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Hi, I'm 14 and me and my girl have been dating for about a month and a half and I want to know if girls are comfortable with being eatin out or felt up or should I just stick to kissing?? Thanks, justin (link)
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If I was dating my boyfriend for a month and a half, I would feel disrespected by being felt up. And I would certainly not allow myself to be eaten out. In my eyes, that is just immoral and rather disrespectful. If I were you, I'd just stick to kissing for now. And then as your relationship progresses, you can try new stuff. But I would definitely not suggest rushing into things. I hope I understood your question correctly.
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Okay so for the past week i've been dating this guy. We havent hung out yet, weve only been texting, and talking on the phone. But he always sent me texts that were cute and made me smile. Starting this sunday, he was being very distant, and either responded with 2 words, or didnt respond at all, OR took 4 or 5 hours to respond. Hes been doing it for a long time now and i dont know whats up.
do you? (link)
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My boyfriend does the same thing. And I don't know about you, but I am the nervous type. So when he texts me those 1-2 word texts, I get a bit nervous and just ask him if he's okay. But I know he is, and I know that no matter how nervous I get, it's just a guy-ish thing that he does, so for me, it's not big deal. But if you feel there may be a problem, just talk to him about it. I'm sure he'll open up.
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how do i act couply with my boyfriend
becuz my friends are tellin me that i dont treat him right by once calling him a name and how do i act couply with my boyfriend (link)
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The simple holding hands is cute and nice. I also act flirty with him still. That's what helped me get to him (I think), and I like like feeling of us just crushing on each other before I started dating him. I also hit him alittle bit. I don't mean violently, but, you know, like love taps ;]
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I have a question obviously, but I would really appreciate answers from people with experience.
Are guys all the same? Is the main goal of their life to have sex? I mean I see these guys and they're gorgeous, know they're gorgeous, and use it to their advantage to get EVERY girl possible. ARE THERE ANY THAT DON'T TRY TO GET WITH EVERY GIRL? THAT TRY TO FIND SOMEONE THEY LOVE? like real love, not lust.
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Are all guys the same? Absolutely not. Is the main goal of their lives to have sex? Some, maybe. All? No. You know, it's funny how many girls say/think this. Some say this because they're looking into the wrong crowd of guys. If you're looking into the crowd of jocks who are handsome in every way possible and think they are handsome in every way also, it is definitely not the right crowd for you. It isn't the crowd for me either. Never was and never will be.
I will never fall for someone who's in love with themself. I'm not saying all jocks are in love with themselves, but a rather large majority are. Just like I won't make friends with a girl who's in love with herself. I think jocks are easily said to be arrogant guys who really are in love with themselves and looks; many who very well are and much, much more.
You need to look elsewhere. When I say "elsewhere", I mean look into another crowd. Get to know people from other "groups" if you aren't already acquainted with them.
See, you can easily find someone good-looking, intelligent, funny and friendly if you look. All guys are not the same and people who say they are, are the ones who haven't looked carefully enough.
There are soooo many guys who do not try and get with every girl. And those are the ones I respect the most. Unfortunately, guys at young ages are still immature and still growing. They will grow out of it. Hopefully all of them, but that isn't a guarentee.
Look outside the box. It's a good place to look. Trust me ;]
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whereeee can i get a stuffed giraffe?! hah. i have noo idea where to get one. thanks :) (link)
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You can try Toys R Us
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i wanna flirt and tease my boyfriend and people told me to like whisper in his ear in like a seducative voice and stuff but what would i say? anddd what else can i do?
thanksss! (: (link)
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Personally, I would have no idea what to say to my boyfriend either lol. Just because it seems really awkward. However, if I want to tease, flirt or turn him on, it's really, really simple:
1. Kiss his neck. Guys looooove that. I love it too, and I'm a girl. It literally sends chills down my spine and gives me goosebumps everywhere.
2. Touch him. What I mean is touch his face and stroke his back. Touching his face creates comfort. Stroking his back also creates comfort and also gives the goosebumps.
3. When kissing, stroke his neck/rub your fingertips through his hair. Not only is this a turn on for him, but it feels comfortable for me too.
4. When your pulling out of a makeout, bite his bottom lip. This DOES NOT mean bite his lip off. It's a very, very gentle tug, if you will. After, give him a cute, mysterious smile.
5. My personal "move" (although it's no much of a move, but I do like to do it), is start kissing his neck, and work your way to his lips. Once you're at his lips, give him a passionate kiss. OR--start to kiss his neck, work your way to his lips, and once you're finally there, tease him a little and don't go in for the kiss (because no doubt he's thinking there's going to be one). Once he realizes his lips were left unkissed, smile (a mysterious smile) and then kiss him.
Well, I hope I helped. You can totally try to experiment. I'm sure he'll go for anything ;]. Good luck !
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what things can girls do when theyre making out with a guy. like, what do guys like. not like LETS GET NAKED but like little tips of stuff like what girls can do
sorry that i worded this very badly.
hope you allll understand haha (link)
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Try different place to make out. For instance, try laying down, sitting up, in the dark, on the floor. It's rather fun ;] . The dark was funnest as you can probably imagine. When I'm in the moment, I usually go for the back of the neck. I keep my hands in the back of his neck or on his face, sometimes stroke his back and sometimes I use my fingertips and caress his hair. It really gets us into the moment. And when he's laying on me and we're just relaxing, I go under his shirt and rub his upper back. Also, lightly biting his bottom lip is sexy. Go for it.
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So theres this guy I met this year when school started
Im a Freshamn, 14
He's Sophmore, 16
He's in my favorite class & we talk throughtout the whole class, making the teacher hate us now
So this weekend, we started texting on Saturday like 10am
& we havent stopped since then & its 6:44pm Sunday
{besides sleeping of coarse}
Anyway, today he was like "its amazing that we've texted nonstop all weekend"
Then he was like "your basically the only one of been texting"
This guy is really sweet & cute, but I dont think Im pretty at all
Could this maybe be a sign that he MIGHT possibly just a TAD BIT like me?
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I used to text my crush alllllll day everyday. He mentioned it a few times and he actually said, "we text all the time and I like it a lot too". And now he's my boyfriend. So it worked for me, I think it could work on you, too. I think there's a rather good possibility. Just take it day by day, and if things progress, try setting up a movie date with him and maybe a few people. Good luck, girl !
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15/f
Okay, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month and a half. He hasn't ever been over to my house before, i have been to his once. Well at first i was really nervous about him coming over and when i finally get the courage to ask him over, my mom tells me that when he comes over, i have to leave the door to my room open. This sucks. I'm not a whore at all and would not even think about doing "anything." My mom knows this too. She just wants to be sure. Anyways, i was planning on watching a movie in my room but i cant do that now because i have an two brothers, my step dad and my mom and if i leave the door open, you can see in my room from the kitchen (where everyone usually is) or the living room. I just can't have this. I don't liked to watched and it just adds to the pressure in the first place. What should i do? Thanks! (link)
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My parents are the same way. They're just assuring you don't do anything you'll regret. I can't really tell you much more than to tell them how you feel. However, when my boyfriend is over, I usually just realx with him in the living room and watch tv. Even though my dad and step-mom are watching, I find it to be really no big deal.
Maybe you could ask your mom/dad to maybe have your door half open. This way, the door will be open enough to make sure they can see you, but still enough for your own privacy (even though if they can see you, it doesn't feel much like privacy).
It's really not that bad, I think you're overthinking how he'll feel about the whole situation. But honestly, just tell him, "don't mind my parents...you know how parents can be...", I'm sure he'll understand.
You will be fine ! Don't Worry !
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my grandfather gets so mad at me all the time and it is really starting to freak me out what do i do? (link)
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You haven't mentioned how he gets mad at you, but I'll try and help you as best I can. If he gets so mad that it scares you, I think you should tell him. Either that, or tell your mom or dad how it makes you scared or weirded out. If you tell your grandpa, just say something like "I get really scared and uptight when you get really mad at me". Remember, don't say something like, "You scare me when you get really mad at me. Could you stop?". "You" is the word you're trying to avoid. You want to make sure that he doesn't see himself as the problem. Then he'll probably get angrier and maybe even do it more. The keywords are "me" and "I", so he knows that you get worried or scared and may prevent himself from doing it.
If that doesn't work, my only advice would be to try and avoid things that get him mad, no matter how little it may be.
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after i shave my legs there are still little black dots where the hair used to be.why is this happening and how do i stop it? (link)
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Perhaps you could try a good shaving cream, or like the person below me said, try a new razor. I also find the 5 bladed Venus really good. Always leaves my legs smooth and hairless. Or as a last resort, you could try something like Nair so you don't have to use a razor, if that is indeed the problem.
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My mom is wanting me get the flu shot but I have a few questions. Does the flu shot give you the flu? Does the flu shot make you sick after having it?
My best friend had the flu shot last year and was terribly ill for a week or better afterward. She said that if she hadn't had the flu shot then she probably wouldn't have gotten sick because she rarely gets sick (she was just taking the flu shot because she could get it for free and figured, "Why not?").
I don't want to end up sick because I was trying to avoid getting sick. I really hate when I get the flu (or any kind of illness, actually) so I am trying to avoid people that are ill already with it. I'm afraid that if I get the flu shot then I'll end up sick too, just like my best friend was last year.
So, does anyone know if the flu shot makes you sick or if the flu shot actually gives you the flu? If it doesn't make you sick then why did my friend get sick last year right after having the flu shot? (link)
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The answer to your question is yes. The flu vaccine has dead or weakened pathogens. They inject these dead or weakened pathogens in your body because your immune system will see them as foreign and your system destroys them. This prevents you from getting a serious strain of the flu because now your immune system will remember and recognize the germs and kill them.
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what are some good ways to turn my boyfriend on or tease him? he does it to me all the time and im trying to figure out how to do it back (link)
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I actually experimented a little bit last night with my boyfriend, and I found out that starting out kissing his neck, working my way to his lips, is a turn on to him (he actually thereafter started using it on me lol). Once you get to his lips, put your hands on his face and kiss him passionately. I hit the nail on the head with that move.
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Soes anyone have any good talking to girls about anything as im really nervous talking to them any help would be help full. (link)
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Talking to girls is really very simple. The easiest way to talk to girls is just being relaxed and yourself. Honestly, that's the only way it's going to be a success. Before you go up and talk to her, just take a deep breath or two and be confident. Confidence means a lot to girls. If you have confidence, you're on the right track to her heart. Be funny. Flirt a little. You'll be fine. If you're relaxed, funny, confident and a bit flirty, you'll do great.
Things To Say:
-Hey, how are you?
-What's up?
-What are you doing this weekend?
-Did you take that (math, science...) test? It was so hard, right?
Just make good conversation and she'll go along with it. Good luck ! You'll do fine!
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15/f
Never made out with anyone before. Only pop kissed. So, i asked how to make out on here before and i got a bunch of different answers and none are exactly alike and i want one way to do it so i know how. I am confused on which one me and my boyfriend will be doing. What do i do? Please tell me what to do or how to make out. I want to know what i'm doing and i don't want to freak out when it's time. When he starts making out with me, i want to do it right so he's impressed and he's not like "Whoa, what are you doing?" Please help! (link)
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I had my first make out recently and I was so nervous and I was like "what do I do?", "how do I do it?" and "what if he doesn't like it?". Well, all that just goes away when it actually starts to happen. I didn't want to ask anyone in person, so my only choice was to look it up online. From going online, it helped my confidence boost like you don't even know, oddly enough.
When it was time to make out, I was just calm and relaxed. If you're not calm, the make out will not go the way you want: enjoyable and exciting. First, I'd like to say it comes so naturally. Had I not looked online, I probably still would have done just fine.
How did I do it? It started off as a few kisses and eventually went to a relaxed, passionate and extended kiss. Just a series of opening and closing your mouth, and if you prefer, tongue. However, the tongue didn't happen during my first make out. If you go on youtube.com and type in "how to kiss with passion" in the search box, it gives pretty good hints and tips in the video.
I hoped I helped ! I'm sure you'll do really great !
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I want to get my boyfriend something
he would really appreciate for x-mas!
he is very into cars!
and things like that...
any ideas???? (link)
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You can get him maybe a car model. They may be expensive, though, so it depends on how much you want to spend. You can't go wrong with a American Express gift card(I know, it feels like you didn't do alot, but it's the thought that counts. And this way he can get whatever he wants to get). Or you can get him a nice sweatshirt or T-shirt alongside something like a DVD or CD that he likes.
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Does anyone have good tips about talking to girls as im useless. (link)
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I find it attractive when a guy is funny. but that's just me. However, you can't go wrong being yourself. Be nice (which I'm sure you are) and do not come off obnoxious. Don't show a girl that you're insecure if you are. Don't be shy! Make any kind of conversation like, "Hey, how are you?" "What's up?", talk about a class or a test that you may have both taken and thought was really hard or something. Ask her questions like maybe what she's doing over the weekend.
Girls like to talk, or most of them do, so have good conversation with them and talking to them will be a piece of cake.
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14/f
Ok, I'm fourteen and have completely stopped growing. If not, the most I'll grow is less than an inch. I'm 4 feet and between 8 and 9 inches tall. I have a whole bunch of guy friends and they're all over 5'5'. Some are even almost 6ft. We're all really good friends and all but though they have admitted that they think i'm pretty, they could never consider going out with me. Now, I know it's mainly because we're all best friends and all but what if it's more? is it more? is my height really that unattractive? i feel horrible and i....i honestly just don't feel normal. i know i'm short and the fact that i'm into tall guys doesn't help at all but i really would just like to know if my height's really all that bad. i love the tall guys. what should i do and am i too short?
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I'm 16 and 5'0 and loving every minute of it. Actually this past Friday, my boyfriend told me that he wouldn't want me to be any taller than I am now. It's really an advantage being short. It could be an excuse for a guy to help you ;]
I think you're really overthinking this "is it more?". I highly doubt that a guy wouldn't like you for your height.
And you're probably not done growing. If you've recently gone to the doctor and took an X-ray and they mentioned something about your risser sign being complete, then I'd say there's a possiblity, until then, you'll probably grow.
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me and this guy were messing around and he was making me watch football, and so i like got on top of him and straddled him and was like i'm gonna get you for making me watch this and i bit him, in the neck haha because he knows i hate football! and he was like your so mean! that hurt :( well now next time i want to like kiss his neck, i know i like when people do that to me but how do i do it? like do i kiss it like a "peck kiss" i don't want to necessarily give him a hickey and i don't really want to feel like i'm making out with his neck but i don't know if just plain kissing it will make him horny. what do you guys think? usually i'll get on top of him and give him a hug :) and then he will like hold me and i'll rub my hands through his hair but i want to be more into it!
17/f by the way (link)
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If you want to kiss his neck, it's just that easy. It's not like making out with his neck (I'm picturing this in my head...it seems awkward lol) and it's just like a regular kiss except on the neck. It totally gets me going when my partner does it to me, which pretty much means when I do it to him, it gets him fired up as well.
As for the forehead kisses, it is definitely not dorky! I find it to be very cute and calming. There's nothing like feeling relaxed and comfortable in the arms of your guy/girl.
I also find it that stroking his back or putting your hand on the back of his neck is cute as well ;]
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16/f
I have never made out with a guy before. Just kissed them. Well when the moment comes, i want to be prepared. I know a lot of people say that making out is natural and everything but i am completely clueless on what it is and how you do it pleasedon't say, it comes natural. If you could tell me what it is and how you do it with steps or something like that, that would be great. Thanks! (link)
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This is something I can totally relate to. Making out is just an extended kiss. Kissing session, rather. I remember, like mid-September-ish, my boyfriend wanted to makeout with me and I remember thinking like "Oh my gosh. I have no idea what to do. What am I going to do?" I didn't want to ask anyone because that is rather embarrassing and I definitely didn't want to talk about it with my boyfriend. That's even worse lol.
So what I did, was look on the internet (because anything and everything is found on the internet) to look for some tips and maybe even some steps. If you want to do the same, just go to google and type "how to make out".
After I did that, I had so much more confidence, you don't even know. I was just like, "okay, I can do this without stressing and worrying". When the time came, I was relaxed and not mortified.
Though, my main worry was "what if he thinks I'm not a good kisser?" But that didn't even cross my mind when I first made out with him.
How did I do it? Well, I waited for the right moment and he pulled me in for it. I followed his lead and everything went well. I can't tell you exact how-to dircections, because what my boyfriend did may be different to what the guy you make out with has planned. But I can tell you that it started out as a kiss and we gradually went further into an "extended kiss".
Just be yourself and be relaxed and I can guartentee he won't even notice if you're good or not. My own tips: I usually stroke his back once or twice, put my hand(s) on the back of his neck or on his cheek.
Making out may lead to other things and if you're uncomfortable doing whatever it may lead to, don't feel pressured to do so.
P.S. Do not forget to close your eyes !
I hope I helped !!!
Answer to Your Feedback Question:
Well, you don't have to. I never put my tongue in my boyfriends mouth. He always puts his in my mouth. Don't worry about it, you'll know when your tongue is needed. I know you don't want to hear it, but it's really a very natural thing and it'll just come to you :]
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