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what is too short?


Question Posted Tuesday November 11 2008, 2:55 am

14/f

Ok, I'm fourteen and have completely stopped growing. If not, the most I'll grow is less than an inch. I'm 4 feet and between 8 and 9 inches tall. I have a whole bunch of guy friends and they're all over 5'5'. Some are even almost 6ft. We're all really good friends and all but though they have admitted that they think i'm pretty, they could never consider going out with me. Now, I know it's mainly because we're all best friends and all but what if it's more? is it more? is my height really that unattractive? i feel horrible and i....i honestly just don't feel normal. i know i'm short and the fact that i'm into tall guys doesn't help at all but i really would just like to know if my height's really all that bad. i love the tall guys. what should i do and am i too short?

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loverlyxxx answered Wednesday November 12 2008, 7:55 pm:
#1 you wont stop growing for another two years.
#2 you may have a major growth spurt soon
#3 most guys like the small girls because they are cute. all small things are cute.
#4 there is no such thing as too short.
#5 dont call your self short call your self Fun size. ppl think its cute and they like the confidence.
I woulnt really know how it is to be tht short tho im 14 and im 5'8" and keep growign so if you decide to ignore this its alright.

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Jackieee answered Wednesday November 12 2008, 6:55 pm:
I'm 16 and 5'0 and loving every minute of it. Actually this past Friday, my boyfriend told me that he wouldn't want me to be any taller than I am now. It's really an advantage being short. It could be an excuse for a guy to help you ;]

I think you're really overthinking this "is it more?". I highly doubt that a guy wouldn't like you for your height.

And you're probably not done growing. If you've recently gone to the doctor and took an X-ray and they mentioned something about your risser sign being complete, then I'd say there's a possiblity, until then, you'll probably grow.

Hope I helped !

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orangebutterfly answered Wednesday November 12 2008, 6:08 pm:
Don't Drag your self down. I am short I am 4'11 I am 23.. plus your still growing.. its take times. plus if you meet a guy, guy like you for you. not your to short or to tall. you know there guys out there are short and tall girls don't want to date them. being tall and short is not improtant. its our soul and who we are inside. maybe they like you as a friends and yet sometimes maybe guys look for you a freind somoeone they talk to or think your real nice don't want to hurt you or and yet lose a friendship. plus you find that somebody want you for you. not your Height. plus the height thing is getting old let it go. becouse many years now people brag about how hair sould looks and all that. plus remeber Being short is more fun. trust me there a speicl gift god give you and you wront know too you find it.

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