well my bf is a marine and the only way i can talk to him is through myspace(cuz he's in cali for training)but for the last week..he's been talking to my sister who not much younger than me because i havent been online lately.
and she and him both brag to me what they were talking bout to eachother and its getting me realllly jealous i dont wanna lose him.and to top it off,no one knows were going out except my oe friend
what do i do?
Tell your boyfriend how you feel. That will be the only way to make everything better. And if something changes, you'll see how much he does care about you.
Just be honest with him.
I hope I helped!
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i just recently got braces and ive always heard stories and seen stuff on tv about how hard and the things that happen when kissing with braces.
does it really hurt the other person and hard?
or is that just made up?
mainly, can i kiss with braces?
No its not true.
They dont get "stuck" together if the other guy has braces too. hahaha
Its the same without braces.
Trust me, you'll be fine!
I hope I Helped!
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Well I know what shallow is, but i wanted a real good definitions and some examples and situations of shallowness. and how shallow peopel act. Im not sure if im shallow or not. - thanks.
shallow- deep,low, or small minded.
uhmm two examples;
" He kept insulting her with is shallow thoughts. All he wanted was to make her sad"
so right there it ment that he was like mean. or it could've ment concetied.
opposite; " He told her she was pretty and had a nice smile"
Do you see the differnces?
Dark__happy
Shallow= Dark
I hope I helped! (:
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how do u know if u have a phobia of something?
Are there like symthoms. And any ways to get rid of it?
We all have phobia's. We're all scare of sommetthiiinngg. Like ex.; i'm deathly scared of spiders. But I cant change that, because i deeply hate spiders..
But yeah, you can get rid of it. I 'was' scared of dogs but not anymore, I overcame that fear.
get it? ahah
I hope I helped!(:
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i have four best friends and all five of us hang out in a group all the time. two of them are guys and two of them are girls. anyway when one of the guys isn't with us my other friends talk about how they think the guy who is gone is gay. (i know for a fact that he isn't because i've done stuff with him and no one knows...) but it really doesn't matter if he is or not i just don't think it's right that they do this. should i tell my guy friend what everyone else is saying about him...or would that just cause trouble?
noo you should sooo tell him. he deserves to know. And no,it wasnt right for your friend to say that. friends dont talk about eachother behind there back.
I hope i Helped!(:
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i recently met this guy and we went to the movies but it was a double date with my friend and his friend. it was the first time we met and we didnt say anything like during the movie and our friends were talking away. we talked later on the computer and talked about a bunch of things. now i know him better and were going to the movies again, but im scared its going to be awkward again.
any ideas on what should i say to him?
You should be yourself.
Dont be nervous.
Make little jokes here and there and it will start from there.
Just be yourself and it will all become good (:
I hope I helped!
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f/16 I want to become a decent singer. I can sing some songs, I suppose but people always tell me I'm a bit flat. Help? I can't get vocal lessons, I'm not singing professional or anything. Just for fun, but I want to become better.
Sometimes I feel like I'm out of breath. No websites please. Just some tips?
Is there any songs like "There are Worse Things I Could Do" ?
Slow and a bit alto /soprano-mezzo ish? I can see that song good.. just like "freddy my love".. but I can't find any other songs slow like that to PRACTICE with.
Help? :D
I dont have any suggestions with songs but you should record yourself singing and then hear it and see what you have to work on.
Thats all I got!
I hope I helped!
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me and my friend double date with these two guys. we have gone once but it was really hard to do. her mom doesnt like me so she couldnt tell her she was going with me. and she also couldnt tell her she was going with guys cause shes wouldnt let her. so i told her to come over and then we'd go without telling her, but recently her mom said she couldnt come over to my house anymore because we went and hung out with this guy whos 16 (were 14) but we didnt do anything with him. her mom is blaming it all on me and she isnt sticking up for me and im kinda of mad about it cause were best friends. anyways, we ended up having to go with her mom but see different movies and met the guys in there theatre. then had to go back out without them. it was stupid and not fun at all. well we want to all get together again, but go eat and do other things.
so i need help with two things.
what can i do about her mom hating me for no reasonable reason (truthfully, im a good kid, and i dont do bad things and most moms know that) and how can we get together with those guys again!
I Hate when moms do this. hahaha
Tell your friend that she has to start confronting her mom that she is old enough to go to the movies with guys and how her mom has to start trusting her. tell her the truth; you dont feel alright with her mom being mad at you for no reason. Be honest. maybe she'll work things out with her mom.
And those guys, gahh thats a hard onee.Uhmm; Try the working out with mom thing first and if that doesn't work, call them! Your on your own with that! sorry! haha, it matters of how strict her mom is, instead of going to the movies or something, try something new where her mom thinks that its going to be just you two.
I hope I helped!
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-Speakfreely
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14/f
sorry if it's long
i like this guy, let's call him D. he's best friends with my sister's boyfriend, B. i knew that D had a girlfriend, L. but she was in florida at the time, but he said that they were on the rocks, if you know what i mean.. well D & B came over to my house about three weeks ago. at first it was awkward, because my sister and B were all over each other the whole time. also, D kept texting L a lot, so i was kindof left out. and after a while, my sister and B got in a fight about something stupid, and went outside to talk about it. so me and D were just sitting in the kitchen, and then L called him. he had it on speaker, and she deffinately was drunk. i didn't hear everything she said, but after he hung up, he was like, "i'm so sick of her doing this", like she's called him drunk before. but idk. so after D & B left, i guess when they were driving home, B asked D if he liked me, and he said "if L wasn't in the picture, i'd like her." now that L's home from florida, her and D are better than ever, because they made up. but i really like him, and i don't want him to get hurt. but today, i was at a fair, and D and L were there, and i was like "hey D" and he gave me this big hug, while L was giving me dirty looks the whole time.
would it be weird if i told B that i liked him? they're like brothers, and they spend all of their time together. like, if i told him that i want to hang out with D more, even though L is home?
thanks in advance
Hahah I'm Kind of lost with the names but I so think you should tell B that you like him because if D was ever to find out, that would be great.
It might seem like a " uhm no what the heck?! That would be bad" but actually no it wouldnt. He'll finally see that you guys feel the same way about eachother. And that would be great.
And don't get L in your way of hanging out with D. I think you should hang out with him. But even though you really like him, remember he has a gf. Just be patient and maybe he'll break up with her, because of the sound of her, she sounds like a little snotty gf.
I hope I helped!
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so i just met this guy like a month ago. well we both want to make out and everything, but i have never made out with anyone and he has made out twice. i dont want to tell him that i never have. and the main thing is, is that i dont know how. do you use your tounge? and how do you know when to stop? how long do you usually make out?
ahh, help! QUICK!
ahah, here is the big advice;
kissing is something that comes naturally.
Yeah its good to know some good tips but when you kiss it comes all together. You dont need to know how to kiss, once your lips touch his, it just happens. so don't think too much about it! Once you first kiss you'll know how to do it and you wont be so worried. trust me. It just happens and comes out good. Stop the worrying!
I hope I helped!
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i met this guy but he doesnt go to my school so i dont know much about him. he seems really cool, and he makes me laugh, and is nice to me. hes the only guy i know that has so much in common with me. i really like him and he likes me but he hasnt asked me out yet.
my point is, is that i was talking to his friend and he told me some things like that he lies alot and argue alot. and that he gets into trouble alot. he says that he cheats on girls and just wouldnt make a good boyfriend.
we've talked and he seems like he would be. i dont mind the arguing part or him getting into trouble. i just dont know about the ling part. i dont know if i should just go out with him and see for myself. i just dont want to get my heart broken cause i really like him.
Nothing is worse then your heart getting broken.
You can't believe what everything people say though. They might be jelous or something like that. I dont know, you never know.
But be straight up with the guy . Ask him if he ever cheated. Be really honest with him. Get to know him really good or more. If you really like him; i say what the heck take a chance. But love can be really tricky , and you have to take chances in order to have a good relationship.
I really Hope I helped!
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when most people raise their eyebrows they get the wrinkly look. but when i raise mine, i get a "u" shaped thing. its been like this my whole life. heres a picture i drew on paint
http://img410.imageshack.us/my.php?image=uglybitchgx3.png
(haha sorry its so creepy looking) its basically what i look like when i raise my eyebrows.
is there a way to get rid of it? or does anyone know the cause? thanks!
hahah I'm sorry but I don't think theres a way to fix that, its the way you were born. hahah Its like saying that you want to change the way you blink.. even though you cant; just an example, but you blink the way you blink, you cant change it.
So for this you get what you get.
Don't be sad though! You should be happy! Your Unique and differant, something that people will remember you by.
I hope I helped ! (:
-SpeakFreely
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15/f
okay so i met this guy and before i actaully talked to him i saw him at and band concert and i thought he was really really cute and stuff
so i started talking to him awhile back on myspace and he seemed nice at first, but then he was being a huge butt like all the other guys that go to his school. so "Chuck" and i talked for about 4 weeks straight and then all the sudden he stopped talking to me and i tried messaging him a few days ago and he read it but he didnt respond and he said himself he wasnt like the rest of them but his pants are on fire
Simply dont talk to him. If hes going to act like that then, pshh. not even worth messaging back.
Just forget about him. He's not even worth it then. It was probably a big lie he gave you. Don't keep commenting him back because he'll just keep ignoring. Show him that he's not worth it. And if he does comment you back, act all cool about it so he can be the one feeling guilty.
I Hope I helped! (:
-SpeakFreely
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16 f
this might be long but i need help please help. ok so i had a boyfriend who i really loved. and i know he loved me too. there were jsut moments when you know you can feel it. we were fine and all but then i broke up with him because he was acting different liek he wasnt the same we lasted 10 months. so i asked for a break. during that break i missed him so much and he always said he missed me too. we would always talk and such. but then i decided that i wnated him back. so i tried to talk to him and he told me that i dont deserve him and i said why? and he said if i knew all of the bad things that he did to me then i would neevr want to hear from him again. so i told him tell me. and he said tht he doesnt want to hurt me but that he needs to tell me to get it off his back. he said that he cheated on me. those 8 months out of 10. i thought i was going to die when he said that to me. he also told me that he had sex with 2 girls and that while we were at themall and i went to the abthroom he saw one of his exs and hang out with them. he told me he loves me, and i was the only girl that he loved but that he couldnt take me back becuase after what he did things would never be the same. he says hes really sorry and that he does love me. he sid i showed him what real love is and that he messed up things badly and i shouldnt be with him. he said i too good for him. but after everything he said to me i still miss him. why? how can i get hurt and still miss him? what should i do now? any comments advice? thanks! for the help i really do appreciate it!
He's right, you dont deserve him.
You deserve better.
Your way better then him.
You gave him everything while he took everything for granted.
You might still miss him, that's perfectly normal.You miss knowing the guy you thought you knew, thats what it is. But don't get the feeling that you want to get back to him because you dont wan't to face the same thing again. Just move on. you dont want a guy like that. If it took him 8 dang months to realize that, he's not even worth being with you. You're too good for him.
I Hope I helped!
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I think I have a problem communicating.In particular my boyfriend.It's weird.. I can talk to my issues to anyone else,But when it comes to talking to him about my personal life and just what I like or what I think about, I can't seem to come out with it.I feel like I'm being hypocritical because I always ask him what's on his mind and what he feels about things.And I know it gets on his nerves and I don't mean to be hesitant to tell him anything.I love him so much and I can't stand not being honest with him and what not.I'm not very good at expressing myself and I hate it.I'm trying to fix that problem, I just don't quite know how to.It's kind of odd though.Because when we're intimate , I guess I don't indicate what I like and what I don't and I know that's bad, but I guess I don't know how to react.Also, is it bad to fake orgasm or whatever.Because honestly, I don't want to make him feel like he's doing anything wrong or anything so sometimes I fake.I know this is some odd things I'm talking about, But I'm trying to fix this.Anyone have any ideas how to cope with this?
You should be totally honest with your boyfriend, thats what a relationship is about. He should care what you think and what you like. Confront that to him, you miight be able to change tht, but be HONEST with what you dont like about your relationship. He'll see that your really serious about it.
And no its not odd things to ask those question, hahaha. And no its not bad to fake it. Some times when it is bad you just havee to fake it. haha
I hope I Helped! (:
-Speakfreely
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ok so im in a speacial agriculture program and we have to go over the summer to our farm and take care of it. well i took my friends ipod because she lent it to me. it was a video ipod and to make long story short someone stole it.
i dont know how to tell my friend. my dad sed he wasnt gonna give me money to buy a new one. i feel so horrible. i feel like i have been scard for life. i cant stop crying. i was jsut so scared when i opened my bookbag and it wasnt there anymore. i can still feel what i felt at that moment. someone stole it becuase i know i had it in my bookbag and all they left was my earphones. also my wallet with my metrocard is gone. i told the police in the school and he said that another girl got stolen also and they will close the doors of the rooms. alittle to late for that. atleast noone else will get stolen. what do i do? any advice? i dnt have money and my dad sed he wasnt gonna give me 300.00 for a new ipod.
Ahh I hate when these things happen.
Tell your friend that someone stole it so she won't be asking for it and you not giving her an answer.
Be totally honest, she/he will get more mad that you didn't tell them.
Try to ask your dad if you can mow the lawn or extra house work or something like that so you can get enough to get a new one.
Or ask your friend if theres anyway you can pay them back.
Be honest with them and don't leave anything out.
Ohh and double check with the people who were around you that day that it got stolen.
Tell your parents if theres anyway you can work for the money. I know how unreasonable parents can be, heres another advice; just nod with them and say sorry, because they wont be satisfied if you keep denying the ""truth"". Even though you know how right you are. They might just help after you "admited" that you were wrong.
Try everything you can. But do tell your friend.
I hope I helped!
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what can you do about unavoidable, unwanted odors, such as in the genitals or serious foot odors?? thnx in advance for the help.
Make sure you wash very well in those areas. And if that doesnt work im pretty sure theres something at the store for that.
I hope I helped!
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okay sorry in advance for this being so long..
but i really need help with something.
i'm a 13 year old girl and i feel very..worthless right now.i've never had a boyfriend..never kissed anyone.or anything.
the most i've done was hug one.one.
i'm in love with this boy that doesn't really know what i'm like..but he doesn't like me much because as far as he knows,i hate him.and i strongly believe he hates me too.
although maybe he doesn't,i'm not sure.
i keep getting these signs that we're going to date soon.
i keep taking quizes and such that say "his name will start with an a" or "you'll have a boyfriend soon" or something stupid like that you know?
and my friend keeps telling me that it'll happen too.
but me,being unexpeirienced,am kind of nervous about the whole situation.
but i can really really see myself with him and i really want to be with him.
i just realized today how much i like him..
can someone please help me cope with this?
any advice is MUCH appriciated..
:/
Don't feel worthless. Thats nothing to be mad about. You can't just jump into kissing or hugging or anything like that. You have to wait!
And with the guy, talk to him, try to keep in touch with him as mush as you can. He'll soon find out that you want to be friends and you dont hate him. And from then on he'll get the hint you like him.
You'll find out if he hates you once you talk to him, and if he does, apologize for whatever reason and work it out.
hahahah its normal to get those feelings, those 'every second thinking about him' feelings.
Dont get nervous, be yourself around him!
I hope I helped!
(:
-Speakfreely
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have any of you been in the situation where you have a really great guy friend and you laugh and have fun with them and you can be yourself around them? and you love to be around them and hangout? just talk about random stuff and but stupid with eachother and not mind to be the real you? then you get to thinking 'maybe i like him' or 'maybe i want to be with him' but then you think about kissing him and stuff and you just dont see yourself doing it? like, you think about it and your like 'no i dont see myself kissing him' or something? and it just seems wierd? well, thats the situation im in. he told me he likes me and everything and he wants to be with me and stuff. and hes asked me out. and i said 'lets wait and see, let me think about it' or something like that. the thing is, i think i waited too long. he has a girlfriend now. but he says he still likes me, and is waiting for me. help!
i need advice. what should i do? dont say 'go with what feels right' or something. have any of you been in this situation before? if so, then did you two get together and what happened with the relationship?
HAHAAHAH THIS IS SO WEIRD BECAUSE I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION! HAHAH.
This just happened the other day, I know exactly how you feel!
I told him that " He has to wait and see" but in my mind I was just really scared and confused on what to tell him.
I told him that I just wanted to be friends. I first thought ; " no that'd be qweer to say" but, I said it and he totally understood. And if he doesnt talk to you, if you do say you dont want to go out with him, then he is deffinatly not the right guy for you, hes just showing you that he is thhatt desperate to be in a relationship.
If you have second thought of going out with him, meaning doubts, then its not the right thing to do. You'll have more trouble in a relationship with a guy who your not sure about then facing this.
I hope I helped!!(:
-Speakfreely
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i've never had a boyfriend, im 13 and i havent even kissed one person.....i really just want to have a boyfriend, that and to get more experienced, but, how? also is there something im doing wrong that makes guys un-attracted to me?
First, Dont say that guys are un-attracted to you. I Guarantee that there is at least one guy who likes you,that you just dont know about. And yeah, well were getting to that age where you want a boyfriend, but you have to wait. Even how badly you dream about that "perfect guy" you have to wait!I learned that the hard way.
And also, you'll get more experienced once you have your first kiss. Trust me, once you have your first kiss, its just going to happen. Everything will come together.
I hope I helped!
(:
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