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Please PLEASE AWNSER!! please...
15/f
I have feelings for this senior, at one time I thought he might like me too. (ie..We never talked and he threw a paperball at me..then he picked me for his group and sat right next to me, he had his arm touching me the whole time and everytime he said something to me he looked me in the eyes. And he would nudge me with his shoulder or his leg. And he was teasing me and laughing with me. Note there were two other girls in the group. One sitting on the other side of him and the other in front of him.) But anyways i thought he might have had feelings for me too and you can see why. But then he started to kinda drift off and he wasnt talking to me as much. (He had a girlfriend the whole time, but when this "drifting" began to happen i heard they had broke up) And he would occasionally talk to me. One day he was sitting in the corner alone staring at the floor and i said "what is wrong with you cj?" and he started to mumble under his breath, and i said "yeah i heard nothing you said" and he began to smile and said good you werent supposed to. And i said ok then and began to smile and laugh back. But then i heard that they never did break up. And everyone is telling me i should go for it and ignore the fact that he has a girlfriend. But I couldnt do that. I would hate to think how i would feel if that happened to me. I am not the kind to steal a guy from another girl, whether i like her or not, i just dont feel its right. But i really would like to get to know cj if you know what i mean. But he has college and basketball, and the girlfriend. My friend said that we should write a note between each other talking about how i feel about him and his girlfriend and what she thinks as well (my friend) then stick it in my binder and when he checks it for our class then he will see it and read it (because everyone loves to read notes). What should I do?? I know he is a senior and everyone says seniors want freshman for their body. But we grew up in a small community and it just isnt like that with most of us. If that is true it is the senior girls and freshman boys.
What should I do about all of this
PS his girlfriend is a cheerleader and im not, i know that most jocks like cheerleaders, but i have this feeling that there is something there between us
sorry it is so long!!
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Heyy from the things you are saying then it sounds like he likes you.
You should ask him if he see's you as ever been more than friends or tell him that you like him but if you are too shy to tell him to his face then i agree with your friend, you should write him a note. But if he says that he only wants to be friends then you have to be okay with not been anything more.I know it will be hard if you really like him but You never know starting out as friends can lead to more, but give it time.
And you should get to know him better, build up a frienship between the two of you
I hope this helped in some way
and good luck
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I had a similar expereince with aman that I fell madly in love with. If you stop talking to him then he will lose interest in you becasue a an thinks that if a girl doesn't talk to him that must mena she doesn't like me. Surprisingly odd guys think like us. They are self-concious and continue to talk to themselves about what they should do. I think what he was mumbling is I want to get out of my current relationship. Most cheerleaders are a pain when it comes to being in a relationship. They are needy, really self-concious (who would have thought!), constantly suspicious, and no fun at all because of shopping. Have you ever seen the movie A Cinderalla Story with Hilary Duff in it? Well she liked the popular guy and he ended up falling in love with her even though he had a girlfriend that he wnated to dump but didn't have the guts to until he met the right person. My suggestion is to talk to him everyday or whenever you have a chance. Get to know him as a friend first, you will hang out more, he will fall for you more and more until finally he realizes what he has been missing. The key is communication, if you have that you are invicible compared to everyone in that stupid school. It is not true that a guy who is senior only wants a freshmans body.
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