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I'm 16 and a sophomore in high school. I know I have tons of time and everything, I just really want to figure out what I want to do as a career. I don't want to go into college having no idea what I'm going to do with the rest of my life.
I want a career where I could help people. I really want to go into social work, but they don't make much. The average is about $40,000 a year, plus you need a masters in social work, so that's about 6 years in college, and making that kind of money, it's not totally worth it. Plus, it's extremely heart breaking. But social work isn't totally out of the picture.
I've also thought about becoming a nurse. I'm not too good at science and math. Do you have to be really good at those to become a good, successful nurse?
I've tried searching for careers like social work, but haven't come up with anything.
I do pretty well in school. I get about a 3.6. I'm not really good in any subject, but I'm not horrible in any, either.
I don't have to have a career that helps people like social work and nursing Those are the only ones I can think of that I'd possibly like. I would just prefer a job that does, especially helping kids. I'd prefer not to work with the elderly. If you have any ideas at all, it would be greatly appreciated!! :)
you know honestly im not really sure how many jobs that are out there that deal with kids and making alot of money... so if you want to do something then you should just do it regardless of the money...personally id rather love my job and make less then be unsatisfied and make more ya know...but anyway im a freshmen in college this year but in highschool i also knew i wanted to do something with helping out people (mainly troubled teens) so im majoring in psychology and minoring in human development... have you looked up anything about becoming a psychologist or psychiatrist? its alot of years of schooling but i know they make between 65-80,000 a year... maybe even more for a psychiatrist... but yep thats what i wanna do... u know have a nice office and have people come talk to me...and you can work with kids...you can be a child psychologist...well its just an idea :) but if you dont like that idea thats cool... ur first two years in college are just your generel education credits anyway so really you get two more years of figuring out exactly what you want to do... and maybe some of your college classes will help you figure that out if you dont in highschool :)
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Okay, I work at Foodland and they hired this girl(17/F Senior) about 2 months ago,and well I really like her, Im told as one of the sweet caring guys and shes the shy Smart (but get to know her talkative) type of girl. So i figure what the hell and told her how i felt, We started talking and I got to know her some but most times we dont talk I mean we both have school/work but she hates texting and I text all the time. Well every mornign I say goodmorning and everynight i say goodnight no matter what. And the other night we went to the movies and I did not make one move like put my arm around her or anything, and she was like figitting a lil but thats about itLater that night we texted for a lil and i asked her what she would have done if i were to have kissed her and she said well its a little early but i wouldnt rule it out in the future.Now last night I texted her goodnight and we didnt talk all that day and I actually suprisingly got a reply: Aw goodnight :)
Idk what to do, when do I make the move and how?
Thank you for reading this
aww how cute... well the biggest thing is you just gotta take your time and make sure shes comfortable before you try anything...the girl wants to know that she can trust you and that you arent pressuring her into doing anything, even if it is just a kiss... so next time you guys hang out (maybe watch a movie at your house if possible, not a comedy but a cute one or scary)or whatever you do (take her out to dinner) (go see another movie) idk ...but whatever you do take things slow and just ask her be like...can i put my arm around you? or can i hold your hang? and she'll probably smile and tell you its okay and then once your date is over (if the time is right you can ask her if you can kiss her) or wait to do that when you drop her off at her house like walk her to her door and tell her you had a good time and then just nicely and sweetly ask... can i kiss you? i always have so much more respect for a guy when he asks first (if its our first kiss of course) so take things slow, get her trust, and ask! :) good luck
sadie hawkins is coming up, and i asked a guy a little while back, and he said yeah, but theres a problem.. he goes to a different school and i never see him. i asked him a couple of weeks ago, and we hung out on valentines day and he was my valentine but we didnt talk about it that day. last week i asked him over a message if he was still going to go with me, and he said that he was thinking no because he was sick, but once he gets better, he will want to go and that hed get back to me later. i still havent seen him in person, and i havent talked to him either. what should i do?
hmm well if i were you i would check out some other options...like is there another guy you would want to go with? because this one doesnt seem too committed...i mean, guys like to be immature and make up excuses as to why they cant be your date... and since he STILL hasnt messaged you back i dont know its just not a good sign... so id maybe start looking around keeping your options open and see if this one does message you back...
but if you really want to go with this guy...then ask him again, i mean you do have a right to know...now...and this time make sure he gives you a yes or no answer!
Okay i'm with a boy.We go together and i think we're in LOVE.We've been together for about five months.We was together before but we had broke up and became just friends,so it been about a year.We are very close,so close to the point thaat he knows my main family and they all enjoy his company and so do i.We both go to the same school and whenever he does come over we mess around alot.Although we mess around in my house no one suspects any sexual vibes from us.He's a very nice person,he buys me things and takes care of me when i need it and my father likes him for that and i am very happy with him but for some reason i feel like i owe him.He has done alot for me and i feel bad.We don't do a whole lot together but we do enough to keep our relationship going.We talk to each other every day and we try to spend enough time with each other as possible sense we don't have any of the same classes.I've been over his house just once and i enjoyed myself as well as met his main family,of course we messed around over there but it was nutural.When Valentines day came he brought me so many wonderful and memorible things and i felt so happy but also so bad because i didn't get him anything,not to mention that i didn't get him anything for christmas eigther.But to get to the interesting part it was one day when he came over my house that things started to get out of hand(the fooling around of course).Not to mention that i'm still a virgin.Things was so hacted that i thought that all of my innocents would be gone by time he left,so my question is what should i do?I want to do it but there's a side of me that don't want to.I'm not afraid or anything it's just that it's never the right time and i feel like what's the rush i'm still young and it's not nessessary that i do "do it".I am also the type of person that "want my cake and eat it too".If i do do it i still want to be innocent.I know that it sounds dumb and it is impossible but i already feel really bad that i let it get that far but these damn hormones!It also got to the point that i've been taking online test questions on tickle.com to find out how innocent i am and if i am really ready.So someone please give me some good advice this is very important to me.
Thank You!!!
well its really quite simple...wait till you are one hundred percent completely ready...not ohhh im ready but im not...you have to be like yeah i wanna do this im ready! and your boy should also respect that and be okay with that...as far as you being innocent...haha well just because you have sex doesnt mean that youre not innocent...i mean youve already done how many other sexual things... right... just make sure that you want this guy to be your first because its a big thing and you dont want to regret it...which also comes back to the fact WAIT TILL YOU ARE POSITIVE YOUR READY to lose it... having sex doesnt make you a bad person, its actually a good thing to have sex it strengthens a relationship and makes you feel better physically and emotionally :) but if you still want to maintain this "innocent" image then yeah dont do it...dont feel like you have to until youre ready...
this girl is really mean to me. & at school she's in my 5th period health class & her and her friends talk abt me.. and she bugs me in the h allways & calls me a bitch & threatens me and i told my teacher but my teacher said there's nothing she can do tht goes on outside of the classroom.. and she harasses me on facebook.. is there any wya i can block on facebook? & wut should i do with her bothering me at school?
to block a person on facebook you go to the right hand top corner and click on privacy... it should take you to the privacy page (at the top it'll say privacy overview) go to the bottom of the page on the left hand side it will say block people... and then you add her to the block list and she will have no conact with you whatsoever...
so since you've already talked to a teacher about her...is is a possibility for you to go to the school counselor? maybe they will have some helpful ideas...if not then you should probably go to the principal...because it doesnt matter if its outside the classroom it is still happening in school which is very wrong... and something needs to be done about it... you need to go to some other higher authoritive figure besides a teacher...and if that still doesnt work then maybe you should tell your parents...because then if they talked to the principal about it the whole situation becomes a lot more serious...
as far as waht you should do about her at school...ignore her...she obviously wants to get a rise out of you and if you show that shes making you miserable then shes happy cuz shes accomplishing what she set out to do...but if you just are like meh whatever i dont give a crap what you say i dont need this in my life and show taht you are better then her...sooner or later shes going to leave you alone...because when you show taht it upsets you that is exactly what she wants to happen....which is pathetic
stay strong girl! things will get better soon and good luck!
ps-if you have teh courage it might help if you stood up to her and were just like you know what leave me alone okay?! i never did anything to you... so just leave me be!
ok there is this guy named S and he wanted to get to know me. so we talk sometimes. he really likes me.we are going to the movies with his friends and my friends.he is nice and funny. But i have had a crush on his best friend for years. i really want to get to know his friend. but the only way i will talk to his friend is by him. I really want to get to know his friend and maybe go out with him. i don't want to break S's heart but i want to go out with his friend. that would be kind of mean. how do i tell S that i like him as a friend and get to know his friend? also do you think it will be mean to go out with his best friend?
i dont think you necessarily need to tell S that you like his best friend...but you do need to make sure that S knows you only think of him as a friend, which means no flirting with S or leading him on or anything like that! as long as he knows that you two are strictly friends...then really he shouldnt have a problem with you wanting to date his best friend... i mean,you cant help how you feel... good luck
ok well i masturbate but i only started when i got a bf. i never even had wanted to or was aroused but then i started thinking more sexually and kissing him and we kinda did dry sex a couple times and talk about doing things on like IM ocassionally and so thats when i started doing it and now i do it rather often! sometimes i wish i wasnt like this and that he and i ddint talk sexually. we are good Christians too so what should i do?? we almost went to 2nd Sunday and i dont think thats bad but i wish we didnt talk about things and do dry sex but now im a sexual person with desires so we say things and do things to keep us happy. what should i do??? thanks so much!
you should definitely not be ashamed by this...its a good thing...and it definitely doesnt make you a bad person! i used to be all worried about it too (cuz im catholic) and i was like thats bad and im not a bad girl but its okay, its healthy and good for a relationship :) nothing to be ashamed of!
Okay well for a while I've had a group of friends and we've been hanging out.
Then a little while later, I made friends with another girl and introduced her to this group.
We then hung out together a few times and spoke online. For a while we were planning this sleepover and then they had it without me :S At the new girl's house. I just shrugged and let it go. They didn't let me know about it, they hid it from me. I found out though...they still don't know I did though. This was a while ago.
Also one day a few days after that me, new girl and another girl were supposed to hang out. Other girl couldn't come so new girl was like to me 'Oh since she isn't coming I'll hang out with my sister instead'
For a while everything was okay, until I started noticing my best friend and new girl were hanging out heaps. I have no problem with that, they can hang out whenever because they're friends too. But they're always really secretitive about it... and really jumpy when I find out about it.
And they organised another sleepover, it was supposed to be on Friday. One girl told us the next day she couldn't make it so it would be on Saturday. I then couldn't go on Saturday, but they decided to have it and I just couldn't go. It hurts because they resceduled for the other girl and not me.
Anyway, I think new girl is trying/is succeeding in filling my spot. I don't really believe we have 'spots' but it feels as if she's trying to steal my best friend from me, and hang out with my friends. She always makes plans with everyone in secret, and excludes me as much as she can.
Anyway my question is, what am I supposed to do? If I asked my friends this, they'd tell me to stop being paranoid and laugh at me.
And it's not that new girl is awkward around me or anything. She's really nice to me online and on the phone (Which makes it hard to say things, because they'll be random and out of place) She's doing it very sneakily, and it's really hurting because these are the only friends I have, and what's keeping me together in my life at the moment.
wow i went through this exact same thing... i was in a group of three and we were best friends inseperable...and then those two got very very close and would ALWAYS exclude me and basically because of that, highschool was some of the worst years of my life...
ANYWAY... i dont want you to have to go through that...maybe its time to find new friends? is there anyone else you could maybe start hanging out with? also, it really wouldnt hurt to talk to your friends about how they are making you feel...even after you tell them, things might not change...at all..which should really make you wonder how good of friends they really are...
thats really low that they are keeping things secretive...actually its quite immature as well...i dont think anything is going to change until you talk to them about it...as hard as that may be but things are never going to change if you just keep letting them treat you the way they are treating you...and you know if things dont work out and things dont change then maybe they arent really your friends :(
whatever you do stay strong girl! good luck
so this boy (well, my bff) gave me a few lyrics to a song for valentines day. and they were totally simple, but they basically meant that he loved me, he'd love me forever (but like LOVE not like love ya!)
and i felt awkward so i totalyl ignored him because i didnt know how to respond
and since then we've talked normally, it was awkward at first
but my question is
is it too late to apologize for ignoring him and to tell him i feel the same way?
girl better late than never!!! have you ever heard the song "realize" by colbie caillat? well in it she says "we'd never have to wonder if we missed out on eachother" ... i doubt you wanna go through life thinking that same thing! so yes yes yes you should definitely tell him! and also apologize for ignoring him and tell him you got scared... not of him, but of acknowledging that you really do love this guy! :) i hope things work out for ya! good luck!
is it normal for a guy to prefer pleasuring the girl rather than getting pleasured himself? i would never do this but my bf and i were talking and he said he would rather finger me than me give him a hand job and i always thought the guy would want to be pleasured. ok so why would he want to pleasure me?? thanks!!
also why do guys think its really hot if a girl is masturbating or not? THANKS
haha actually my boyfriend is the same way...he'd rather pleasure me then me doing stuff to him (which hey im not complaining) its not that he doesnt want to get pleasured by you its just that his preference is to pleasure you :)
and as far as a guy thinking that its hot when a girl masturbates... i also had that question and i asked my boyfriend and he was just like dono cuz it is...great answer right? haha i really dont know why guys think its hot...cuz i mean i dont necessarily think girls are like oh gosh its so hot that this guy masturbates...haha i think maybe they like the visual they get and they think oh baby i want to hear this girl moan and then theyll probably start thinking about you moaning and you know guys...get turned on VERY easily...
haha well hope this helped somewhat!
Me and my boyfriend just broke up. We broke up on good terms and we both still love each other but he felt like he needed to grow up some more before we can be together and be happy. I know that he is the one and I know that he loves me and wants to be with me and he thinks we will be able to get back together in a month or two and be perfectly happy, but I am having problems.
Like I said, I know he loves me but I keep having these thoughts that he doesn't or that he likes the way things are now. Whenever we talk he always says he misses me and I feel good for awhile but then I go back down into depression again until I hear from him again.
I don't know how to stop these thoughts. I don't know what to do with myself. All I think about is him and how happy he must be, and all I want to do is just sleep or forget about him until this is over with.
The reason I joined this site is because helping other people with their problems makes me feel better for a period of time, but what am I supposed to do in between. I just want to forget I ever loved him so that I can get through these months faster and it's just not working!!
Please help me!
gosh this must be very hard for you... especially when you feel like hes "the one"... that happened to me and my boyfriend, we broke up for a little bit and he would not talk to me at all, no response or anything and i seriously thought i was going to die...i didnt care about my social life or school all i wanted to do was stay in bed and sleep all day... which is sad that us girls let ourselves get that way...fortunately we worked things out and got back together...
but i think what you need to...as hard as it may seem is surround yourself with your friends and family...keep your mind focuses on other issues and thats the biggest challenge because once he sees that you are moving on or whatever hes going to be like i love you i miss you and your walls are just going to come crumbling down again... but you gotta stay strong and just keep yourself focused on friends, family, school, maybe take a walk to have time to reflect... keep yourself busy thats your number one priority! and also, if that doesnt work (remember its not going to work within or week its going to take awhile before you can stop thinking about him constantly) then you can always talk to him about it...and be like you know i love you i do but maybe it would be better if you stopped telling me you miss me because once he stops talking to you like that it will make things ALOT easier! dont be afraid to tell him how you feel about the situation!
stay strong girl and good luck:)
Ok my brother [16/m] has been making huge mistakes with his life since he's started hanging out with some friends a few years ago. They all dress in black, and some have piercings. They act crazy ALL the time, within their group. They also smoke. It varies from one person to the next, but they all do some sort of drug.
Now, my brother was fine in 6th-7th grade. When he met these people at the end of 7th grade was when it all started. He started to dress in all black too. He started spitting hateful words at my mother and usually making her cry and go talk to my dad. My dad has always been my brother's "favorite parent", so my dad had an easy time talking to him and telling him not too do it again.
At first, it worked, and my brother didn't cuss at my mom for a month or so. Then he started up again, being sweet when he wanted something and cussing at my mom whenever he got it. Nowadays, my dad has been having to sit down with him and talk more and more often, and my brother disrespects my mother the day after he and my dad have a talk! This has been going on for years now, pulling me and my brother's relationship farther and farther apart.
We used to be REALLY tight. Then, he began ignoring me. He never talked to me, never looked at me, whatever. He wasn't mad at me, he just began to see me more as a "little sister" than as a "best friend". Last summer, however, he began to talk to me. Whether it was from his lack of friends, due to the vacation, or his boredom, we started hanging out again. We made jokes and talked just like the old days. I love being so close to him, and you usually don't find a sister and brother get along so well and everything. We hung out every day and stayed up for hours at night just talking, or playing video games and whatnot. Then, towards the end of the summer, he began telling me what he was doing. He said it casually, like it was no big deal. The first act was, him and his friends were at his friend's house, and they were digging in his grandfather's things. They found a cigar, dipped it in cough syrup, and smoked it. He told me all of this as if it was the most normal thing. I couldn't believe he would do that.
Then it was time for school again, and I was worried. He would be in highschool and hanging out with these friends. He's always had a very short temper, but that year, everything got out of control. We were still friends, and he still talked to me about everything, so I always knew what kind of crazy things he did. He began to come home angry all the time. He would yell at my mom and cause her to cry and yell, and he would get to the point of almost hitting her. Then he would punch walls or break things or slam doors, and just run out of the house. Then my mom would call my dad and he would come home early and drive around trying to find him. This was everything on the worst nights, but things weren't necessarily happy all the time either. This madness lasted for a while and then my brother drove my parents into a divorce.
Now, I'm NOT blaming him for the divorce, but I'd definitely say he was a small portion of it. He was absolutely terrifying. I can't even imagine what it is like for my sisters, who are 7 and 8. Even when they are just talking, he screams at them to shut up and cusses at them. He absolutely hate them. When he does that my mom will monotonously remind him not to, but then he'll argue back and yell at her. He's caused my sisters to cry many times.
And currently, He has told me he does Pot. He said, once, that he'd never do anything like it, but he is. He and I are still friends, but I have become the familie's peacemaker.
My parent's divorce has served as an excuse for my brother for him to do all of this. He has also come to the conclusion that he's an Athiest [Which i'm NOT saying is a bad thing]. I do not believe he is an atheist. I think he believes he is because all of his friends are and he has the thought in his head that atheists can do whatever they want with no consequences. He doesn't understand that not all atheists do bad things.
My mom vents to me after her and my brother have a fight and he runs out. My brother vents to me when we stay up late at night talking. My dad vents to me when I stay at his house every other weekend. I'm each of their personnal counselors, I talk everything through with them and point things out.
I know that our family is beyond the point of no return. Every one in our family has moved on from the divorce except my brothr, who still uses it as an excuse. I have talked to him about his Pot issue, but he claims he is not addicted, and that it is not harming him. I know it's not that nig of a drug, compared to others, but I also know that it is a "Gateway drug". He said he'll never do anything like Meth or one of those drugs, but he's lied about those things before, like when he said he'd never do pot. I'm pretty sure my parents are vaguely aware that he does pot, but they are in denial, and don't want to accuse him of something they don't have proof of.
My youngest sister, who is 7, has been catching some of these bad habits from my brother. She has a short temper also, and yells all the time. I know this is typical child behavior, but i'm still watching her. I just don't know how to handle all of this. How do I get him to stop? I've talked to him numerous times, and my parents are considering military school! I don't know what to do!
I know I wrote an essay. Sorry, but it's hard to explain 3-4 years of my life and be "brief" about it.... please help. I'll rate you just for taking the time to read all of this. I just want him to stop.
wow...let me just say that you are one amazing girl, sister, and friend :) it must be hard for you to have to deal with all this stress...
okay now... you know what i think is that the reason your brother is doing all this in the first place is because he wants the attention...and since no one (i mean like an authoritive figure) is doing anything to stop it he feels like he can keep doing it... honestly, i dont think there is much you can do about it because he doesnt see you as someone that will have control over him... he needs someone to yell right back at him and be like hey you are fucking up your life! it may seem harsh but something needs to be done NOW before anything worse happens... if you feel like youre the one that needs to make that happen then is there anyone (not your parents) that you could go to to talk about this with...like a school counselor or aunt or uncle or something?
also, i honestly think that your brother needs professional help...he needs to go see a psychologist/psychiatrist and yeah hes not going to want to and hes going to protest and be like im not going...but its going to help him greatly...these people will help him out far more then you and it doesnt seem like your parents are doing much about the situation either... i think he would benefit in so many ways by doing this i really do...
he might lose trust in you but wouldnt you rather help him get his life back on track before he seriously hurts himself? and once he has his life back on track hes going to thank you...because you will have saved him...
hoped this helped somewhat... youre a strong girl...good luck
Okay so I guess I'll start this whole big story from the very beginning. My friend and I just walk around school in the morning before class actually starts because there's nothing better to do. And after a few days my friend started noticing some kid that would always make really "awkward" eye contact with her. After a while of noticing him, we realized he was always in places where were. So we decided to follow him around some days and it was really fun because he never realized. One day while my friend and I were talking about him our other friend over heard and told us the kids name. So my friend and I found his Facebook and decided to talk to him. After a while of talking to him I realized he was a really cool guy. I eventually got his number and we texted non-stop. It became so much that if I didn't answer back within 5 minutes he would send another text saying '?'. Anyways, basically his phone got taken away, and in school it's just way to awkward when I even try talking to him. I always try to keep in my head what I'm going to say, but when I face him I can't think of anything. I really like him, and I know he likes me but I just don't know how to make us 'normal' after texting so much. It kinda just made me more afraid of him and everything more awkward. =/ What should I do?
ahh yes the joys of texting :) gotta love it! well...is he getting his phone back soon? cuz that might solve your problem...but if not,and this is only if you are not comfortable with trying to keep talking to him face to face cant you always use facebook to talk? i know it wont be as efficient as your used to but its still going to be easier for you two obviously then talking face to face is...but if that doesnt sound like an option then just keep trying to talk to him...eventually things will get better and wont be so awkward :)
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. It is working out great for us, we talk everyday, we see each other everyday (cam) and I am very happy with him. We are both sixteen.
We have been having phone sex for a while now, and it has made both of us really horny all the time. All either of us have to do is moan (even on purpose) to get to the other which is terrible. We both masterbate everyday, and I am always sore and bruised/torn but I really want to satisfy him. How do we get each other to stop masterbating with each other so much?
it might be hard...but probably the best thing to do is to take a break from it for awhile...and since you guys do it alot its going to be tough cuz your gonna have the urge but u just gotta overcome those feelings and be like we just gotta wait till its feeling better... and dont give in as much as youre going to want to dont give in until it feels better!!! plus...when you are feeling better down there and youre ready to do it again its going to feel so good since you havent done it in awhile ;) good luck!
Im moving in the beginning of June to another state hours away. The main problem (besides everything else!!) is that I'm leaving my boyfriend. We have been best friends for a couple years and recently started dating. We really love each other and I think i might even be falling in love with him! i dont know what to do because i cant imagine leaving and being single because i would still love him. we dont want to go long distance in case it messes up our friendship so we were going to break up but how can i do that when i love him? Soo what would you guys do?? we are in high school so its not like we can just go see each other-i would only see him a couple times a year. But if i were to go and date other guys in my new state how would i do that and be fair when I still loved my ex? And how would i deal with not dating him when i love him? I knowim young but he and i just really have a great friendship and relationship and we are in a serious relationship. I want to be with him for months to come and June is coming too, too soon. Please help! thanks in advance :)
wow...this is a really heartbreaking story! so let me tell you what i would do... i wouldnt give him up...if youre in love why lose it just cuz ur moving? if its real you guys will make it through! but you both gotta want to...you both gotta WANT to make it work long distance...
i go to school in wisconsin and my boyfriend lives in california! its so hard being away from him and im sad that i can pysically be with him but we have phone, internet, texting... and i cant imagine my life without him in it... and i think the distance is actually making us stronger! i think its really good for the relationship! i love him so much and i just know that if youre really truly in love you dont want to just give up because of distance...you want to work at it because you want him...and if its meant to be, things are going to work out in the end :) but most importantly, do what your heart is telling you to do!
I have the newest IPOD Video Nano, and it froze on me, so basically how do I unfreeze it ? I tried to turn it off,but nothing and I tried to plug it into the computer to see if that will work,but again nothing.
it should say something about unfreezing it in your directions? otherwise im pretty sure to unfreeze an ipod (at least this is how it is with all the other ipods ive done) you hold the MENU and the center buttons down at the same time (make sure you push and hold both of them down at the same time) and just hold it until the apple sign appears on your screen and you should be good to go!
Hey this is Celinas friend Chelsea...
I was wondering if i could get a little help myself...see theres this guy, i LOVE him, but he has no idea...lots of people say we're a cute couple and everything, but of course one of my best friends (not celina
well okay you definitely need to tell the guy or hint it or SOMETHING! cuz girl, once he and this crush stealer girl of yours start going out its going to make going to school miserable for you! its going to crush you! and seriously, its not even worth it... so tell him... and if he doesnt feel the same way back well yeah youre going to be heartbroken but there are more guys and you'll just find a better one :) but its better to know for sure whether things between you two would work or not then just letting that crush stealer win and get the best of you! chances are, she probably doesnt even like the guy but just wants to be like ha! i got him and you didnt! hate girls like that ugh... but anyway talk to him! good luck :)
I currently dislike the public school I'm attending and right now, and I'm strongly considering transferring to a private school at the beginning of my sophomore year. The problem is, I don't know how to go about figuring out which school I want to go to. I'm doing my research on both schools, so when I choose I know for certain that this is what I want. I was thinking of making a pro/con list, but I don't know if that'll work out. I heard shadowing a student was a good way to see the school life, but right now I'm confused on what to do. Any tips? Any advice would be appreciated.
hey i went to a private school all my years of schooling...graduated with 40 kids... but ANYWAY thats besides the point
i think doing your research (which you said youve been doing) is a very good thing...but you definitely need to go a on a tour of the school and better yet, shadow someone for a day! you'll get a feel for the classes, the people, teachers... what a school day would be like there...and if youre lucky, the person you shadow will be pretty cool and you'll get along great so that when you actually start going to the school you alraedy have some friends :)
Well me and my boyfriend have been going out almost a year. I have completly made my world revolve around him. I dont ever hang with my girls anymore . We have like been together every weekend sence we started dating. Its like i wait on his every move , and i cant help it. Its like is word is everything. Alot of times when im over there [ which is like always ] his friends will be over there to and thats fine or whatever , but he gets his girlfriend and friends to when personaly to me id rather it just be us. Basicly what im trying to get to is that i know im wayy attached to him and theres like no possible way for me to stop ? i Love him so much but its like he's my world , which emotionaly he is but its not good when he doesnt wait on my every move like i do his, I just feel i put more in to this relationship than he does or it could be because im putting in to much ''/ its just like im obessed with him , i call him alllll the time when he says he'll call me . I dont know , one thing for sure is that if me and him ever broke up id be a total mess . Idk what to say or do . if you can ... help ?
i agree with you completely... i think if you are feeling like you want to hang out with your girls then you should make time for them like once a week, every two weeks? depends on how much you can handle... i just know that even when im with my best girl friends im still not happy because im thinking of him and wanting to be with him instead of them...which isnt a good thing but i cant help it if im head over heels in love with him... guys complicate things but you just need to decide who is more important to you...and its not a bad thing if its your man! :)
ok so i was wondering whats some things that drive guys crazy and make them want you reeeally bad? And we arent sexually active and we arent going to third so please nothing involving us touching each other 'down there' :P thanks. Some ways to tease him and turn him on and get him hard? Thanks soo much! :)
i heard that if you bite a guys earlobe that turns them on...umm whisper something in his ear...if your a little risky you could "dance" for him...talk dirty to him ... hmm good luck :)