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Wish i was still innocent...
ok well i masturbate but i only started when i got a bf. i never even had wanted to or was aroused but then i started thinking more sexually and kissing him and we kinda did dry sex a couple times and talk about doing things on like IM ocassionally and so thats when i started doing it and now i do it rather often! sometimes i wish i wasnt like this and that he and i ddint talk sexually. we are good Christians too so what should i do?? we almost went to 2nd Sunday and i dont think thats bad but i wish we didnt talk about things and do dry sex but now im a sexual person with desires so we say things and do things to keep us happy. what should i do??? thanks so much!
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tell him how you feel and if hes not willing to hold back a bit then the only reason hes dating you is for sex... i know that can seem like it would never happen, but people aren't always what you thinl they are so be careful. please.
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There is a reason why you feel bad, it has nothing to do with brainwashing by reiligon. I'm sorry but I disagree with what has been said about it being natural and ok, it natural to want to have a healthy relationship with a member of the oppist sex, it is far from being what the world is saying it is. the reason I spoke of is (I asume you belive we came from god), God never attend sex to be used as people today are useing it. the reason you feel guilty is that inside each of us is something that wants to do what is right.
If u feel uncomfortable stop, seek help with it,
I hope u find whta you are looking for
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you should definitely not be ashamed by this...its a good thing...and it definitely doesnt make you a bad person! i used to be all worried about it too (cuz im catholic) and i was like thats bad and im not a bad girl but its okay, its healthy and good for a relationship :) nothing to be ashamed of!
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This is nothing at all to be ashamed of. Masturbating is perfectly healthy and part of life, there is nothing wrong with it. If you feel guilty about it because your are religious, I can only tell you one thing: don't worry. Religion and human nature often clash, so being physical with your boyfriend, masturbating,etc....it's all part of being a human being, so don't feel bad about it. Celebrate your sexuality, don't hide from it. As long as you two feel comfortable, there is absolutely nothing wrong with exploring each other (and yourselves).
You mentioned that you say things and do things to keep you two happy- Happy is the key word. You are doing what feels right for the both of you, which is perfectly healthy and desirable. You can still do these things and be a good person, and Christian. Religion tells you to be a good person, right? Well, you're doing nothing wrong here. Enjoy yourself, and be safe! Above all, try not to feel too guilty, you aren't doing anything bad.
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