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my grandfather scares me
my grandfather gets so mad at me all the time and it is really starting to freak me out what do i do?
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You haven't mentioned how he gets mad at you, but I'll try and help you as best I can. If he gets so mad that it scares you, I think you should tell him. Either that, or tell your mom or dad how it makes you scared or weirded out. If you tell your grandpa, just say something like "I get really scared and uptight when you get really mad at me". Remember, don't say something like, "You scare me when you get really mad at me. Could you stop?". "You" is the word you're trying to avoid. You want to make sure that he doesn't see himself as the problem. Then he'll probably get angrier and maybe even do it more. The keywords are "me" and "I", so he knows that you get worried or scared and may prevent himself from doing it.
If that doesn't work, my only advice would be to try and avoid things that get him mad, no matter how little it may be.
I hope I helped <3
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