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get out of my head!
right now i have my first real boyfriend, we've been going out for about 2 weeks. he's great. but he's all i can think about. we hung out fri night and now its monday and i'm sick and i cant think about anything but him. its driving me crazy. my throat is sore but i called him anyway and we talked 4 a little while but it didn't work out too well cuz my voice is almost gone. whevenver i'm not with him i'm thinking about him. i need a way to stop thinking about him before i go insane.
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It's great that you're so into this guy. It's a wonderful thing to have such a strong first relationship. You don't want to seem too into him though. I am a guy who is a pretty accomplished dater. From a guys point of view, girls that seem to clingy or needy aren't fun to go out with. Nobody likes to be stuck by someone elses side 24 hours a day. You need to do other things apart from him, such as watching T.V., reading a book, etc. Keep your mind focused on your life and your interests at least half the time you're away from him. I guarentee you he'll become 100 times more into you if you play hard to get, even though he's already got you. Make him call you sometimes. Act like you want to hang out with your friends more than him sometimes. You don't want to do this all the time because it'll seem like you don't care at all. As you get older and become more experienced at dating you'll learn a balance that works just right. It's different for everyone so I can't go too into depth on it. I hope I've helped. Let me know if I can help ya any more.
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try to read a book, or a game, hang out with the girls! go shopping, get a pedicure or manicure, read a magazine, play a sport, listen to music, go running/driving.
-Kellzie<3
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This is really normal. It happened to me and I think it happens to most everyone with their first relationship. There really isn't anything that you can do about it sorry :( Pretty much the only thing that will help this situation is time. I thought I was going to go completely insane for awhile, but now I'm fine. Being in a relationship just takes time to get used to. You'll be okay, don't worry so much. Sounds like you're very happy...just enjoy being happy!
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Maybe you should find a hobby that you really enjoy doing. If you try to concentrate on only this hobby you may be only thinking about him only sometimes.
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First real boyfriend- there always fun yeah you will think your going to go insane from always thinking about him. But just try and do stuff you like you know like your hobbies. maybe read a book, play basketballl or whatever sport you like, play a game system like play station. Just got to think of what you like to do and something that will keep your mind off of him. take a walk that always helps me.
hope i helped
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