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what am i doing wrong?
i've never had a boyfriend, im 13 and i havent even kissed one person.....i really just want to have a boyfriend, that and to get more experienced, but, how? also is there something im doing wrong that makes guys un-attracted to me?
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don't worry, im exactly like you. i know its wierd but im fifteen and i still havent had a boyfriend or kissed someone.
i think it mainly depends on you, and the guys that you like. i want a boyfriend too, but im trying to be patient until the right guy comes along.
i doubt your doing anything wrong. you just need to be more open and become friends with more guys, then they will get to know you and probably like you. youll become experienced before you know it.
hope that helps a little :]
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Just because you haven't had any of that doesn't mean you are un-attractive to guys. You're only 13. You have plenty of time to meet guys and date. Don't feel like you are moving too slow on the train. You're on just the right speed. Don't worry about getting too awfully experienced. You're not doing anything wrong. You're only 13 and so are the guys and it usually takes guys longer to come around at that age than girls. They are just now getting into the girl stage. Just talk to some guys and flirt a little and see where it takes you. Maybe you will really click with one of the guys and you will have a boyfriend. It's really nothing to rush and I am proud to know you are 13 and still haven't kissed someone. Teenagers move too fast these days so hold on to that kiss for that someone special. Let your first kiss be memberable. First kisses always suck but atleast if it sucks it'll be with someone you really care about. The best way to get into the dating scene is just to talk to guys and get to know them and see if anything clicks. :) Hope i helped
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First, Dont say that guys are un-attracted to you. I Guarantee that there is at least one guy who likes you,that you just dont know about. And yeah, well were getting to that age where you want a boyfriend, but you have to wait. Even how badly you dream about that "perfect guy" you have to wait!I learned that the hard way.
And also, you'll get more experienced once you have your first kiss. Trust me, once you have your first kiss, its just going to happen. Everything will come together.
I hope I helped!
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-Speakfreely
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wait for someoe who likes you for you and most importantly be confident, guys looooove confidence :)
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okay first off.... your 13. i didnt have my first real boyfriend until i was almost 15. You need to ask yourself why you want a boyfriend. Most people in middle school (which im guessing your in) have never been kissed and never had a boyfriend either. don't stress about having a boyfriend.
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Well, I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 17. That's also when I got my first kiss. You're young, you have plenty of time to experience things. If you really want a boyfriend, I think the best thing you can have is confidence, just not arrogance. If you love yourself then someone else will be able to.
Every guy is different, but I think there are general things that are turn-offs, such as excessive make-up, a whiney attitude about everything, low self-esteem, poor hygiene, and overall fakeness, trying to be what you're not. Definitely not saying you are any of these things, that's just what I could think of that would make someone unattractive.
Don't worry about not having a boyfriend or a kiss yet, seriously you're so young you shouldn't have to think about when you'll get a boyfriend, it will come, believe me, just have faith and confidence in yourself and it will happen.
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