Hey so the names Jenna ... i can help with pretty much everything...I'm a recovering anorexic, and a survivor of an abusive realtionship ... um yeah... so ask away ... but I have a tendancy to TELL THE TRUTH... so if you don't want to hear it ... don't ask ...
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okay lets say im dating a boy right.
and..... stuff and we are only in 7th grade.
and..... is it possible for people to date in 7th grade to stay together forever like.. get married i mean i know we are young but can it happen? (link)
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yeah its possible and it does happen ... but don't rush into anything ... have fun with your life!
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i having a really hard time. right now my hair is brownish blondish and i want it a darker brown. my mom is saying i should get lowlights, i think i should get it dyed. arent lowlights really streaky? which one is better? thanks i rate high. (link)
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it depends onif you go to a beauty palor or do it at home. If you go to a salon just make it clear to the stylist that you go to that you dont want chunky lowlights ... you want it to look very natural... then you should be OK... but if you want to do it at home then you are better of dying it completley because it is way easier to end up with streaky chunky looking lowlights if you attempt to do it your self
*hope I helped*
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what are some good jobs that a 15 year old girl can do? i really need to money, my mom mainly needs it. were going through a tough spot and i want to be able to help out, but i dont know where they hire people my age other than a supermarket, and i dont want to work there.
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Try applying at local restaruants for busgirl jobs. Thats what I did when I was 15 and i made a ton of money in tips ... good luck
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe
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I have to write a poem in the style of Sylvia Plath, but I'm not sure what I'm doing. Can anyone help? (link)
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sylvia's poetry style was mostly confessional , which means that she expressed her deepest emotions through her poetry. To write a poem in her style would mean basically pouring your soul onto the paper. This sounds easier than it is... but in the long run it actually makes you feel good about yourself.
*Hope I helped*
Pheobe
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putting this in \"love life\" might be pushing it, but whatever.
okay, so theres this kid, he\'s in my grade (12th) but i\'ve never talked to him in person. i think one time in like the 8th grade he got ahold of my screen name and he was like whats your name? and i told him (i knew he went to my school) and he was like \"hold on, i\'m going to look you up in the yearbook\". haha, that still makes me laugh. we were like in middle school though. but yea... i\'ve always known his name and who he was (after that point) but i never talk to him. and then this year, i think he has like a mini crush on me or something (but still, no talking in person). for example, theres two ways to get to the student parking lot(and neither one of us has a 6th period). i go one way, which is closer to my class & i know what class he has 5th period (because i have that class 4th and i\'ve stayed in there to ditch my 5th period) & theres a closer way to go from his class, but he goes the way i go (i wouldn\'t blame him though if he likes me... i would have done the exact same thing to my crush of three years). and he parks in the same row i do, but in order to get to my car i have to pass his car first and there have been a few times when i would walk by and he would like glance at me or whatever. honestly i don\'t even know what kind of an expression i give back... i think i just glance @ him. then he eventually requested to be my friend on myspace. even though i\'ve never talked to him, i added him anyways... he does go to my school so why the heck not? then he commented on one of my pics & said \"cutie\". haha. that was interesting. and still, every day he pretty much walks the same way i do... sometimes he\'s in front of me, sometimes he\'s in back of me, sometimes he\'s with friends and sometimes he\'s alone. oh, and even when we leave the parking lot, we both take the same main street so he\'ll like be driving along side of me or something, haha. or in front of me, or in back, etc. but yea. still i\'ve never talked to him! and then a few nights ago, he sent me a message through myspace and it said \"hey you. whats up?\" i didn\'t get it right away, i think i was on at the time and then i signed off or something... but i got it like an hour or two later. i didn\'t respond though, because what am i supposed to say? i don\'t want to be like \"hey\" or \"hey...\". i don\'t know... its totally wierd though, because i do see him like everyday (plus he\'s friends with two kids in my class and guys that i sometimes hang out with at lunch, but he doesn\'t hang out with them during lunch... he hangs out like 400 ft away from us, haha). its like, if you want to be my friend, then talk to me. its kind of awkward when you send a message like that through myspace. whatever. he does seem cool, but its kind of wierd and awkward. i was going to send him a message back and be like \"waddupp, fool?\" but...yea. i think that would be a little funny & more friendly and less serious/awkward/flirty (yea, you can probably take \"hey...\" and turn it into a flirty way). but then again, \"waddupp fool?\" can make it seem like \"oh yea, i know you we\'re friends\" when we really aren\'t in real life. what should i do about this whole situation. because i still see him everyday... and i feel bad i ignored his thing, but i don\'t want to just go up to him and be like \"hey!\" what would you do if you were shy and in this situation. i don\'t think i really have a crush on him back. i don\'t know him and i probably wouldn\'t mind hanging with him or anything, but yea. what would you do?
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ok... mini-crush is the exact way to describe this. He may be AIMing you or myspace messaging you because hes too shy to talk to you in person. So message him back sayin something like " hey ... whats up?" something nonchlant. You said you wouldnt mind chillin with him so if he asks you to habg out say yeah but mention something along the lines of " but just as friends rite?"
that'll get your point accross w/o really hurting his feelings. that way you can become friends with him but if you don't like him you dont have to go out with him.
hope i helped!
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hi,I'm a 15 girl and yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend,well sort of he whent in a little then pulled out then he cumed on my pubic hair could i get pregnate?even if my cherry hasnt been poped?please withe A.S.A.P! i rate very usefull! (link)
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the hymen is not a barrier against semen and if your boyfriend did cum anywhere near your vagina there is a possiblity that you could get pregnant
You should buy one of those at home pregnancy tests to be sure
Hope I Helped !
*Pheobe*
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I have sex almost every weekend, with the same person Ive been with for almost 4 months, we usually use a condom & we've used 2 different brands, lately durex & we use the ky warming lubricant, I started my period a week early Idk if that has nething 2 do w/ it but my labia itch & feel raw, soap doesnt burn but when urine touches it it does would that be from too much sex or an allergy to the condom or the lubricant an infection or what?? (link)
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my friend has like the same problem ... i think it turned out that it was a urinary tract infection ... you should go the the doctor .. . if you dont want ur mom to know ... then ask a friend to drive you this could be serious
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ive had my aim screen name for over 2 years and im ready for a new one. can you help me thing of good screen nameS? a summertime one would be good but i dont really care! (link)
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um ... try stuff like
springfling(year of your birth)
qtpie(your name)
ect...
hope i helped!
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ok i have dated this girl for 2 1/2 years. we have been through a marine corps deployment and came out even stronger. she has been asking me to help out with the bills and each time i got paid i just gave her good lip service and never helped. i agree with the reason she broke up with me i just dont know what is going on now. she kick me out but did not take my key back. has not asked me to come get my stuff. my pictures are still up in the house. i have sent her flowers and she calls. we have went out to dinner. this thursday we are going out do i ask her what is going on between us or not. i have made alot of changes with my money. i do not spend when i dont have to and i paid off all of my bills. i want to work this out but dont know what she wants to do. should i go take my stuff out of the house? if i do she will have no kitchen table, couch's, entertainment stand or a bed for her sister to sleep in. thanks b
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dont give up hope ... you should wait at least until your sure you know whats going on. And if she does decide she wants you OUT you should take ur stuff... its urs and if she going to be like that the nyou should be mean too ...
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i have an iPod shuffle and an iRiver (n10-103). i have to let go of one...
the iRiver has 8 hours of music
the iPod shuffle fits 120 songs (assuming each songs was about four minutes, that's 8 hours of music)...but i heard that the 8 hours of music thing was a lie (?!!)
the iRiver is black
the iPod shuffle is white
the iRiver costs more
the iRiver has an LCD screen, radio, and supports voice recording
they're both flash mp3 players
which one should i keep?
*i'm kind of leaning towards the iRiver, but my brother has an iPod and keeps on singing its praises.
i also think (against my will) that i'm also being a bit swayed by iPod's marketing... the iPod has a reputation, and apple is famous...
also... i live in korea, where EVERYONE has the iriver n10...and it's fricking annoying. i'd like a more unique-looking mp3 player...but it's a pity that with the ipod shuffle you can't view songtitles.. :( (link)
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christ dont be mean! i know what an ipod and and ipod shuffle both are you jackass! i was saying keep the IPOD SHUFFLE. i typed the whole thing insted of being lazy ... there are some people who dont have any MP3 players so if you dont want to be nice about your little problems when poeple try to help then dont ask !!!
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my friend and his band are performing and i was invited to go. i told my friend i liked him and i was wondering should i do anything special for the concert. any suggestions of what i should do?! (link)
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You should buy a white shirt and decorate it with his name and bands name ! Have fun go crazy ! Show him you care!!
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15.f.california
ok see i want to move away from cali and to florida cuz my life here sucks, my mom doesnt care about me and she hurts me physicaly and emotionaly and i have been doing stuff i probly shouldnt have and if i go to florida to live with my aunt i feel this would be better and i would feel like comming sucide every minute or so. but i my mom says she would be happy to get rid of me but she thinks i am doing it cuz i want to get over a hard break up and she has this knew name for me which is coward and like i feel there is nothing for me here but my dog who i love so0o much. my dog has like been the only thing that has loved me ever since i got him. he is quite cute and small but he is the only reasion why i havent commited sucide or have gone to florida uhhh any ideas or advise anyone might want to share i am open to everything
thanks a bunch Lisa (link)
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You need to move if your being physcially abused. No one should have to deal with shit like that. and im sry if when you move that youd lose the oneyou love but its for your own safty.
Remember Im here if yall need to talk!
XOXOX
Pheobe
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My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have. (link)
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DOnt talk to him ... give him silent treatment thats not good and if he gets caught hell go to jail !
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Ok, I have blue-ish eyes with green around my pupil. I have tan skin. School is starting soon and I wanna make my eyes stand out. Like when I'm walking down the hall, I want people to turn around and be like "Who's that girl". What kinds of colors of eye makeup such as eye shadow, mascara, and eyeliner should I use. I'm going into the 8th grade also. Please help! Thanks (link)
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Wal Mart sells mary kate and Ashley makeup use blusih green sparkly shades to accent you eyes and(Blue Mascara!!) with those eyes you want dark but not too dark ... if i were u id got with a blue eyeliner too
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the first day of school is coming up and i really want to be noticed. i hav some new clothes and i got a haircut but mostly i want to change my mkae up application slightly so that people will look at my eyes. I have greenish-hazel eyes and i really wanna draw attention to them. so my question is how to make my eys stand out and make people think, "who's that girl?"
Also im gonna be an eigth grader so i dont wnat to do somethign TOO dramatic. (link)
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Go for subtle ...wal mart has Mary Kate andAshly makeup they make a sparkly green and a grey .. use that and try diffrent applique tequniques .. hope i helped
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How do you tell if you're buzzed or drunk when you are? (link)
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When ur buzzed it kinda feelzs fuzzy and its like happy when ur drunk ... id like to tell ya but im a black out drunk so i never remember it!!
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I am 21 female with need of advice!
2 years ago i was in a relathionship with a man i loved and still love very much, we where together for 4 years. My relathionship started when i was just 15 and went on till i was 18. Though i know at this age you never know what love really is he was somehting special! now that we are seperated we are still very good freinds and see each other when we can, but the break up hurt me very much and left me with a fear of rejection. Anyway now that i have the background in place my problem is that i can't seem to find a new person to replace the old. I have tried and dated many but all of them go down the drain! i think my major probelm is that i have forgoten how to flirt and scare off men that are attracted to me! how do i open my self to men without the fear of being hurt again!? (link)
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You havent forgetten just "misplaced" this kinda thing happed to me too you i wish there was more i could say but its good that your trying to get with other men the pratice will help you get back to your normal state
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hey i am like a punk kid. and i really dont like preps very much. but my mom is like anti-punk and loves preps. and she is really into the "preppy" clothes and attitude and all that good stuff. lol. ok well thats NOT me but how do i tell her without her freaking out. i mean i want to get my tongue pierced and my ears pierced a lot. but my mom is just not understanding for my personality. people tell me "Be yourself who cares what others think" but how can you be yourself when your mother is making you another. how do i try to show my mom that i am not like her? (link)
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I dont want ot be all like go for it challenge your mom fight the power ! caues it never works
Youve got ot wait til your 18 theres no way around it sorry
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umm if my boy friend likes me but then he dumped me for a gay...! why is that??? (link)
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He might be questiong hes sexuakity so u need to give him a chance if he decudes he isnt gay hell come back or id he decides hes bi then he might come back but u just heave to let him do what he wants you cant change it
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what are some good deoderents that dont leave white marks on ur clothes ANND work well to stop sweating???
thanks, Manda (link)
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look for the gel kind but dont over apply
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