You wouldn't be stuck with too many complications.
3) You can have as many babies as you want!
At the end of the day it is all up to you. Noone can make this desicion for you.
If you decide that you are going to be bi, the i would chek this out and sign up for this:

http://en.netlog.com/clan/hotbisexuals69

Contact me about this or if you have any questions:
jessiica1013@hotmail.com
jesshatcher@gmail.com

[= Good Luck =]

SuperDuperJess

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