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Talking to girls
Soes anyone have any good talking to girls about anything as im really nervous talking to them any help would be help full.
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The answers you'll get on here will be the beginner things such as "Hi, how are you?" and all of that stuff. That's great... but it's very naggy and you end up playing 20 questions with the girl. Imagine seeing this girl you like, you've both got dogs and are in the park.
You: Nice dog [dogs start playing], they seem to like each other. What kind is he?
Her: [Yeah they're getting along well. She tells you the dog type]
Y: Cool, cool. What kind of food do you give it?
H: *Food*
Y: Do you come out here often? I haven't seen you before?
DO NOT do that. Instead, ask for her opinion on something. For instance, walk up to her and be like "My friend and I were just debating earlier who the coolest ninja turtle was. I think it's the dude with the two swords, my friend said it's the nun-chuck guy!"
You're conveying a quirkyness and intrigue about yourself and appearing lively, because in order to deliver this question you'll need a smile on your face, partly because me telling you this, you're probably thinking that I'm out of my mind. I assure, this will work better than anything else.
From here you can go into other topics. Never, EVER hang on the same topic if you're running out of stuff to say. And, always, if you no longer have anything to say, you have no obligation to keep talking to her. Dismiss yourself and come back later.
Also: If she likes you and is in to you, she'll keep the conversation going. If she's doing this, you're in luck - she likes your company. After I get to know a girl and they start showing interest I'll actually stop bringing up new topics because they will keep the conversation going.
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I'm a girl so from my perspective the best way to talk to a girl is to compliment her. I'm not saying to constantly tell her shes beautiful because that might get annoying or scary...[lol] but just something spontaneous or cute like if she has a new haircut you can say "Wow, your new hair looks good." Either that or go with the simple "How's it going." Be casual and relax about it. Just talk to whomever this girl is and pretend she's a friend. Making a girl laugh is always a plus, too. I once had a boy say "I don't have a library card but can I check you out." I found it awkward that a guy was using a pick up line on me but then he said, "Look, that's the only thing I could think of. The truth is I just wanted an excuse to talk to you." That kind of stuff flatters me, but that's just my point of view.
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Talking to girls is really very simple. The easiest way to talk to girls is just being relaxed and yourself. Honestly, that's the only way it's going to be a success. Before you go up and talk to her, just take a deep breath or two and be confident. Confidence means a lot to girls. If you have confidence, you're on the right track to her heart. Be funny. Flirt a little. You'll be fine. If you're relaxed, funny, confident and a bit flirty, you'll do great.
Things To Say:
-Hey, how are you?
-What's up?
-What are you doing this weekend?
-Did you take that (math, science...) test? It was so hard, right?
Just make good conversation and she'll go along with it. Good luck ! You'll do fine!
Hope I helped !
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well for starters dont bore them.my boyfriend still does that by talking about stuff that he knows i dont understand.
Also if you know they dont understnad stuff dont try to make them understand...my boyfriend talks about cars and stuff i dntget it.
Just be cool, talk about stuff you like, without being confusing.
Ask about them and what they like and what they enjoy. Be casual, dont worry to much about it.
good luck
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