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Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx
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Hey.. I really fell in love with this question because I was in your EXACT position last year. Last year was my boyfriend and my First anniversary (And I was just 14)... And I had this romantic pitcure in my head of giving him my virginity and blah blah blah. But then I slapped myself in the face because I realized that was what held our relationship together, and that I'm way to young to have sex. If he loves you, he'll wait for you. Now Patrick and I have been together almost 2 years, And he's still waiting. Even though I love him so much. I think that sex is not to be taken lightly. Wait until you are surely ready with NO doubts at all. Maybe make him a scrap book, or get him a watch. Maybe even make him dinner, and rent a movie? Hope you guys have a wonderful 1 year ann.! Best Wishes :) -Britty- ((Sorry I put a personal story int here.. I thought maybe it could help seeing someone in the same position))
okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again????
Well if you want him back you better talk about things... I (personally) wouldn't. But I'm not here to telll you what I would do. People get abusive for many personal reasons... Maybe he was abused? But you need to tell him if you want to get back with him... That it WILL NOT happen again. And ask him why he did it. If anything is emotional wrong with him. Hope all goes well :) -Britty-
Okay, I have a problem with sweaty armpits. I'm sorry if this seems gross, but it's becoming a big issue. I always have to wear black shirts to hide it, but school is starting on Monday, and we have a uniform (a baby blue t-shirt) I don't want to wear a jacket, because I'll get really overheated! I even tried switching to men's deodorant and nothing changes! I'm really embarrassed about this... I don't know what else to do! Someone, please help me! Thanks sooo much, in advance!!
YOu should see a doctor if its that much of an issue. I hope things get better...Best wishes :)-Britty-
well im 13 and my boyfriends 16 going on 17 and his aunt that lives upstairs from came down and tolled me that he had a girlfriend and his juss playing with me.. and then earlier i let him go up my shirt because i trusted him ALOT and everything so when i found out i was a surprise because he tolled he dint have a girlfriend but his not the kind of person that would seem to bee doing sumtting like that because his really nice and den just about everywun sayed he had another girl friend and everything and i really wanna hear it from him and crap because i really really like him and shyt so i dunno what to really do.. to belive everywun else or wait till he comes next week to see me and ask him and i juss dont no anymore if im going to dumo him or not because everywun wants him and shyt and i have him AND I guess some other bitch does too..
what should i doo
p.s he comes every week to see me bacuse his in job tec. and its very very far so he stays thier overnite.. till friday and his like in highschool he sould be a senior but he satyed back 2 times
Talk to him... Confront him about it and ask him. Tell him you how you feel, and ask him what's going on. His aunt might have just been saying it too... Well good luck :) -Britty-
ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad-
I dont think your friends are much of friends. Maybe you should try making new better friends that will be there for you... Hope things get better -Britty-
Ok, I'm sorry, I really don't need advice but...
Is it just me, or is every1 else sick of these kids in their early teens talking about having sex?
It is fully YOUR decision about whether or not u are ready 4 sex but if u r having any doubts about it that u prolly aren't ready. Even better, u should prolly wait until ur older (or even married) cuz then u know that u truely love the person cuz u shouldn't b doing anything that u might regret.
Ok... I think that about does it w/ my tyraid...
Well maybe they need someone to talk to... Obviously they would if they're going to an advice forum. It's a hard disicion to make when you're young, Especially if you don't have anyone to talk to. :) Just putting in my input. Sorry if I offended in anyway... -Britt-
im 13 and i really like this kid and he is 15 i told him how i feel and he said he likes me to but we live a hour away we could neva go out [ so he said ], but sometimes he seems like he likes me then other times it seems like he is to busy that he has no time for me but then i know he has alot of girls as friends and i don't know if he likes them and i know that sounds like jealously but it is and i don't know wat to do u think i should just try to get off him [ it would be so hard if i did but i could try ].. or wat ? .. PLEASE HELP !
I think you should move on... Obviosly he thinks it wouldn't work between yall... And a relatiosnhip will only last if both the partners think and want the realtionship to. Hope all goes well :) -Britt-
im a 14 year old male teen soi use tthe comp alot.my mom and dad r always tryin 2 c wat i do on the comp. they almost neva give me ne privacy on it. in fact rite now im on a crumy laptop in my bed and every1s alseep. 2day they say me talkin 2 som1 on AIM that they didnt no. they kept bitchen bout how i broke their trust or somethin and now my dad is gonna take aim away 4ever off all our comps!!! som1 plz help me and tell me wat i shud do!!!
They're just doing it because they care... They dont want you talking to strangers ((oops)) who might want to meet you then blah blah blah... So talk to them... Tell them you know stranger danger and that you use AIM to talk to your friends from school. That happend to me too. Just talk to them nice and calm. Tell them how you feel and tha tyou wont abuse their trust.... Good-Luck:) -Britty-
Well their is this guy that I have know since I was like 6 or older. we have always seen each other and I have always had a crush on him. he is like 20 turning 21 in feburary. I am only like 15 turning 16 in october. Is it bad for having a crush or like maybe a thing wit him even if he is a lil older then me? I like him so much but I don't know if my parents would like that he is older and I am so young for him. When we see each other too. we have so much stuff to talk about together and we are happy when we see each other and It hurts me when other girls hurt him. I don't want to do. well thank you Jenny,16,female
Well I would talk to you parent... Everyone says that... But I think it would help. I mean maybe they'll understand since you've known him for so long. I dunno... Talk to him too, see what he thinks about yalls realationship. Does he see a dating future for yall's relationship or just like a bro/sis kinda deal? I dunno talk to him first, and then your parents and things should be alright... Hope all goes well -Britty-
im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go?
You're always going to have some problems with you parents. But running away NEVER will solve them. If anything, That will totally break any trust at all. Pluse, you're 14... Be smart. Just talk to them.... Sit them both down and tell them how you feel. They'll listen, They love you. Hope things get better :) -Britty-
Hey does anyone know something I can download like Kazaa or Piolet, so I can download music for free?
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Kay im almost 15 female...i met this guy bout 3 1/2 years ago...we went out a four times (in tha 3 year period)n he played me 2 times...n tha other time i broke up with him..n tha last time...about 10 months ago he broke up with me bc things were two complicated...well tha whole school year we were on n off friends...he was tha first guy who ever told me that they loved me. And sumhow i noe in his own way he does...well now im not sure were we r at...we have been talking online ALOT flirting n stuff n we talk on tha fone alot two! well he lately we have been really close...n online we were talking and he had said that he really missed me n wanted us ta kick it soon n stuff n he had told me he was sorry bout everything in tha past n that he wants to be with me...well b4 earlier in tha year he would NEVA come ova to my house bc him n my mom dont exactly get along to good...well two nights ago him n his step brother came ova just so he could see me..they stayed fer about two hours or so...we kissed...n then later we made out just a lil bit..n we flirted infront of everyone n we have sooo many inside jokes but yeah...n he would keep tickeling me bc he noes all my tickleish spots n then he had his arms around me n was playin round n kept hittin my ass...it was all in fun n i had alot of fun! then they got picked up by one of there friends...he called me later that night at like midnight n we talked fer an hour or so...he use to neva call me...him n his step brother are 15 and 17...they went up to their grandparents cabin this weekand unsupervised so that kinda sux fer me but he called me twice y-day which he usually doesnt do...i really think he has changed butttttt....my friend stephanie thinks they r guna hook up..she is like obsessivly crazy for him and it is so irratating..im not sure what to do tho?!!?should i trust him n try to be with him or should i try to just forget it... Plllz help XoXo
You should talk to him and tell him how you feel.. He will never know unless you tell him! best wishes -Britty-
is there good way i can lose some weight.. im not fat at all but i got some pudge in the middl of my stoamach... please help me
Well you shouldnt worry but if you're uncomfortable with your body you should swim laps, or jog. As well as maybe crunches before bed or when your bored. And eat healthy :) Best wishes -Britty-
Ok im Bi and I have a really big crush on my best friend who is straight and a girl. She knows im Bi and she flirts with me all the time as a joke, and ive always taken it as one till I started to get a crush. So now when she flirts I take it for real. I dont know if I should tell her how I feel or just keep my feelings to my self caues I would hate to mess up the relationship bc we have been best friends for 3 years. What should i do?!
I think you should tell her, I mean... Since yall are close I bet shell understand... But then if she doesnt feel the same shell know not to lead you on like that... good luck! -Britty-
Okay..so my knee has been hurting like a motha for like 2 days now!lol like whenever I turn it it hurts really bad and i cant walk right..i have to like limp kinda..you cant really tell im limping but i feel like i am!And like it hurts sooo bad and if this has happend to you i just wanna kno when you went to the doctor and got it checked out..did u have to get any shots?cuz im sooo paranoid w/ shots.and if i do have to get a shot then im not telling my mom and im not getting it checked out...so please help!THANKS!
You probably wont have to get a shot but i would advise you to see a doctoe specially if this continues... hope you feel better -britty-
hello fro, me and this girl were like best friends and spent every weekend at eachothers house for a long time and then she started hanging out with like one or two other girls and would ignore me all the time in class and then it got to the point where she would cancel our plans for theirs and it made me upset but when I'd talk to her at times the other girls were not around she was different. it seems like she thinks that they are better than me or something but she ignores me as well as other people as if they don't like me but they donnot act like they donnot. i just wish we could be like friends again, which she barely acts like we are. IS she another person now? or is it me?
This happens alot, And problably will happen to you more. Friends grow apart. I would try talking to her and if things don't resolve then maybe look for another good girl friend... Best wishes
-Britty-
ive always liked older guys and older guys have always liked me, but im not talking like guys two or three years older im talkin that the oldest guy ive been with was 26 and i was 14. im 15 now and im into a guy thats 20 and hes into me, but there is no way we can date with my parents being in the way but i dont want to hide it cause i had to do that with the 26yo and it didnt work out well. but i can't wait till im 18 bc hes moveing next march, i dont' know what i should tell my parents so theyd let me be with him.. any suggestions?
Oh wow honey, Thats not right for someone that much older to be with someone so young and I'll tell you that upfront... That's child molestation, not love... SO take care of yourself.... And if he is a nice guy... You should tell you parents... Thats serious...
ok well ive liked this one guy for awhile. i did tell him i liked him and he said he likes me too. but i dont know if i should go out with him, bcuz everyone says hes a player. should i or shouldnt i? thx
Maybe you should get to know him better... And if you like what you see date him! Good Luck -Britty-
My name is Brittany too lol.. well I am not with my boyfriend anymore because he thinks I was being to obsessive over him.. i duno if I was.. but.. I duno.. i think I'm just going to give dating a rest becasue I always seem to get hurt.. nothing went past 3 months with me.. they always break up with me.. i could never hurt anyone like that.. well thanx fr the help
and I meant I didnt know he had a gf until my friend asked him out 4 me :-(
Well hope things get better for you!
ok theres this guy that i think that likes me alot... i think hez really sweet and id go out with him sept... my friends all think hes really ugly and theyd probally think if i went out with him that im just desperate!! n im not!! well my best friends in his class and told him that i thought he wuz really ugly and then my other friend that wuz in the same class i wuz walking home with her one day and she said that i tured him gay!! lol. i kno i didnt. lol. hez not gay but i dk wut to do leave him alone be his friend wut? i dk!! n im not gunna just go out with him u kno wut i mean!! lol. peace out!!
If you like him go for it... Why does it matter what your friends think about your love life.. .shouldn't they be there for you? I say... GO FOR IT!!! It's what's on the inside that counts anyway... Best wishes :)