0kay so ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years but this year hes qoinq away to colleqe .. not like away away but he`ll be an hour & a half away & hes qonna live in the dorms there i quess but im still qonna be here in hiqh school and i know we wont really see eachother that often =/ & its qonna be such a biq chanqe & he'll be really busy & so will I..does anybodyy think it`ll still work or we should break up or whatt? =/
RATZY answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 12:46 pm: if you think your relationship is worth it, you should make all the effort you can to make it work, i guess your boyfriend will be busy with his studies but you could set a specific day when both of you will be free to meet up. but if you decide to break up with him talk to him first see what he thinks, if he wants to make it work, and you want to make it work then you should make it work. i dont think you should break up because he's going away to college.
if you love him then you should definately make it work. hope i've helped, just ask your heart, what does it want? take care though. [ RATZY's advice column | Ask RATZY A Question ]
NikkiM answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 12:40 pm: Well if you 2 really want to be together then you will both make it work..no matter what =] and if in the end you stayed with him but you never see each other or whatever..then you can break up with him. Theres no reason to end it first without trying..you never no, things could go great =] Hope i helped x x x [ NikkiM's advice column | Ask NikkiM A Question ]
SuperDuperJess answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 11:17 am: I think you should stick together as long as you promise each other that you really want to be together and that each of you wont be fooled by anyother guy/girl [He will be promising that he wont nesicerily find someone else in college]. Just make sure that he really loves you and trusts you and you trust and love him the same. If this goes well until he goes.. then you too should be fine. I wouldn't just split up with him just because he is going away, you will still see him when he comes home for the holidays. But it isn't up to me, but i have told you what i think could work if you really want to be with him. Just ask your self weather he's the one. If your sure he is then nothing can come apart from you two.
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