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ok my parents were divorced about 4 months ago and my dad is already trying to put another woman in her life. i think hes a complete jerk right now but i really don't kno what to do because i don't want her in our life but i want my dad to be happy. sooo please help me if it makes any sense to you please thnx

I can understand where your coming from but you have to relize that your parents are divorced and there free to date other people. Your dad is probably just trying to get on with his life and try and be happy. He might just have a girlfriend because he misses your mom and doesn't want to be lonely anymore. Don't be mad at your dad , try and be happy for him.
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this question may be a little weird, but, i just need to know as many possible showering ruitines as possible.
1)How often do you shower?
2)girls- when you shave, when do you? Because i find it kind of hard to shave with the water frmo the shower head running over my legs and the shaving cream being watered all off
3)when it comes to shampoo, conditioner, soap, shaving, etc, what do you do first..like in order?
haha thank you guys itll help!

1) I shower every morning
2) I shave my legs every other day
3) I use soap, then i shampoo my hair, then condition it and then i shave

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okayy so me and this guy andrew have been dating for about 3 months and we've done a lot and have gotten really into eachother.. so i thought but it was all summer and once we got back to school he stopped calling and stopped comming over and to me that isn't hard to come over we only live 2 houses down! so in school my friend jack started likin me and i sort of starting like him a little bit to but i still had a lot of feelings for andy. Now tomorrow in school jack is asking me out so i've heard but i don't want to turn him down again cause it would be like the 20th time i have turned him down. But i still really like andy, however, i don't think andy really likes me anymore but it's really hard to get over him. So i need help.. should i go out wiht jack? or should i try and stay with andy?.. and im sorry i know its confusing

Don't hold on to something that isn't worth it, if you don't think that Andy likes you then break it off with him and go out with Jack. You could always try and talk to Andy to, ask him what his problem is and tell him how you feel. IF Jack asks you out and you don't want to go out with him just tell him that you like him and everything but you want to see whats going on with you and Andy before you do anything.
Hope i helped...

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Hey I was wondering if anybody knew of a site where you can fill out a questionarre about yourself at. I wanna add it to my myspace so it'd help if it came w/ a link or code or something to make it not so plain. Thanks!

http://www.kwiz.biz/simplesurveys/do-survey.php

http://www.kwiz.biz/simplesurveys/do-survey.php

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Hey so I'm going to go get my lip periced on Nov. 26th and I was just wondering if it hurts when you get it periced and if theres like any tips to keeping it really clean or anything else I should know before getting it done. Thank You

My friend got hers done and she said it didn't hurt but it all depends on how much pain you can take. When you go and get it done after they do it then will explain to you what you have to do to keep it clean and what not to do.
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im 17 and im a gurl! well me and my boyfriend have been together for alittle over 2 months..and i really love him and he loves me. I want to be intimate with him but im not sure if im ready. he is the most caring boyfriend and he is so sweet and he said he'll wait until im ready. well im not sure if i should wait longer or not like what should i do? im a virgin so should i save myself for someone i kno i will be with for along time or think i will be with forever? what should i do?
~not sure~

If you think that you love him and your ready then sure why not go head and do it but just remember the person you lose your virginity to you will always remember for the rest of your life. If your not sure if your ready or not your probably not ready, i'm not going to tell you what to do but if i was in your place i would just wait till i know i know i'm really ready.

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my boyfriends birthday is on the 31st, what should i get him? we've been going out for about a week now and i dont have a lot of money. Dont say a pic of me or something,
thanks!

maybe a cd
clothes like a hoodie
maybe a poster of something
go to the store and just look around theres lots of stuff you can get him
a giftcard
hoped i helped

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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much

If you still love him and you won't to be with him then don't let go, but if you keep trying and nothing seems to work then it's time to let go. It sounds like he really cares about you but he's just scared to open up to you like tell you how he feels. Maybe he's feels like he pressured you into "messing around" and he feels bad so he is kind of advoiding you. Try and call him again and just ask him if you and him can go somewhere and talk. Tell him that you really need to talk to him to figure out whats going on between you and him. If he takes the time to go out and talk to you just tell him how you feel and don't be scared to open up to him and tell him what's in your heart because if you get scared and you don't tell how you feel you may never get him to be yours, maybe hes feeling what your feeeling ya never know.
Sorry i can't give you anymore advise, but that always helped me when i had boy problems i just told them how i felt.
hoped i helped! best of luck with him!

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If you don't look at somebody in the eyes...do they get upset or something or feel like they did something wrong? Im really bad at eye contact. It makes me feel weird knowing somebodys eyes are staring right at me..

I don't look people in the eye when i'm im talking or someone is talking to me because i can't i always find myself looking away or laughing. Some people might think your not intrested on what they have to say tho if you don't really look them in the eye.

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Who sings the song Angel... it kinda goes like...to me your like an angel someone who was sent to me from the heavens above to make everything alright... and where can i find the lyrics cause i tried some sites like letssingit.com and typing in the name or lyrics but i cant find it.... thanks mucho!

http://www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/AMANDA-PEREZ/Angel.html

there is the lyrics to the song and the person that sings it is amanda perez

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well I sent alot of emails to a guy that I like, and then I figuared out that I aint ready to date agian for a while, how do I tell him that I aint ready to date yet, cause he really likes me as well, and I am just wanting to look around and find my self before dateing agian...how do I tell him??? that I aint ready to date yet??

Tell him that you thought you were ready to date but your not, tell him that you don't want to try it yet either because you don't want to lead him on and then you breaking up with him cause your really not ready. He should understand and if he doesn't then maybe he's not the guy you thought he was.

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right now i have my first real boyfriend, we've been going out for about 2 weeks. he's great. but he's all i can think about. we hung out fri night and now its monday and i'm sick and i cant think about anything but him. its driving me crazy. my throat is sore but i called him anyway and we talked 4 a little while but it didn't work out too well cuz my voice is almost gone. whevenver i'm not with him i'm thinking about him. i need a way to stop thinking about him before i go insane.

First real boyfriend- there always fun yeah you will think your going to go insane from always thinking about him. But just try and do stuff you like you know like your hobbies. maybe read a book, play basketballl or whatever sport you like, play a game system like play station. Just got to think of what you like to do and something that will keep your mind off of him. take a walk that always helps me.
hope i helped

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Does anyone have any quotes about life or inspirational or optimism that they wouldn't mind giving? Thanks ahead of time!

keep your head to the sky
lift your life and reach up high
wipe the tears and don't you cry
your gonna make it if you try

be careful what you chose to do in life because you never know who's going to be following your foot steps

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my bf and I never have things to talk about. What can we talk about?

Me and my boyfriend have that problem to and i don't know if it's cause we talked about everything already or what. The things we talked about were what we thought of each other when we first hooked up, his past, my past meaning girlfriends/boyfriends. ask him all kinds of questions like -what's the crazies thing he's ever done - if he were to die in the next week what would he do? who would he go and see? - just a bunch of stupid what if questions it kinda sounds stupid but you would be suprised on how interesting the conversation can get.
hope i helped.

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ok you said you were 13 when you had sex? did you have to where a condom or birth control pills. Do you regret it? i am 13 and i want sex so bad but the thing is i cant take a pill!

No, i wasn't on the pill and i'm still not on the pill but i'm going on it. The guy used a condom you should always use condoms because that cant protect you from getting any std's. I do regret it becasue it was with someone that I didn't really want to do it with. I wanted to wait till I found someone special and that i really cared for. But I didn't want to look like a wimp and say no. I was sorta pressured into it. But as we all know we don't always get what we want! lol..I'm not going to tell you not to have sex but at least wait til you find someone that you really want to do it with, and if you don't just use a condom well use a condom anyway cause you don't want to get pregnant when your 13.
Hope i helped!

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im 14/f. almost 15 what age do you think its appropriate to lose your virginity?

I don't think there really is a age, I believe you can lose it whenever you found someone that you really want to lose it to and whenever your ready to lose it. I lost mine when i was 14 with my boyfriend that im still with.

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Okay, my friend (we'll call her mary) and I are about the same size, except i'm a bit leaner because i'm tall and stuff. But she ALWAYS wants to borrow my clothes. I didn't mind at first but now it's coming to every day -- she sees what i'm wearing and says "I'm borrowing that." Also, our other friend is like 2 sizes smaller than us but "mary" has even borrowed clothes from her. "Mary" has worn my petite friend's favorite hoodie more times than she has!
Its really starting to get on both of our nerves. During the summer I let her borrow one of my coolest skirts and she got a stain on it. Yeah, it's tiny. But I mean, come on. Also, she always says I can borrow any of her clothes whenever I want when she borrows mine. But the truth is, her fashion sense sucks. All she does is buy brand names and the clothes are usually the wrong size for her because shes in denial about being a size xlarge. So, she gives the clothes to our small friend who could practically wear them as nightshirts their so big on her. Anyway, so should I just keep kinda ignoring her requests to borrow my clothes or just let her borrow them once in awhile to keep her sated? Or just outright tell her that she stretches out my clothes? WHAT?

you can tell her the truth or you can just make up an excuse like my mom/dad says that you can't borrow my clothes anymore, and make up a big story or whatever.

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Ok well I have really big boobs and I am skinny and so ya I am considered hot...but see a lot of guys that I talk to only like me because I am "hot" and so I don't know how to get a guy that likes me for me and not just my body..because all the guys just look at my boobs and stuff...How do I get the guys to like my personality and not just my looks?? I want guys and girls to answer this...THANKS!!!

Don't wear clothes that are so revealing just wear something that covers them up. Ask all the guys why they like you and if they say cause your hot slap them lol, just tell all the guys how you feel if you know they only like you cause of that.
helped i helped

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i don't know if anyone has ever had dwarf hamsters, but i do and yesterday i was cleaning out the cage and i saw three little pink things in the nest and it turned out one of my hamsters had babies. All three of the hamsters are female, i've checked and the breeder checked so i don't know what happened. i thinhk she was pregnant before we got her because we've only had them for a little while. Anyways, i was wondering if there is anything special I should do to take care of them? or does the mother do it herself? i really have no idea what to do. If anyone could halp me with this i'd be really happy. thanks.

You can't have the male in the same cage as the mother and babies cause he will eat them, other than that i'm pretty sure that the mother does it all by herself.

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i got my belly button peirced like 2 months a week ago, and after 4-6 weeks you can change the ring, so i changed mine. but the banana bar i put in has like a little lift kind of on the bottom and so i changed back to my old ring, but its sore, only a little bit though, not like hugely sore. i dont know if its infected .. its not pusing or anything its just red and a little sore. i dont know how to tell if its infected or prevent it from getting infected. What do i do if it is infected? any special cleaning or product thing??

and someone told me that if it gets bad enough it will just fall out?! is that true .. they also said if that happens u wont be able to have kids later in life ... :-/ .. is that true too?

Can Anyone Help PLEASE!! i dont want to have to take it out ..

clean it with bacterial soap or put neosporn on it, thats what i used when i got mine done and it worked.
hoped i helped

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