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ok so i became freinds((wit benifits))wit this realli hott new kid at our scool, we wer pretty cool for a while, then all the sudden he like stopped callin me as much i rarley ever see him on the weekends ne more, but wen he does call he seems so into it, and wen i talk to him at scool, some times hes like all sweet and cute, but sumtimes he;ll just walk by like he doesnt no me...and today i saw him talkin to this chic that i absolutly despise...cuz she took one of my boyfreinds from me,..and she gives me the worst looks, and i dont even no her..But apparently like NO one likes her...but i saw my guy gettin all close wit her today...Erg wat should i do..everyone tells me to get over him, but wat f theres still hope....but its driving me crazy cuz i reallllllllly want him!!Wattu i do?
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Okay, I'll try to make this simple. 1. He is not your guy if he is hanging on some hoe. 2. You really need to get over him. All he wanted was the benefits that came with being friends with you. Sorry if it sounds harsh, but its true. Besta Luck
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Ask him whats going on between him and you and if he says something mean say "what ever" and walk away and say "just for the record I REALLY like you ALOT but I guess you dont feel the same way :'(..Hope it helps..
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You cant expect a "friend wit benefits" to be with you and only you. if that was the case he wouldnt be labeled that ya know? tell him how u feel, if he dont feel the same way stop givin him the booty girl!!!
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Well first off, you really havnt done anything yet. My advice, ask him out.
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WOW! for a second I thought this was from me! I'm going through that EXACT same thing right now and its driving me INSANE!! I know really that if your friends with benifits, you usually don't end up haveing a relationship and that upsets me too because i want this guy also. Try telling him that your sick of being friends with benifits and you won't continue if you guys arn't going to end up being anything more. kindof HINT to him that you and that girl arn't exactly friends, so he atleast knows, if he cares then he might stop getting close with her. if he doesn't care for you he won't. also, try talking to that girl, i had to do a project with the exact same type of person and we ended up being alot alike... but i guess you'd have to forgive and forget to actually get to know her
good luck- let me know how it turns out!
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You should tell him how you feel.He thinks that your JUST friends with benefits and nothing more.You obviously have feelings for him but he wont know that unless you tell him.Let me know how it goes and drop it in my inbox.Good luck.
<3Leandra
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