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Lost in love?
I am 21 female with need of advice!
2 years ago i was in a relathionship with a man i loved and still love very much, we where together for 4 years. My relathionship started when i was just 15 and went on till i was 18. Though i know at this age you never know what love really is he was somehting special! now that we are seperated we are still very good freinds and see each other when we can, but the break up hurt me very much and left me with a fear of rejection. Anyway now that i have the background in place my problem is that i can't seem to find a new person to replace the old. I have tried and dated many but all of them go down the drain! i think my major probelm is that i have forgoten how to flirt and scare off men that are attracted to me! how do i open my self to men without the fear of being hurt again!?
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I would suggest you don't open yourself up until you've gotten a chance to figure out what they are all about. The saying Rome wasn't built in a day would apply here. You don't have to establish a long term relationship with the next guy you meet. I would suggest seeing more than one guy at a time until you find the one that you feel best about. And only when you feel there is a mutual relationship (even after you've had sex) then open yourself up. Embrace casual dating and sex and stop trying to marry the next dude that comes along.
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You havent forgetten just "misplaced" this kinda thing happed to me too you i wish there was more i could say but its good that your trying to get with other men the pratice will help you get back to your normal state
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