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Worried....
My boyfriend have been dating for about two months now, and usually I wait to have sex, but he and I have been best friends for so long, that I'm totally comfortable and feel safe with him, and we decided to have sex on Friday. We used a condom, and it felt good at first but we didn't have a lot of time because his mom came home, so we stopped and just hung out for a while.
A few hours later, we messed around for a little bit, and he told me he wanted to do it without a condom. I trusted him, and told him it'd be fine as long as he knew how to control himself. He stayed in for about two minutes but promised he was very careful and far from cumming. I don't know if it's my paranoid mind, but I've been worrying about that since the day after. My period is very inaccurate and skips a day or two than normal, so I never really know when it is going to show up, but this time I counted ahead. It should come sometime this week, but I'm letting my worries get the best of me. My boyfriend is very responsible and fatherly to my sister, so if chance happened that I did have his child, things would be fine...
Anyway sorry for the long question, but any advice to ease my worries?
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She is so right!!!! NEVER have sex with out a condom if you don't want a baby. I don't care if you are on BC. Don't do it. I'm just saying do what the other girl said. Please do this for your self.
Most likley you really don't want a baby NOW . Or you would not have been using the condom. Play it safe. Do it right.And if your boy want's to take of the condom AGAIN? You have the pussy you make the rules.
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Okay first off I don't care how long you known him or how close you are this should teach you to ALWAYS wear a condom. The pull out method is not a good way to prevent pregnancy. By the way did you know that guys can pre-cum and not know? So yeah that's something to think about too.
Second it's too early to tell you said it happened on Friday. If I were you I would go to a clinic or drugstore and get the morning after pill just in case. Don't wait until your period you need to get that pill and then talk to your boyfriend about being safe during sex.
Go to the store or a clinic and get the pill! Good luck!
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You have every right to be concerned. The pull out or withdrawal method of birth control is the least effective method of birth control.
The male ejaculate has the most amount of sperm, some where between 20 and 150 million sperm. But the male pre-ejaculate or precum also contains sperm. The amount of which depends on the amount of precum emitted. The male does not feel the precum/ejaculate emanate from him as it is a lubricant for sexual intercourse.
Whether the sperm enters you from precum or total ejaculation the sperm know no difference. All sperm are programed to find an egg to fertilize. On the positive side we know that out of the millions of sperm that enter the total amount that actually reach the egg, if one is there, are very few.
You had sex on Friday, today is Tuesday. The plan "B" pill is not as effective after 48 hours. You can talk to your pharmacist about whether taking it now will do you any good. You don't need a prescription for the plan "B" pill.
In a week or two you can start taking home pregnancy tests or wait to see if you get your period. You nervousness over a possible pregnancy can also cause you period to be late or missed as well so a home pregnancy test is in order if you miss your period.
In the future use some type of birth control when having sex. Otherwise it is like playing Russian Roulette with a fully loaded revolver.
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You can get pregnant before he cums! I think you should get a pregnancy test.
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Really, I cannot give you advise to ease your worries. Despite controlling it or not if you have sex without a condom you are technically asking for it. Anything is possible and something as simple as pre ejaculation can sometimes detect enough sperm for pregnancy. If you do not want to be pregnant then use a condom at all times, There is no such thing as "promising to control it" If this is how he think you most definitely are not ready for parenting despite his fatherly connection with your sister. I don't know what to tell you other then wait until your period comes and if it doesn't take a test.
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