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my mom doesnt want to pay for the big 8th grade trip at the end of the year thats going to be lots of fun, but she has already paid 100 dollars that cannot be retrieved again, but out of my money, since she was mad at me. like no matter what i do.. even when i try to improve my bad habits, she says shes satisfied but she is never satisfied because still today she is mad about the subject, because she says that i dont listen to what i have to say, and sometimes yeah i do talk back a lot which i guess i shouldn't do.. but sometimes like i dont want people to think the wrong idea of me.. so i feel that if i dont say anything back they just assume that i do what they're thinking? its basically a lose-lose situation. and i need the money by tomorrow for the 2nd half payment of the field trip, 158 dollars. how can i raise this sum of money in 1 day? or i can beg to my teacher to extend the day, so then how can i raise 158 dollars for the day after tomorrow? also how can i change how my mom views me? like because i dont know maybe its just something with the teenage years where some stuff has to go wrong.. the majority of my problems all revolve around me procastinating, and then not getting work done, missing the bus, etc. i've even wanted to see the school guidance person about ways to fix it, because every other advice people give me does not seem to work really. but for the past couple days i've been pretty focused. and i havent missed the bus since around the beginning of january. i even cleaned my room and make an extra effort to not leave a mess lying around, and stay on my mom's good side. i even get good grades but my mom looks beyond that. and im doing another fundraiser so i can go to japan this summer, to help out my parents who have to pay 5000 dollars for it, and im selling gum and chocolate. im trying really hard to not give in to my desires to end up eating all the candy and gum for myself, and ive only eaten one chocolate which my mom found out about, and the rest im selling. but my mom still doesnt see change in me.. it just feels hopeless.. i mean maybe i lost her trust because before i guess they always thought i was the perfect child, when my older sister was having some problems, and now its like reversed, even though nobody was really too perfect to begin with. my sis is in almost all honors classes in high school and gets mostly As. Im only in advanced math, i get awards for my art and etc, and get As and Bs. to some families that would be amazing, and when i say that to my mom she gets mad.. because i guess she and my dad have been through a whole lot so they want us to be perfect.. but its so hard. like many kids have problems with homework and stuff cause they dont get it.. for me, i usually get it, and my main problem is what i said before; procastination. i dont know why i do it.. its hard to explain it to people. and i feel really bad, and hate having to say to my teachers i dont have the homework in. my mom constantly says that every little thing like that counts, and i know it does, because i got a B instead of an A because of it last marking period in literacy, but so far this marking period ive missed no homework! well i know this is long but i really wanna fix my home problems and REALLY want to go to that trip!
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Awhh, Well sweetie what i can tell you for advice is that do you have an aunt or uncle any family member that will lend you the money for a while. or maybe i mean if you really wnt to go on that trip tell your mom she wont have to give you a birthday or like a christmas present or something. try babysitting especially if you want to save up for that trip this summer. talk even to your principle because i know for a fact if you are having money problems in a sence that they will go easy on you. like my aunt just had twins and my cousins cant get everything now especially for school trips so they had to go down little by little in payments. so really talk to the school in first hand and try to raise money by babysitting. and for the way your mother acts towards you just i know it hurts but just get detatched from her and try being more independent in that matter and if you dont want to do that try and see if maybe you do more chores and she see's you improving. i really hope i helped you :)
goodluck hun!
Chanel-Lynn
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Well i have two best friends and well made a small click Called ABC im A my moved away friend is B and C is my other best friend. and well B told C that she was moving a while back and she never told me. she told C and C told me to say good bye when she came and was ?!?!? okay.. then one of my other friend told me that she was tranfering..... :\ so that was one concern about our freindship. Well B told me a couple times she was pregnant while laughing so i didnt believe her. and well she txted C saying that she was pregnant for reals no joke.
Is she my friend even if she prefer to tells everyone else before me? or am i just flipping out bc she left? well what do i tell my friend about her being pregnant? when she has a loser boyfriend....? for reals he should common sense to use protection? shouldnt he? and well my friends ex boyfriend is pist that she got pregnent bc he still cares about her. what should he do? bc he wants B to give up that life with her loser boyfriend and go to the ex boyfriend.
well i seriously dont know what to tell my friend or how to help her.
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wow this is pretty intense.
but what i can tell you is if maybe you talked to your other bestfriend "C" to really check whats been goin on and if she calls you her bestfriend she should maybe ask "B" if she has any dislike towards you or why she may play around all the time. because i have a friend like that and i dont nessaceraly call her my bestfriend anymore but its something we all kind of have to deal with and maybe you should really talk to "B" and see whats the deal. like if you mean much to her you know what i mean? and you have to let her exboyfriend know that if she is happy where she is in life he cant try to be in her relationship like that cause that can really start more problems and it doesnt seem like you all need that right now. and i really hope that "B" is in a good place right now in life i hope she wanted this and she knew what she was getting herself into. But yeah anyways back to the main issue i would really really consider talking to "B" or what i also suggested before talking to "C" to ask "B" about it.
i really hope i helped.
keep your head up hun :)
Chanel-Lynn
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i have the samsung A737 from cingular-the new AT&T lol. does anyone know how to transfer itunes onto the phone? (link)
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Hey well if you have a usb connection wire from your phone just connect it to your computer drive thing and if you have windows media player you should be able to go to a link that says "SYNC" and you can drag them into the sync section in your windows media and how you drag it is you click on it and then simply drag with the mouse go all the way to the bottom of the screen and with the song attatched to the mouse curser it will open up just by passing windows media and you will be able to place it in your sync playlist . if this sound the least bit confusing to you you might be able to message me on this. i hope i helped :)
Chanel-lynn
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What are some good colleges or universities in West Canada? I want to go to school to be a LPN (Licensed Practical Nurse). (link)
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Yukon-there's yukon college/yukon ministry of education
british columbia-
British Columbia Institute of Technology Camosun College
Capilano College
Douglas College
Kingston College
Kwantlen University
Malaspina University-College
MUC-Cowichan Campus Duncan British Columbia
MUC-Powell River Campus Powell River
MUC-Parksville/Qualicum Campus Parksville
North Island College Okanagan University College
Selkirk College (SC)
and idont know how much further i can go with this because i dont exactly know where you are located. so if you put that there it could be helpful and i hope i helped you.
*chanel-lynn
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does anyone know any song/ lyrics that kind of explain someone you are dating that you want to change everyones mind about?
anything will help. (link)
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hey the only song i can think of is
-south side by lloyd-banks ft. ashanti.
its r&b so you would have to like that kind of music i would think. but look up the lyrics its nice :)
Chanel-Lynn
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I'm a 15/female and I'm wondering what in the world I should give my boyfriend for Valentines. We've been going out since Dec. 24 (aww, how cute. :D) Now that we've got that taken care of, lets move on. Lol. Anyways, and it's my first Valentines day to actually have a special someone.
- He doesn't like chocolate, so there goes that.
I really don't know, I thought about making him a homemade card, writing a whole bunch of sweet stuff in there and whatnot. Do you think that a guy would actually like that?
or if you have any other suggestions, please give them. (:
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Hey, I mean you two havent been going out for that long so yeah I would definetly suggest the homemade card thing and what i did for my exboyfriend last year was i cut out hearts from contruction paper and on each i wrote what i loved about him. :) and put it in like a decorated jar. and put song on a cd that show how he makes you feel :)
i hope i helped goodluck hun
-Chanel-Lynn-
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