Hey! I'm Melaur-F 16 5'7 111 pounds! I've been through some tough times in my life and I have heard that I give really good advice. I LOVE helping people out no matter what age.. oh, and I can be kinda bitchy sometimes about stupid people that write LyKe DiS.. I'm not saying I always use correct grammer but COME ON lets atleast speak the same language people! I love to help on long complicated problems... they make me think! I'm an EXTREMLY deep thinker as well, sometimes I get so bad I have to see a doctor about being crazy.. which I'm not, I promise :o) Well anywhoooo... ask me absolutly anything, I promise I'll answer as long as I can read it! Take care!!!
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there is this girl i really like in my science class. shes kinda out of my leauge but i cant get her outta my mind! ive asked her out but she said no but i dont know why. what should i do? (link)
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talk to her about it. Just go up to her and be like "hey i know you dont want to go out with me and all and thats okay but we can still be friends right?" and they get to know her and let her get to know you too. if you think she seems like she likes your personality and shes showing interest, then try asking her out again.
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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
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because ALOT of guys SAY they want a relationship but use a girl for sex.It's true. Its happened to me soooo many times and after awhile you kindof get used to it and imagine most guys this way. yeah some arnt, possibly you, but many of them are and a girl cant be to careful, because would you like it if a girl just wanted your money? it really sucks.
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my best friends sit next to each other in social studies and english and they've been cheating on each other and nnow my whole class is cheating except for me and a few other people... and i don't know if i should tell some one because i want them to stop... because i don't want them to get caught and i just want them to be ok and stuff so what should i do? (link)
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dont tell!!! if your not in it then you have no need to be worried- if they want to cheat and they don't get cought then good for them. but don't tell on then because
1. thats mean
2. they'd all hate you
3. you'd have no friends
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ok so i became freinds((wit benifits))wit this realli hott new kid at our scool, we wer pretty cool for a while, then all the sudden he like stopped callin me as much i rarley ever see him on the weekends ne more, but wen he does call he seems so into it, and wen i talk to him at scool, some times hes like all sweet and cute, but sumtimes he;ll just walk by like he doesnt no me...and today i saw him talkin to this chic that i absolutly despise...cuz she took one of my boyfreinds from me,..and she gives me the worst looks, and i dont even no her..But apparently like NO one likes her...but i saw my guy gettin all close wit her today...Erg wat should i do..everyone tells me to get over him, but wat f theres still hope....but its driving me crazy cuz i reallllllllly want him!!Wattu i do? (link)
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WOW! for a second I thought this was from me! I'm going through that EXACT same thing right now and its driving me INSANE!! I know really that if your friends with benifits, you usually don't end up haveing a relationship and that upsets me too because i want this guy also. Try telling him that your sick of being friends with benifits and you won't continue if you guys arn't going to end up being anything more. kindof HINT to him that you and that girl arn't exactly friends, so he atleast knows, if he cares then he might stop getting close with her. if he doesn't care for you he won't. also, try talking to that girl, i had to do a project with the exact same type of person and we ended up being alot alike... but i guess you'd have to forgive and forget to actually get to know her
good luck- let me know how it turns out!
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I had the question "How To" saying mea nd my boyfriend were both 16, and how to do thigns, and u said i could ask for step by step in your inbox.. so.. well here i am.. (link)
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First thing to do, is take one of your hands and place it on his balls, Make sure you hold them firmly with one hand. Use the other hand to stroke the penis (going up and down) and then....Use your tongue and just suck on it like a lollipop...The tip of the penis (the head) is super sensitive. So lick and kiss around that a few times!!!also if your comfertable to deepthroat it, then do it! It might seem confusing because you have to do so many things at once, but really it isn't...
to give a handjob is simple. Its just like how a guy jacks off. Put both of your hands completely around his dick with a pretty tight grip, not too to hard though :o) then you go up and down until he cums make sure you go alll the way down and all the way up!
good luck and have fun!!
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Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.
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awe! makeing out comes naturally, i know you've heard that about 20 million times but it really does. You won't mess up, the only way I can think of somebody messing up is if they like puke on you or something drastic like that, other then that you can't really "mess up" Go with him, whatever he does with his lips, you do, if he uses tongue, use tongue too makeing out is fun no scary so enjoy it!---- hum to get a guy into it, play with his hair, touch him really close neat his dick, moan, back off for acouple of seconds and then get back into it, always keep your eyes closed. good luck!
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Me and my boyfriend have been together 1-year-4-months today AND well we have not done ANYTHING sexual. well i want to lead on to start doing sexual things but i don't know how. can you guys explain your first times or how you lead on to doing sexual things for the first time
thanks-
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Start by JUST kissing him. Then makeout. The next part depends on where you guys are located. If your alone the I'd push him down and get on top of him and make out. Things go from one thing to another and he'll probably get the hint that you want to do something sexual. If ya'll are in a public place, or movies or something. Sit where nobody else is and just reach your hand down his pants. TRUST ME guys NEVER mind you doing that. He'll get the point. goooood luuuuck!
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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
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Handjobs and blowjobs arn't hard. They honestly come naturally.If you want to know like, step by step then comment in my inbox. When he eats you out make noise, moan, whatever comes out naturally, let it, also guys what you to close your eyes because they don't want you just staring at them. Or 69. Then you have something to do too :o) haha well i hope that helped!
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People keep making up rumors about me and I dont know who it is and I want it to stop. I could just start a huge fist fight but thats not the way I want it settled. What do I do? (link)
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Ya, I got rumors going around about me, but if you tell people that it's not true, and they don't believe you then I wouldn't concider them people I would want to hang out with, so I guess you could say this was a good think. It shows you who your true friends are.
When somebody tells you the rumor, ask them who they herd it from then trace it back until the person says "Im not telling", thats usually the person who spreads it, good luck :o)
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Well I am 14 years old and in 9th grade of high school. I have this really cool girlfriend who goes to a different school and we have been going out for 4 months. I also have this girl who's my best friend who I've started to like too. I can also hint that she likes me and I've been thinking about possibly asking her out. I mean, I love my girlfriend but i don't know what i should do. I know it isn't fair to like someone else while you're going out with someone so I wanted to know what you guys thought.
Thanks,
Confused (link)
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There are some things that you have to think about:
1. Is the distance between you and your girlfriend keeping ya'll from anything that you could have at YOUR school?
2. Who do you like more?
3. Do you want to possibly ruin your friendship with your best friend?
4. If you go for the girl at your school, do you want to possibly lose the friendship with your girlfriend?
I personally think you should stay with the girl at the other school but its completely up to you :o)
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lets just call my friend mel, well me, my boyfriend, mel and this other boy (lets call him jack) were at my boyfriends house to watch the superbowl. we were all sitting on the couch watchin the game. jack and mels hands were really close so he took her hand and held it. but while jack was holding mel's hand he started talking about this girl that hes totally in love with ( he has no chance with her though) and how he talked to her online for a long time! that really pissed mel off because they were holding hands but she didnt say anything. now she likes jack alot but no ones really sure if he likes her, he hasget over this other girl though and were not sure how long thatll take. my boyfriend told me that jack kind of likes mel though. what does all this mean, does he like her or not and what should mel do? i know this is really long so ill rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off! (link)
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I think your friend Mel should confront Jack. Have her go up to him and ASK him why the hell he was talking about another girl when they were together and how that really pissed her off. Hopefully then, he will appologize, then she should ask him if he still likes her or if their relationship is going anywhere. Your friend deserves a good guy so if she suspects any lying they tell her to forget Jack. Hope things work out. :o)
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ok so i`m a freshman and the guy i like is a sophmore. he knows i like him and a little while ago i thought he liked me back. about a week ago i found out that he has a date to the --girls ask guys-- dance, and the other night on the phone, i was like so who are you going to the dance with? and he said, this girl from piner and he kind of likes her and he asked her out but she said she needs to get to know him better. he told me all of this and he NEW that i like him... i dont get it. and theres someone right infront of his face [me] that will like him more than any1 else ever will... i dont see y he doesnt just take it when he has the chance. should i give up on liking him? i`ve liked him for a while, but he hasn`t liked me. i dont know what to do. xOx (link)
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I would, not nessisarily "give up" on him, but tell this guy your glad ya'll are "just" freinds still and nothing more, or atleast "hint" it, then show up at the girls ask guys dance with a super hott junior or something, and wave at him when hes with his girl friend who isn't sure that they like him, so I guess I'm saying to just make him jelous! have fun and be safe :o)
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hey i work as a cashier at a grocery store for 6 hours a day. it gets really boring and i feel like screaming!! can anyone please give me some helpful hints to get through the day without wanting to scream?( its so boring and i need help passing the time..) (link)
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Wow, yes geeze this is an amazing question. I know many many ways to pass time!
Ha
1.count things.(although this could start a disorder if you do it to much, happened to me)
2.look around, find random words you see and put them in alphebetical order ( this also improves your memory)
3.talk to the people your ringing up, ask them how their life is going, OR find something in the news thats debatable, and ask them their oppinion on it, thats always fun
4.change your accent evertime a new customer comes up
5.talk to other workers
6.play the alphabet game with food products around you.
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"It does say so in the Bible. Yes, so I guess you could say it's wrong. "
Any chance you've got the quote/s and its' locatin handy? I'm interested in the subject, and I hate to be wrong. :)
"But also there are soooooooo many stories that some parts of the Bible are made up. Some believe that the entire first half of the Bible is make up. I personaly do not think it is wrong. Im not gay or Bi but I think that God made you the way you are and I believe in desteny."
I'm with you on that one, sure enough. (link)
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Ah geeze, yes, we talked about it during my church group and I didn't write down the place where they found it. :o( but I will deffently ask about it for you on Wednesday, where our leader found it! I will try to find it tonight for you and if I do then I could write it to your advicenators page. But hey, who said the Bible was completely right? Anyway, let me know any other ideas you have on the subject because I'm a debater and I love hearing others points of veiw :o)
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I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?.. (link)
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It does say so in the Bible. Yes, so I guess you could say it's wrong. But also there are soooooooo many stories that some parts of the Bible are made up. Some believe that the entire first half of the Bible is make up. I personaly do not think it is wrong. Im not gay or Bi but I think that God made you the way you are and I believe in desteny. But, some also would say that you could be possesed by satin... so, its completely up to your morals and your beliefs
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sorry, didn't know what category to put this in. i get really bad razor burn/ bikini bumps. i get razor burn on my legs too but they go away and the ones on my bikini area don't! i use shaving cream and a fresh razor blade (venus) and i put on lotion and neolsporen (sp?) when i'm done but its still not going away! so my question is:
a) how can i make it go away now
b) how can i prevent it in the future
c) will waxing or somehting else help... or hurt?
thanks! i RATE HIGH! (link)
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hey haha well all i do is use baby wash. it makes your skin really soft and i never get rasor burns. Hope it goes away :o)
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I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?! (link)
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yeah i agree with russianspy, i have never heard what emo was other then bad music. Im taking a wild guess that it might be oral sex? hm I think that if you want to try it, and to know how it feels then go ahead!why not? if you would rather not do that with a girl then I advise finding a guy to screw around with instead. that choice is completely up to you.
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a couple weeks ago my parents went out of town and me and my sister had the house to ourselve. so we invited some people over. this guy came over and we endin up having sex but he has a gf. i think im startin to like him. what do i do? and do you think his gf should know? (link)
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that sucks. was that your first time? cus if it was then you get very attached to the first person you have sex with. I would let him know that you have feelings for him. but don't say it, just show it so he can tell and if he likes you too then hed probably end up going out with you. and yes i do think his girlfriend should know but you shouldnt be the one to tell her. maybe have one of your friends tell one of her friends and her friends will deffently tell her- then shed break up with him (maybe) and you could pull the sympathy act O:o) haha yeah its evil but thats the way girls play. Oh if his girlfriend is one of your friends then i wouldnt tell anybody. that could make both her and him mad at you and they would be mad at eachother too so that wouldnt be to great. be carful because things might backfire so think before you speak good luck!!! :o)
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i want to go further with my boyfriend. we've hugged, kissed, french kissed(not the whole making out), held hands, but i want to do more. privacy is not a problem. but my boyfriend is like yea ill do w/e you want whenever you want. but how do i hint to him that i want to go a little further? (link)
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make a move! when you guys are together and kissing or french kissing, start making out, get ontop of him and do what you want!or when your alone just look at him with real big eyes and smile really sweetly, touch his leg and I'll BET that he'll want to do more then just kiss you! Also, a guy likes it when a girl makes the first move so tahts good too. :o) good luck- have fun- and be safe!!!
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Well i have always been using pads, but i want to use tampons for a change. Can you keep a tampon in the whole school day without changing it, and then change it when you get home? My school day is : 6:45-2:45. Can you leave in a tampon that long? Oh and its ganna prolly be heavy. thanks (link)
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WOAH you have a really long school day
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