Ilove to help people with their problems, I uusally am good with female problems, but SOME men problems I can handle, like if it's a medical problem for males... I really can't help you in that category, but if it's like relation ship problems and stuff like that then I would be one of the best people to ask!
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ok...so i just just got over this guy after liking for like a couple of monthes...right now no one likes me...I NEED HELP.. wut do i do (link)
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ask them why they don't like you. ask them what did you do wrong? and tell them WHY you broke up with him if that's why their angry
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I don't even know where to start... I'm a high school senior and I'm so damn busy with schoolwork. We're doing this film for our class project and deadline's already next week. The problem is, we're not even finished shooting all the scenes! I've been putting so much time and effort into this film(I got terribly sick last week and I lost 6-8 pounds from the time we started filming which was 3 weeks ago) but my actors don't seem to realize that we don't have all the time in the world, like, they're just lazing around sometimes and stuff...
I'm also an editor of the school paper and we're also rushing to finish the lay-outs because the deadline to the printer is also next week!
That's not all. I have to do my Investigatory project and I also have two research papers to finish! Actually I still don't have a topic for the other one and my English teacher hasn't given us our topic yet so for sure I'm gonna be cramming like crazy....
Sometimes I just feel restless...I can't concentrate in class becasue my mind is constantly focused on other things ALL the time... I've been losing weight and I don't want that to continue because other people have been telling me that I'm so skinny(I now only weigh 95lbs and my normal weight is around 100lbs.).
I also have DARK eyebags and I have a lot of pimples now...Plus, my cough just won't go away...
What can I do to reduce the stress? (link)
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buy those little stress thingis where you squeez them and their eyes pop out and in? you should like it. although... my mom did pop it when she got too pissed off... hmm. just don't squeez TOO hard
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Every single day I feel like I'm fighting with my mom. And it's starting to get really annoying and old. And usually I'm not the one that starts it... she is. For example, I try my hardest to get a good grade. I get an 80. Then I get yelled at for not trying my hardest even though it's my toughest class. She tells me I'm a failure and that I'm in trouble when I go to college. We fight about things like doing well in a sport. She tells me that i should have passed the ball when i shot it and stuff like that. She tells me clothes to wear and how to do my hair. I know being 14 fighting with parent is normal... but is there such thing as over fighting? I don't know what to do anymore and it's really bothering me and kinda depressing now... (link)
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she could be going through "The Change", or she could be crankey, try suggesting therapy family tharapy to her.
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Okay my neighbor is a flight attendant and she flies to peru and goes to the open markets and stores there and she said she would pick some Hollister stuff up for me there. but she said that they have like UK sizes and stuff. I tried converting my size on a couple of websites except the charts didnt go down low enough to my size. i wear a size 1 in Hollister in the US. is there anybody who knows what size that would be in the UK for hollister b/c hollister sizes run funny and i want to be super sure its right.
thanks in advanced. =] (link)
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well does SHE know all the uk sizes? if so you could ask her about it.
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welll my sister is a size 34a bra and she's 15, my mom well idk what size she was before she got a boob job, haha probably something a? so yeah im 13 and im a 32a. does that mean im automatically gonna have small boobs like them? does it have anything to do with it? thanks (link)
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one word: genetics. you might however get small boobs from genetics, but remember, big boobs aren't everything! people don't judge you by how big your boobs are but by the personality (usually)! keep your chin up, and hope for the best!
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ill try to make this simple. so me and this kid went out for like 2 months and became good friends. well we broke up but still talked but one day we got into a fight and he made me mad so i told him to stay outta my life and never talk to me again. that was in the beginning of summer. so we havent talked. well during the summer i messaged him on myspace and was like i miss talking to you and he said get used to it and then i was like whatever fuck it. well now that school has started im a freshman and hes in 8th grade. so different schools but they are right next to eachother. but we see eachother everyday and like we just stare at eachother & i really miss him but idk how to start talking to him again after that. but i really miss him alot. i was thinking online just send him a chat invitation and then close it and say sorry my computers messed up and then see if that just starts a convo but idk what to do. i miss him so much. please help. (link)
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you could go up to him and say "I'm really really sorry, I didn't mean to say that, I really liked talking with you, I miss it alot. can you please forgive me?" and if it doesn't work then you know what? you don't need him, he's not worth it.
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ok! (sorry if it's a little long!!) so there is this guy that has liked me for a little while. at first i didn't mind because he's really hott and funny, it's just that he has a really bad history [including being in jail...long story] but anyways he's always waiting for me outside of my class to walk me to my next one, he's always saying how he wants to hang out that weekend and he's always tryin to kiss me [when i don't want him to]...he hasn't been totally successfull with that, he's just gotten my forehead and neck [which i STILL don't want though]. after things i've found out, i would NEVER consider dating him and honestly i don't even really want him as a friend, even moreso when there is some other guy that i really like. if people see us in the halls together or anything, they might assume we're goin out which ruins things with this other guy, and also my reputation since this guys rep is totally smashed after last year. how do i tell him i don't wanna be more than friends??
o! and i'm a 17 female if that helps! =] (link)
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go to him and tell him "look, I'm sorry, but I really don't like it when you try to kiss me and things like that, you're a really sweet guy but please,I don't want to be with you. please try and get over me. I'm sorry." and then walk away. it may be hard at first but you have to tell him
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Hi, I am 15/f. I like my brother's friend, who is 17.
One of his other friends' little sister liked him. When he found out, he said he would never go out with her becasue she is his friend's lttle sister...and was pretty much like "Yuck"
Anyways, when I first met him, he already knew my name, but we didn't say much to each other. Then around a week or two later, it seemed like he might like me, because he was looking at me and talking to me and stuff. Although I liked him, I didn't know what to do. I didn't want him to be disgusted, so now I completely ignore him. (I'm weird, I know). And he ignores me as well.
My question is, should I try to flirt with him and sew what happens? Do you think he would ever go out with me? (link)
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I wouldn't flirt with him because that is a huge age difference! and I don't think he would be interested. trust me the right guy will come along eventually and you'll be glad you didn't make a fool of yourself by flirting with him
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okay so we are doing this mount where you hook arms. like the two bases hook one arm together and pull the flyer up on their arms then go to an extension and then bounce down and go up to a liberty. okay well im the flyer. we had it. like we just started yesterday. well we have it but i just can't hold my liberty. like i get it up and it sticks but like i just give out and fall backwords. does anyone have any ideas how i can keep it? like hold it up. i've tried pulling up and leaning forward but nothing helps. any tips or websites will help. thanks (link)
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I know this is pretty lame advice but all I can say is keep practicing!
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ok so i dont know how common this is but my boobs are two different sizes. It's been that way for about 2 years now but i always figured they'd just even out. Im 14/f and one is a 32A n the other is a 34A. Is that bad or normal or anything? (link)
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normal, my one boob is a little smaller than the other, but it's normal, if you want something to do about it then I would see your doctor and ask him/her about it
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Does anyone have a myspace music player, or an MP3 of the song "Hollaback Boy" from Cobra Starship? It's not on their myspace anymore, and my iPod wont let me copy a few songs onto my new computer. And of course, three songs I can't find are on there!!
thanks for ANY help.
p.s. I already tried Webjay.org :] (link)
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look it up on youtube or put the music video on your myspace page! that would be good right?
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hi! well this is going to be long but i hope someone can help ;] all reply's are appreciated ♥
ok well one of my best friends, katie, has been hanging out with this older guy a LOT, named adam. katie & i are freshmen in high school, and adam is a junior, which i think is kinda a big age difference esp. in high school. well the two of them go over eachothers houses n walk home from school holding hands and he always has his arm around her waist in the hallway when he walks her to every class. but according to katie they are not going out or bf/gf or whatever, but everyone knows they like eachother. i personally think hes using her 1. cause shes pretty, naive, and likes him 2. to get back at his ex 3. to have sex with her eventually... well okay so all my friends and i think that adam's trouble. he gets drunk every weekend according to his myspace, which is bad in my point of view because since katies such a great friend i wouldnt want her to start doing that just cuz he does, since shes been changing herself to get him to like him more. also i mean her parents r way overprotective so she tells them that shes at a friends house when really shes hanging out with adam. she never lied to her parents before now. and i must sound like a total goody goody but its because i dont want her to do anything stupid, especially with or because him. and also he has had sex before so i think he is only with her for that since he's a typical guy. anyways, i would love some support or ways to tell my friend that this guy is a **total** jerk. thanks in advance ♥!!! (link)
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confront your friend and tell her what you think of this guy, and how you think he's using her, tell her something bad could happen if she continues on seeing him, and if she barks at you for confronting her, maybe you're better off without her you know?
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My mom and dad are having some problems and I've been pretty upset about it. My mom basicaly told my dad that she doesn't like him much anymore just because of their arguments in the past. My mom, dad and I always used to go out on Satudays and do things like go out to eat, go to movies and things like that. Now, my dad and I are the only one's that do that while my mom is out with her new friend drinking at bars and things. Most of the time she even just spends the night at here friends house. I've tried talking to her but its just to akward. What in the heck should I do? Is she mabe having an affair? I don't know what to do or think. Any good advice would do me some good right now. Thanks everybody! (link)
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ok, this may be hard for you to do, but sometimes parents need to be divorced. ask your mom if she has any plans on divorce and that it would be best for both you and your mom for the divorce. if you don't want to do that you can ignore it, when they start fighting put on your headphones to music and do somethings else, and when your mom goes out don't think about where she's at think about how it's best for her to get out of the house and away from the arguements
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ok I'm really confused right now, i Dont know what to do right now. I like my boyfreind brandon, but he can be a huge asshole. he tells me what and what not to do, he critisizes me, and even yells at me, plus he has problems of his own and i can't deal with him and his problems AND my problems alltogether.he also hides things from me, lies to me, and sneaks about everything. I can't ever beleive him. all my freinds say i should dump him, but i still like and care for him. plus he's not ALL bad. i really enjoy being with him. There's also a guy named Russell who seems to be interested in me, and ditto for me. Me and him talk alot on the phone, and he helps me with alot of problems, and I like him too, but i dont want to leave brandon then go out with russell right after, but if i wait for a while then break up with brandon, then russell gets a girlfreind and loses interest in me, then that would SUCK ASS TOTALLY. i dont know what i should do. should i break up with my boyfreind, or give him 1 last chance. If i DO give him 1 more chance, then this will be the 3rd chance i have given him, and im TIRED of playing games with him. what the hell should i do?? (link)
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tell brandon you two should see other people, brandon isn't right for you, he's too violent (mentally), and oyu shouldn't have to do what he tells you to, you are your own person! russel sounds perfect for you.
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what are some fun hairstyles for school football games.
our school gets really into the whole school spirit thing, people paint they're whole bodies.
if you have any ideas of like ribbons or glittery things or easy to do styles. my hair is like shoulder length and my school colors are blue and gold.
thanks sooo much.
i need an answer REALLY soon. (link)
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you could wear blue and gold hair ribbons, or blue shirt and gold skirt/pants/shorts, or you could wave blue and gold pom poms even though you might not be a cheer leader you can buy pom poms at a micheals store.
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My iPod nano has recently been acting up. It won't play music at all; everytime I choose a song it immediately goes to the next song, then the next, then the next, until it reaches the end at which point it returns to the main menu (which is normal when the playlist is finished.) I'm having trouble getting on without my music!! Help me, please! (link)
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you might want to consider taking it to radio shack to get it fixed, or you oculd buy a new ipod! I like CD players better (proly cuz I can't afford an ipod), but anyway you should try that.
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15 M - i know this sounds like a stupid question about the sound of my voice but still here we go anyway ... i love to play my guitar i play things like jack johnson (if you have heard him you will know how much of an awesome singer he is) i can play gone going and sing at the same time the thing is i hae my voice i can hit the notes i just hate the sound to me it sounds k when ime singin and playing but as soon as i ercord to my pc is doesnt sound nice at all i am starting to think is, is it that age old story about you sound good in your mind untill you record yourself and play it back and you sound shit any tips on makeing my voice sound better??? (link)
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you could practice singing, but you know, singing isn't for everyone, my voice sucks crap, but I am a great artist! if I were you stop focusing so much on what you can't do and try to find something you can do really well, and if you already have a knack at something then go with it!
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I don't know what to do and I can't cope so please help me if you can...
The truth is...nobody likes me. I'm not saying that in a 'feeling sorry for myself' way. It's fact. I work in an office where I overhear people bitching about me, where people lie about me and where they arrange nights out and I'm the only one not invited.
I can't do anything about it really because none of it can be proven and my Manager already believes the lies that have gone round about me because he's confronted me about them. There's nobody above him I can go to and I can't leave because I need the money and having looked around, I know I can't get the same anywhere else.
I can't seem to do anything right. Work is bad enough. I try SO hard and have done hours and hours of overtime, which I even refused to accept payment for because of personal reasons but I still mistakes. Constantly.
To make matters worse, I'm a complete failure in all other aspects of my life. I can't keep our home clean. I can't do a whole host of other things I should be able to do and the only things I ever really work at, I fail at and I'm so fed up of being such a loser and a failure that all I can seem to do is cry right now and not stop.
My boyfriend tries so hard to help me cope but I feel so miserable all the time and there's nothing anyone can do because the problem is with ME.
So, I guess my question is, how can I be happier? How can I stop feeling so bad about everything I seem to suck at?? And how do I find people who care about me, because other than my boyfriend, I don't think anyone does. (link)
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you might want to change to a different work or you can ask them why they hate you so much? what did you ever do to make them hate you, bring a tape recorder to work and hide it in your pocket and turn it on when you hear them start up again
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ummm he already kno's (link)
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... who? I've talked to alot of people
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anybody got any suggestions for a good first car? anyone HAVE a car thats great that can tell me about it? im looking for something pretty much just to get me back and forth but also something decent- in a 6 or 7 thousand dollar range- on a tight budget. any help is appreciated!!! (link)
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it all depends on you! whatever you want you will find in time! jaguars are really good, but if you have kids you might want to but a van.
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