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Question Posted Sunday February 17 2008, 3:55 pm

Well me and my boyfriend have been going out almost a year. I have completly made my world revolve around him. I dont ever hang with my girls anymore . We have like been together every weekend sence we started dating. Its like i wait on his every move , and i cant help it. Its like is word is everything. Alot of times when im over there [ which is like always ] his friends will be over there to and thats fine or whatever , but he gets his girlfriend and friends to when personaly to me id rather it just be us. Basicly what im trying to get to is that i know im wayy attached to him and theres like no possible way for me to stop ? i Love him so much but its like he's my world , which emotionaly he is but its not good when he doesnt wait on my every move like i do his, I just feel i put more in to this relationship than he does or it could be because im putting in to much ''/ its just like im obessed with him , i call him alllll the time when he says he'll call me . I dont know , one thing for sure is that if me and him ever broke up id be a total mess . Idk what to say or do . if you can ... help ?

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CaliforniaLover1111 answered Monday February 18 2008, 3:57 pm:
i agree with you completely... i think if you are feeling like you want to hang out with your girls then you should make time for them like once a week, every two weeks? depends on how much you can handle... i just know that even when im with my best girl friends im still not happy because im thinking of him and wanting to be with him instead of them...which isnt a good thing but i cant help it if im head over heels in love with him... guys complicate things but you just need to decide who is more important to you...and its not a bad thing if its your man! :)

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Marizzle answered Monday February 18 2008, 12:28 pm:
Im having the same dilemma with my boyfriend, and literally his every word means something.

I cant stop seeing him, but now I HAVE too, as we have started arguing. I can only suggest spending one night with your girls, without him, and see how you feel by the end of it, if your like me, you should feel relieved that you managed it.

Also spending the time apart will make you realise when you see him the next day how much you love him, and you will be excited to see each other, and maybe he will hang on your every word too..

Try it ! Good luck Marizzlex<3

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