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My best friend Pregnant what should i do?
Well i have two best friends and well made a small click Called ABC im A my moved away friend is B and C is my other best friend. and well B told C that she was moving a while back and she never told me. she told C and C told me to say good bye when she came and was ?!?!? okay.. then one of my other friend told me that she was tranfering..... :\ so that was one concern about our freindship. Well B told me a couple times she was pregnant while laughing so i didnt believe her. and well she txted C saying that she was pregnant for reals no joke.
Is she my friend even if she prefer to tells everyone else before me? or am i just flipping out bc she left? well what do i tell my friend about her being pregnant? when she has a loser boyfriend....? for reals he should common sense to use protection? shouldnt he? and well my friends ex boyfriend is pist that she got pregnent bc he still cares about her. what should he do? bc he wants B to give up that life with her loser boyfriend and go to the ex boyfriend.
well i seriously dont know what to tell my friend or how to help her.
Pls. help me
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I am not sure how old you are but I am guessing you are in middle or early high school. There is both simple and complex answers to your questions. The simple thing to say is: "It's not you so it doesn't matter. And your friends change." However, I believe the answer is alot more complex than that.
If you are as young as I think you are, then your pregnant friend has made a HUGE error in judgment. There is nothing you can do to solve her enormous problem. You can be supportive of her during this time. I do think you should learn from her mistake so that you do not make the same error she did. I think she should try to make a relationship work with the father. The ex-boyfriend should not get involved. This situation is much bigger than he and this other girl.
part of this simple answer is also true. Your friends change and this time in your life is probably a rough patch of that.
I hope this helped but because of the complexity of the story and all the question it was hard to address all the issues. Please email me if you have more questions or need more advice. I owuld love to help you.
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wow this is pretty intense.
but what i can tell you is if maybe you talked to your other bestfriend "C" to really check whats been goin on and if she calls you her bestfriend she should maybe ask "B" if she has any dislike towards you or why she may play around all the time. because i have a friend like that and i dont nessaceraly call her my bestfriend anymore but its something we all kind of have to deal with and maybe you should really talk to "B" and see whats the deal. like if you mean much to her you know what i mean? and you have to let her exboyfriend know that if she is happy where she is in life he cant try to be in her relationship like that cause that can really start more problems and it doesnt seem like you all need that right now. and i really hope that "B" is in a good place right now in life i hope she wanted this and she knew what she was getting herself into. But yeah anyways back to the main issue i would really really consider talking to "B" or what i also suggested before talking to "C" to ask "B" about it.
i really hope i helped.
keep your head up hun :)
Chanel-Lynn
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