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My boyfriend have been dating for about two months now, and usually I wait to have sex, but he and I have been best friends for so long, that I'm totally comfortable and feel safe with him, and we decided to have sex on Friday. We used a condom, and it felt good at first but we didn't have a lot of time because his mom came home, so we stopped and just hung out for a while.
A few hours later, we messed around for a little bit, and he told me he wanted to do it without a condom. I trusted him, and told him it'd be fine as long as he knew how to control himself. He stayed in for about two minutes but promised he was very careful and far from cumming. I don't know if it's my paranoid mind, but I've been worrying about that since the day after. My period is very inaccurate and skips a day or two than normal, so I never really know when it is going to show up, but this time I counted ahead. It should come sometime this week, but I'm letting my worries get the best of me. My boyfriend is very responsible and fatherly to my sister, so if chance happened that I did have his child, things would be fine...
Anyway sorry for the long question, but any advice to ease my worries?
She is so right!!!! NEVER have sex with out a condom if you don't want a baby. I don't care if you are on BC. Don't do it. I'm just saying do what the other girl said. Please do this for your self.
Most likley you really don't want a baby NOW . Or you would not have been using the condom. Play it safe. Do it right.And if your boy want's to take of the condom AGAIN? You have the pussy you make the rules.
I'm 11 and my babysitter is touching me wrong.He's 16 and he babysits me everyday after school. When I finish homework and watch tv he makes me sit on his lap and he puts his hands up my shirt.I say stop,but he says its okay and to just come down.Sometimes he even puts his hands down my pants.I know what he is doing is wrong and I want to tell my parents,but I'm to scared what do I do?
Honey you still tell them. What if one day he haves sex with you? Or say if he go's and does it too some other girl? How would you feel if by telling you could have stopped it? And by telling you are helping him. How? Because he will get what ever help he need. Bab you have it to tell.
Hey(: im 14/f 8th grade. Well for some reason I like boys younger then me and all shorter. I don;t know why. I kinda feel stalkerish or like its wrong but every boy i have dated except for one has been younger than me and shorter. Also today in my class there where these six graders int there for some reason and one was really cute! like attractive, and I just feel odd about liking someone that young. Even with this litle fifth grade boy who is like my best friend rhianons little brother is cute but you know just little boy cute, but people make fun of me saying aww Jenna your gonna marry michael and they make fun of me. I just wonder do you think im wrong for liking boys younger than me not like the little 5th grader i was talking about but likt 2 years younger? Please help Thanks!(:
Two years? Ok. But I only say that because I wanted some who was with a boy two years older to last. So girls can do that same thing...you know be older then the boy. But just like a girl would want this: try to like the boy for more then he's look's. But know this. Some time I don't know if it's because of age of what....but it shows that people who are not the same age about one year older... most time it does not last. Hope you fine that right one.
alright.. so basically there's this girl. she used to be my bestfriend (lets call her sally) well sally was my boy bestfriend's girlfriend (jimmy) so my two bestfriends were dating. everything was great, until i realized sally was being a huge whore. i was jimmy's bestfriend first.. so after i debated what to do for a while i told him how she would flirt with every guy she could get her hands on. he yelled at her but they made up, and i was fine with that. i thought " ok, now she's scared that they'll break up and she wont flirt anymore" well that didnt work. she kept flirting.. so i told him again. this time i even had proof she did (pictures, texts, etc) so they broke up.. i didnt want to tell sally i did this because she was still my bestfriend and i didnt want to loose her. i just didnt like her choices. sally ended up finding out and we found for like two days. sally would always be a bitch to me and treat me bad.. so i didnt really mind. they ended up getting back together after a day.. and me and sally ended up making up. sally is a grade below me, jimmy, and all of the other kids who hated sally (everyone hated sally because she was a huge bitch) so sally comes up to me and tells me how everyones talking shit about me and how i turned into a bitch and shes just being really rude to me. well now most of the people who hated her are friends with her and all turning at me and calling me a bitch and a backstabber and that i start all the drama... when really this is the first drama i've EVER started. and i didnt even start it, i was just involved. the guy who started this in the first place is bitching at me now. he constantly talked shit about sally then one day, just to SUCK UP to jimmy, he became friends with her and started spreading lies about how i always talk shit about sally which i dont. and i didnt tell jimmy to break up with sally, i just told him what his girlfriend had been up to because i was his bestfriend. sally played the nervous game with another guy and grabbed his dick, jimmy deserved to know that. but anyways... life just kind of sucks now and everyone thinks im mean but really im the sweetest girl ever. i need help on how to get my reputation back ;\
Why the hell would you want to be friends with "sally" and "jimmy". They( mostly sally) are the bitches. Honey here's the true: YOU NEED NEW FRIENDS!!!! You won't wrong for telling jimmy that sally was having sex with some other guy. Or grabbing some other guy dick. What ever. She was wrong.
My dad all ways tells me to do every thing and when I forget them he get really mad and when he tell my small bro and he forgets them he don't get mad at him why?why do I all ways show like I am none child why? I don't understand please help me pleaseNour this is my name Please give me advice please
And thanks
. Please Help me I really need advice
Like the other girl said. He going to want more out of you. Because you older. Some time this is not fair but most time's it's not because he dose not love it because he want me out of you then you lil bro.He dose not hate you.
18/f
I met a guy through online dating a few weeks back. We really hit it off. He only lives a few miles away from me and shares almost all of the same interests. He also seems extremely sweet! He said that he wants to take me out on a date, and I really want to go. Now, the dating site I met him on does background checks. Obviously he's not a psycho because they let him through. We've also skyped multiple times, so I know he's actually a real person. However, I have a problem. For the time being, I live with my parents instead of in a dorm (for various private family reasons). Because I'm at home, I'm basically under a microscope. My parents are very open, liberal, and accepting- but they're also very nosy. I have no idea how to breech the topic that I met a guy online and want to date him! I don't know how comfortable they'd be with that. I'm an only child, so they're pretty protective. How do I tell them??? Of course I'd be super careful. I'd let them meet him and make sure they think he's "sane." I's also go on dates with him in public places and avoid situations where I could get into trouble. But, as far as I can tell, he's normal and sweet. How do I tell them?
Your 18 right? So you are NOT a kid. But you are living with them, so somewhat you have to do what there rules said to do because this is there home.
How did you tell them? You can say something like this: Hey Mom hey Dad(tell who ever you feel more close to first. You don't have to tell them together. That's up too you)I met this guy online. And we want to date. We have already seen each other. And you CAN met him if you'd like. I want to know what you think of him.
DON'T say anything like this: but if you don't like him....well to bad because I'm going to date him anyway!!! This is a No-no. And try not to say stuff like "um". Saying stuff like "um" is bad because they will know you really don't know what to say or your not sure of you self. They might see a way to get what ever they want using YOU. Good luck.
P.S.
Here is in other way to tell them:
I met this guy online. We meat offline too. He seem nice. And I'd like to date him. But I want to see what you think of him first. Will you met him please?
hi my name is emma i am 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me what do i do
Hell no.Don't have sex with him. I'm 14 and it would be nice to have a boy friend...BUT when it come's to sex no. I'm not the right age your not the right age. 18. That what the LAW said. Tell your boy friend NO. If he ask again? Then you dose not care that you said no. That not some one you want to be with got it? And think of having sex like this: A gift that you don't want to give to everbody and that you can't get back. Enjoy being 13. And don't give that gift away to soon. Never be able to get it back. Remember.
Okay I'm 15 and to be honest I've about had enough of this. My mother is another story.Yes i love her but sometimes wow! I just wanna go to sleep for hours sometimes and not wake up. She has parental controls on almost everything! my phone now included because my friend accidentally was messing around and mentioned drugs in one of our txting conversations. My mom freaked when she read it and took my phone away. And my friend is no drug addict she is such a wimp i doubt she would but i havent told my mom yet. Also my ipod got taken away because i let some dude friends of mine use it and well they did some bad stuff on the internet and ya.. so they didnt close then window or erase thier history and my mom saw it and again freaked out!she thought it was me! and thinks im lying!! and kept it who then gave it to my father!!! and once i was watching the E! on tv watching the kardashians and of course she freaked and put locks on the tv. So my mother will not compromise im not sure what to say? Also now shes having trust issues with me about all that! so i need help with that to and to help her understand my side! because she will listen to what i have to say but she doesnt keep it in mind at all! also what do i do if she hates my friend i was talking about what do i do with that to?! Help!
OMG! My Mom is the same in some ways.
Your Mom dose not know when enough is enough(so do so many other Mom's)
Maybe you can get your friends to tell your Mom the true(talking about your iPod)
if that dose not work then really what can you do?
All so try talking about this with your Mom. Say that she is being unfair. And say why you think she being unfair.
All you can do is try and talk this out(If you find an other way give me a yell up. I can use it.)
If she still being unfair then you just know that you said what you feel and why you feel that way. And tell the true. I mean wouldn't the true come out in time?
That's all I've got to say.
Wish you luck.
he thinks i'm grouchy...
we've been chatting for almost a year.
but he still don't have a picture.
i've been eagerly asking for his pic so long ago... but still no pic. i want to see his face. :(
This guy might not be who he said he was. Or he just might not want you to have a picture. Give it some more time. Two year's and still no pic? Then most likely he's not who he said he is. That's the down side to chatting online.
First off I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22, we have been together for 5 years. Me and my boyfriend usually do the webcam chat websites just because its fun. We both do it seperatly and together. Last night I was talking to a guy and that's fine with my boyfriend. My only problem is that I gave the guy my number and we face chatted. That was ok to but apparently my boyfriend was awake and saw everything. He then asked me what I was doing and I stupidly said I wasn't talking to anyone. I don't know why I lied because he is fine with me talking to guys online. Now he's hurt because I lied and I don't know what to do to make it better. I feel horrible for lying and is not like me to lie to him. I never do, I am one of those people that have to tell their boyfriend everything because I have really bad guilt...what can I do to try and make it up to him?
Well for one: Don't get mad if you say your sorry and he's still hurt or mad at you. Sorry too say this but he has ever right to be upset. You also need to know that thing's will NEVER be the same. Like the other girl said thing are not going back to the way they were. And he's might be looking at you like you cheated on him. And you might not know why you lied but I THINK I do. You were giving an other guy your number. And that might be ok with him but this is still an other GUY not a girl but a guy. So when he asked what you were doing with out thinking you said nothing. I remember when my Mom asked me what I was doing(I was 6 then.) Thou she could see what I was doing I lied and said nothing. Just like you. We both lied because we were scared of getting sean. You lied because you were giving your number to some other guy. What do you do now that I said all that. Say your sorry for ling and mean it. That's all you can really do. Like I said don't get mad if he's still mad at ya. And if he dose not want to be together because he feel's like you were trying to chat on him. Try rally try to be cool about it.
Sorry that's what ling dose.
Wish that everything works out with you and him.
I'm 14 (female) and I like a guy a lot but I've just found out from my friend that he smokes weed along with loads of other guys from my year. The problem is I still like him a bit because I cant really believe it...what should I do about it and should I carry on as if I dont know and that everything is normal??
Your boy smokes weed. This is NOT ok. I don't think it's good to stay with him. There are other fish in the sea. Now if you realy realy love this guy try to get him to stop. A guy that smokes weed most likely is going downnn with the law. Sorry.
i want to lose weight on my stomach really fast; just my belly. the rest of my body seem to be perfectly fine, its my belly that needs the work. I havent been going to the gym yet becuase im underage and in school i only get a double lesson in a week and thats not enough. food: i eat 4small meals a day to get a high metabolism and i eat alot of healthy fruit and vegs! any tips ?
Try zumba. It works. But it taks work.
Okay so i'm 12 years old and i know my body isn't finished developing but all the other girls in my class are and fully chested and curvy and im a pencil and flat chested! I even get made fun of about being tall and skinny. Any advice because i seem to think about this quit often and i feel confident with my body at home but the second i hit school EVERYTHING changes! Please help thanks bye!
They are just being mean. That's all there is too it. Don't worry you will get your boobs. You are only 12. And boys are still acting like 4 year olds at 12. So don't worry. Just play it cool. By the time you get your boobs boy's will be acting batter and then they will see you and... well you get it. what to do about the other girls? Just be you slef. That's all you need to do.
I have no idea what to give an 8 yr old. So heres a description of her and then maybe you guys can help. Shes happy alllll the time. Energetic. Outgoing. Friendly. Happy. That about wraps that up. BTW im 13 and her emo, older sister.
Give her something that she will feel your age about.(one of the best things you can make her think this is 13 like. By the time she's 13 she will have forgive you)
My little sister is in my mom
Im 13, female, and I live in the lamest, deadest, stupidest town EVER!!! There are like 3000 people and almost none of them are my age. They are either 6 years too young or 6-86 yrs too old. Im tryin to find the perfect boyfriend but dont know how. Any help?
Hi,
I just ask all most the same thing.
I got good answers I'm 14 and I don't have a boy friend. Boys are still acting like little kids at 13. Try aging when your 15(maybe they will stop acting like 4year old's by then)
aaaand my boyfriend is ready to kill me because of this. He's allergic to bleach, so I can't do that.
Does anyone know any home remedies?
Lemon juice, baking soda?
Anything. I need to fix this lest he kick me out or break up with me, or something...
we're 23 and 28, not that it should matter...
Help, please...:(
You can use color remover. Or you can use shout. I did before. But then you have to rewash for it too work all the way.
But it this guy is ready to put you out over this break up with him.
He's 28 he can do his washing.
How do you make cleaning fun?
The only two ways that I know.Get your mp3 or dace as you work. Or you can do both.
Whatever you want.
I Like this boy and I dont know if he likes me back i think he does. He asked for my number he wants to kiss he talks about how big my butt and boobs are and how he wants to bang(have sex) with me, he said he likes my smile my "sexy body" and just everything about me. Awww cute is what i thought. Ohh and i must add hes still a virgin. Im not, but he i told him i am. i moved down here so he has to believe what i said because he doesnt know my past. BUT anyway, he just talks about sex alot like oh when you going to let me hit that. sometimes i think hes just doing it because he wants me to think hes down for those kindah things. i Think that because hes still virgin and hes gorgeous! he hasnt admitted that he likes me but from what he says i think he does. what should i do continue talking to him or just find someone new?
This guy is most likely out for sex.I read the answers before I answer and I say there SO RIGHT!
If three people say about the same thing you you go on with this guy have sex with him and he go's right after don't say that nobody said that is going to happen.And if it duos happen you are a dame fool and I hope you learn for it.
Hi I'm Haley I'm 13.Well yesterday my 15 yearold brother's friend came over and my brother wasn't home.Since I knew him we were just chillin in my room and talking and stuff.Then we didn't have anything to talk about and he asked if I wanted to makeout I said yes and we started kissing on my bed and my dad justs comes in my room after like 5 mins.He was pretty mad at me and today after he picked me up from school he told me I'm grounded.Why is my dad so upset with me?! Any advice is welcome
Your dad is going to do mad at you. Sorry.That's just the way it's. Most likely he wants you to be 18.And just how old is this "friend" of your bother?!? And let me tell you something. A real friend duos not make out with his Bff's sister. If had I older bother I not going to ask to have sex with his best friend but I'm going to do make sure that he know we are boy friend and girl friend.
And if you are not friends....well some girls do that. You know have sex with a guy that you not friend with(or knows.) Now I'm just going to say this and say it one time:If you going on play this sh you will get heart and your poor bother most likely will get mad.
It's up to you now but remember this:If you go on doing this you are a BAD girl.
Good luck.
Im 13 and so depressed. I think i might be suicidal. I almost did an overdose before i went to school today. I guess that does make me suicidal. But instead of an overdose i just cut my wrist, hip, and thigh until you could barely see through all the blood. My question is do I need help? And if I do, what kind of help? I have no friends, i cant pass science or metal shop. And my drawings are getting bad. What should I do. Please help me.
Yes!! You are not ok!! Sorry but you need help.
If you have a Mom or a Dad you can go to them and a way to tell if they love you they will do something about you. If you don't want to or something tell a friend and cheek your self in to a place were they help crazy people. I'm sorry I really I'm.But it's that or the hospital for were you cut your self.
But they well only turn a put you there(were crazy people go. I can't think of it's name is right now) when they are done. So go there by your self or die by cutting your self or your cuts not being taken care of right. I feel so bad for you.
Sorry.