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Hi, I am 13 going on 14 and i weigh about 106 lbs. give or take two. Is that fat? Bc i really feel fat and i feel like there is nothbing i can do.
What are some ways to lose like 10 lbs but staying healthy!
Ill rate high!
PLease Help!!!
*Overweight?* (link)
Hey! you are NOT over weight.Here are some tips to help you out: Eat healthy..DO you know about those tapes.. (they are excercise tapes) Trust me they are a work out. There are ti-bo and many others!! Good Luck :) Hope i helped XOXO Michelle PS: if u ever need more advice ask me


how do i congradulate a friend who made it on to a competition? (link)
Heyy!! you could buy her a card and out congrats on makin the competition thats awesome .. or wonderful what u want to say!! or just walk up to her and be like "hey ___her name__ Thats soo cool that you made the competition.. Im like soo proud of you" lol hope it goes AWESOME:0) Hope i helped ya out XOXO Michelle PS: if you ever need more advice ask mee!!


ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer* (link)
:0) just forgive him. I think hes seriously sorry. I no this is a stupid answer . SORRY:0( but I hope i helped XOXO Michelle


Does anybody know how i could remember my homework??? Because i always forget and i think i lost my agenda. And they wont give us new ones ??? Any advice would be great ( i rate high) (link)
Hey!! your could mabe buy a notebook.. and write HOMEWORK on it. MAKE sure ur organized though. But if all else fails (which i bet the notebook will go AWESOme...) use ur hand .. But defenitly choose the NOTEBOOK :0) hope i helped XOXO Michelle


I really didn't know what category to but this under but here is the question does anyone have any GOOD fundraising ideas to help raise money for the American Cancer Society? Thanks for all your help I need as many ideas as I can get. (link)
Hey!! You could go door to door. OR hav e mabe car washes.. Bake sales. (ask some friends to help) ASk ur family and friends. Let me no how it goes:0) Hope i helped


Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female. (link)
HEyy! my sisters baby sit and well usually she charges 6-10$ an hour. But i t depends on how long. And she usually babysit 2 kids. Its a pretty good amount hope i helped you out XOXO Michelle PS: if u ever neeed more advice ask me :)


I want to get rid of the hair on my upper lip. I don't want to get it professionally done, I want to do it myself. What should I try to remove it (I don't want to use a razor). (link)
I think you should get it done professionaly. They can wax it or do something to get rid of it and besides.. they no what they are doing. Hope i helped you out XOXO Michelle PS:if you ever need more advice ask me


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Ok, so i have this problem. I always dress in black or dark colors and i've been doin this all my life. Some of my friends are starting to get pissed that i'm always dark. they're embarrassed when we go out in public just because of me. They yelled at me but i just told them to piss off. this can become a problem. Should i just keep telling them to shut the hell up and put up with it or try to deal it out with them?

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i don't care if it sucks like hell, just give me advice... (link)
IF they Yell at u and r embarrsed to be around your.. they are not your true friends. A true friend(s) will accept you for who u r ... Just ignore them. Mabe try to find some new friends... I really hope i helped you out* XOXO Michelle PS: if you ever need anymore advice ask me :0)


i really like this guy but i have nothing to talk to him with on aim... i kno people say intrests but iv tried that!! what can i talk to him about (link)
Heyy * umm say hi and start a conversation or talk about something he liked * hope i helped Michelle PS: if u ever need more advice ask


i have orangy-red hair, brown eyes and pale skin. what color eyeliner would look good on me? if you need more info just tell me! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off. (link)
I think a brown..tanish..black.. Hope i helped XOXO Michelle


im 14 years old(male) and i keep cutting myself. I've tried to stop but i keep doing it. I ve talked with my friends to see if they could help me out and one of them started to cut too! i really dont know what to do please help me out. (link)
hey! umm try to stop..but here are some like stuff to help you : either go to ur school counseler - put on a rubber band and when ver you wanna cut your self pull on it and it will snap you "out of it" Hope i hlped you XOXO Michelle


There is this woman at work who really is being rude to me.

The managers all like her, and I tried telling one of them that she was really being rude, and they all jumped on me.

what do I do? Should I just ignore her? obviously I can't go to any of the managers because of the extreme favoritism. help!


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Try to ignore her. Also be nice to her and she'll probably be nice back. Hope I helped XOXO Michelle
PS: if u ever need anything...ASK


Ok well my sister tells me everthing. And this weekend she went snowboarding in frisco w/ her friends and boyfriend. And all her friends and her drink under age (she's only 17)and my mom always tells her not to drink or do sex. And our family friend who was only 17 died 2 years ago from achohol poisining. And I know there's going to be sex and drinks up in the mountains. Im just scared and I really want her 2 stop. Help. Wut shood i do? (link)
*~ talk to her about it. Hopefully you can get her to tell your mom.. ~* Hopefully she'll stop. Good Luck ~


Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..

Signed
Scared 15-f (link)
WOW* I think you should talk to yourBest friend about it..tell her about how he use to hits you and says bad things..if she if you real best friend she will understand. But you got to sit her down and be really serious..bc i mean this is a serious problem-:|:- Good Luck-:|:- hope i helpd XOXO Michelle


I have to sell these gold cards for a fund raiser at my school for us to go on a trip in may... and I sold 4 today but I still have to sell 6 more in order for my whole trip to be payed for and these things are kind of hard to sell b.c. they are $10 each..but they have 142 discounts in a 90 mile radius that u can use as many times up until 10.31.05... any ideas as to where i can go to sell them? (link)
go to local stores=) if you live in a development aks around there. ask family .. and friends hope i helped XOXO Michelle


Ok here it goes a few days ago at school this kid Shawn was licking the bottem of his shoe...it was so grose i mean i was eating my fricken luch but i feel bad for him cause he got held back last year and no one really likes him because of how he acts:( I wish i could tell him why i dont like him cause i feel so bad! `please help me im desperate....

JJ* (link)
*jj* EWW THATS GROSS!! but i think that he does that stuff just to get peoples atetion (or w.e)I think you should try to ignore his grossness =) and try to be his friend XOXOMICHELLE PS* if you ever need anymore advice ask!!


I have this firend of mine whom i've known since grade school. We are now 22 years old. When we were about 16 years old he told me that his sister had a baby and that he was left to take care of it. I found it strange because the baby was not his responsibility. He then told me that his sister took the baby to live across town.

We got out of touch with each other since high school. And met up again in College. It was a year or so when he decided to confide in me and tell me that he had a son when he was 17. He then told me that his son died due to medical reasons. I was his shoulder to lean on.

Recently i met another old high school freind of mine who said that she sees him all the time and he showed her pictures oh his son. I told her that i knew all about his son and i was sorry about what happened. She looked at me with questioning eyes and asked what happened to his son. I told her that his son died. She laughed and said no his so is not dead. She told me that the last time she saw him he told her that he had to buy some books for his son because he is starting school.

I was shocked. I could not belive it. I knew she was not lying she had no reason to lie. And it sounds like his son is no longer a baby. A baby does not need books. It sounds more like a first grader. As if the child was 7 years old. It was seven years ago when we were 16 and he had to take care of his sister's baby.

Could it be that my friend is a cold blooded liar? And if so why does he feel the need to lie to me. The person who was there for him through his so call suffering. And why would he tell me htat his son is dead when the opposite is true? (link)
hun! talk to him about it..ask him why he lied to you.. Hopefully i helped XOXO CHellie


There's a dance coming up at my school. My boyfriend is in a lower grade then me and he can't go. But My Mom is trying to get me to ask my best-guy friend to go with me. I dont Know If I should. Help please? (link)
Hunny you deserve it go with you friend. But talk to your boyfriend about it. Hopefully he'll understand


hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff


help meeeee (link)
Hunny!! you should just tell your mom! hope i helpd XOXOX michelle
PS: if you ever need anymore advice just ask!


is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea? (link)
hun.. Its too young. Wait till your older. Hope i helped XOXO MICHELLE pS: if you ever need anything let me no!




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