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The girl from work, I cant stop admiring
16/M
sophmore
Okay, I work at Foodland and they hired this girl(17/F Senior) about 2 months ago,and well I really like her, Im told as one of the sweet caring guys and shes the shy Smart (but get to know her talkative) type of girl. So i figure what the hell and told her how i felt, We started talking and I got to know her some but most times we dont talk I mean we both have school/work but she hates texting and I text all the time. Well every mornign I say goodmorning and everynight i say goodnight no matter what. And the other night we went to the movies and I did not make one move like put my arm around her or anything, and she was like figitting a lil but thats about itLater that night we texted for a lil and i asked her what she would have done if i were to have kissed her and she said well its a little early but i wouldnt rule it out in the future.Now last night I texted her goodnight and we didnt talk all that day and I actually suprisingly got a reply: Aw goodnight :)
Idk what to do, when do I make the move and how?
Thank you for reading this
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Ease into this. You can't kiss her unless you've initiated some kinesthetics, which I'll simply refer to as kino, or otherwise, touching.
Ease into it, start with the friendly hand on shoulder thing. For instance, if you're getting up out of your chair and she is sitting next to you, put your hand on her shoulder for a short few seconds and say "I'll be right back." Or something to that extent.
If you two are in conversation and you say something with a deep meaning to it, you can put your hand on her shoulder at this moment and stare her deep in her eyes and hold it until you've said what you wanted to.
If she isn't rejecting this, you can of course progress with kino from there, getting more sexual (I'm not talking about feeling up right after you've done this.) from there.
Just slowly move down, see if you can get any cuddle action, etc.
If she is responding to these things, chances are it's a safe time for you to go in for a kiss. There's no telling when it's the right time to kiss, but if you feel it's right, then go for it.
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aww how cute... well the biggest thing is you just gotta take your time and make sure shes comfortable before you try anything...the girl wants to know that she can trust you and that you arent pressuring her into doing anything, even if it is just a kiss... so next time you guys hang out (maybe watch a movie at your house if possible, not a comedy but a cute one or scary)or whatever you do (take her out to dinner) (go see another movie) idk ...but whatever you do take things slow and just ask her be like...can i put my arm around you? or can i hold your hang? and she'll probably smile and tell you its okay and then once your date is over (if the time is right you can ask her if you can kiss her) or wait to do that when you drop her off at her house like walk her to her door and tell her you had a good time and then just nicely and sweetly ask... can i kiss you? i always have so much more respect for a guy when he asks first (if its our first kiss of course) so take things slow, get her trust, and ask! :) good luck
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