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It all started when I was 8. I was in gymnastics and I was about to learn a new move. But I didn't trust my body enough to do it. I had to have my coach spot me every time but eventually I got to the point where I couldn't do it even if I had a spotter. After that I have had SOOOOO many fears of EVERYTHING! Around my friends I am slightly stonger but showers freak me out so much, the darkness, unlocked doors at night, raw meats, throwing up(phobia), dark windows, quietness at nights, the list could go on. How do I fix this!? It is interupting my life and changing who I am! Please and thank you. :) (link)
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You have Paranoid Personality Disorder(PPD), probably. Don't worry! Many people have it. But, I do suggest a therapist. But the first thing you have to do is read more on PPD. Hope I helped!:)
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Ok so now I'm 11 turning 12 in june and my boyfriend is 12 he wants to do sex with me and I think I'm 2 young but he says he'll brake up with me if I say no and I don't know what to do! Please help me! (link)
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11 years old is TOO young for sex. Tell an adult quickly, girl! This boy has problems! Wanting to do that at a young age is not right. And besides, so what if you 2 aren't together? You will have better boyfriends, I guarantee it.
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I have a crush at school and I want to sing a love song or a graduation song for my last year of primary school. What should I sing? (link)
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Well, you could sing How to Love by Lil Wayne.
Or another good song is I Love You Like a Love Song by Selena Gomez.
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They seem ignorant when it comes to something really affecting me. Whenever I'm around cigarette or any type of smoke, strong smells like cleaning supplies, or sometimes even certain foods, I can't breathe. It literally feels like my lungs shut off and I can't get air. But when I tried to tell this to my Mom, she didn't even seem to be listening and kept talking over me (telling me to do a chore or asking me an unrelated question). I finally gave up and just walked away frustrated.
I sometimes randomly get lightheaded and stagger, but she simply says "what's up?" and doesn't respond when I tell her. She says it like its fake and I'm just playing around. But it's SERIOUS and she acts like she doesn't care. (link)
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What you need to do is sit down with them and tell them you feel like you're getting ignored. Nothing will get better if you don't do this. Maybe you can talk to them at dinner.
If you can't do this or you don't want to, ignore them back. This may seem uncomfortable, but they may pay attention to you more if you ignore them back.
I hope everything works out!:)
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I like to masturbate in the car while my parents go into a store to buy something I'm 13 and a boy I really like to do this of anybody does this or has seen people do this please reply (link)
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Well, how DO you do it? Like, a pillow? Please send me your answer in a question
Then, I will answer. :) I think it is normal though, because I had the same problem when I was little.
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I'm 11 and my boyfriend broke up with me and I really seriously can't get over it! I'm madly in love with him but he's dating my bestfriend please please please help! (link)
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Your bestfriend?! Dating your BOYFRIEND?!
If your bestfriend was your bestfriend, she wpuldn't do that to you. And if he left you for her, both of them are NOT worth not.
I hope everything works out
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I am now 18 and my gf is 16.
Now it;s been 5 months since we started dating.And we've been really close and we ARE going good.But now there's something in my mind which has been a big problem for me.My gf used to have a FB account.But last December she deactivated it due to some issues with her parents.But she had recently activated it and it took like 1 week for her tell me what she did.But actually I have her password but she doesn't know that.And I've been checking her messages.She does have a lot of contacts with guys'not like me.It's not that I dont trust her but those guys they ve been like flirting with her.I know that she loves me alot too.Then recently she has given her mobile number to this guy who likes her and all.And then she told me that this guy has been texting with her.But she lied to me telling that she didnt give her number to him but somehow he has found it,But she did give him her number.I know that.Actually we are so in love.And we are crazy about each other.But still I have these problems too.I cant ask her about them too.But I ve told her once before about something else which came up before.sometimes I feel like she is totally different from the person who is with me when she is not with me'or when she is on the phone with me.Now I can't talk to her in the way I used to do with all these doubts.And when I see her messages I kinda get angry + jealous.So I need advice!.I mean how to react on this issue.(I dont think that I ll be able to talk to her about this) (link)
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You DEFINATELY need to talk to her about this.
If you don't talk to her, this is the part where the relationship drops. So, sit down with her and talk to her. Tell her you saw what you saw.
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41 yr old fem.
What do you do when you have an online crush that you are falling in love with? They are in another country. I think about them every day. I never met them in person & know that It could be the "idea" that attracts me. What do you think? (link)
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When I was YOUNG young, I had the same issue; bur of course I was little :/
well, have you talked to him on the phone? If not, I would do that. If you think you REALLY love him, try to meet up with him if one of you are able to go to their country; or talk to him on skype.
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Hey. 13/F. Just the other day my grandma came in the room with out knocking. And I was busy putting on a pad coz I was on my period. And I don't know wat to do ? My door was close. And I don't know how to tell my mom plz help (link)
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What you need to do is sit down and have a talk with mom. Tell her what happened with grandma and you need some privacy. Or, talk to them while you're eating supper. And what you can also do is put a "PLEASE KNOCK" sign or a "KEEP OUT" sign on your door.
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Ok so my fiancé and I are both 18 and I am wondering what should I get him for our 8 year anniversary and valintines day which is comming up!? Its extremely hard because I dont know what a guy would want and i like he has everything. He keeps telling me I don't have to get him anything because I'm his greatest gift but I want to surprise him anyway Any suggestions (link)
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Take him out to dinner/lunch, then go to a vacation spot. It's something you'll BOTH remember for a long time, and you can enjoy some quality time together :)
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I am 15 years old. I am a female. I have strange feeling to my friend (she's a girl). I am really NOT a lesbian. And she's not a lesbian either. But I don't know why I'm feeling like this. I've never dated any guy or girl before. And I'm not hated by guys to start thinking of girls! What should I do? Please help. I don't be a lesbian. (link)
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If you have a strange feeling towards your friend, you MIGHT like or love her. Your body changes throughout your life, so you might. You may not FEEL like a lesbian, but you might be. Sit down with your friend, and talk to her about it.
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Hi I was wondering if you were really Bella Thorne! Please be honest and I know this sounds stupid. Thanks (link)
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Wait, what? Lol
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Ok so I have a Bf and we are in a great relationship atm. But currently another guy has been talking to me on MSN. And Im on vacation and the other guy keeps saying he loves me and is asking me to dump my Bf for him. I dont know what to do because the other day, the other guy told me that he's going to kiss me and asked me if I'd kiss him back. I made the mistake of saying sure and I dont wanna cheat on my Bf since he's my first Bf. Plz help i dont know what to do!!! I dont wanna break up with my Bf but I kinda do wanna kiss the other guy (He's the player type) But my Bf isnt a kissing kind of guy, he's more of the hugging type. HELP ME!!! I need advice pronto! I like both but dont wanna break up with my Bf but wanna kiss the other guy :( HELP!!
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Hi! Thank you for asking me your question, btw :)
So, the guy who wants to kiss you is the player type, eh? Hmm... Well, if you don't want to break up with your bf then don't kiss him and tell him you're not interested. But, if you want to kiss him, kiss him. Tell yourself it's just a kiss, and you aren't cheating. It's just a kiss. :)
I hope I helped!!!:)
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I'm in 7th grade and there is this guy that I kinda like. I see him staring at me at least twice a day. I don't look at him long enough to see if he keeps looking at me though. We have only talked twice this year. I'm kinda shy so I don't know how to start talking ot him or something, so any advice??? Please and thanks! (link)
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I have the same problem.
What I did is try to talk to him; like asking for homework help. If you get lucky, you might get to go to his house for homework :)
You can also try sitting next to him, like at lunch or if your in any classes together, by his desk. Good luck!
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Lately my grades have been dropping and I am not sure why. But I used to be a straight A student and my parents were really proud of me. I am now in 7th grade and need some help. I have told my mom that I really try to do better and I asked if she is proud of me for anything. She said I play violin and sometimes make good choices. That was it. I try to get through to her but all she does is get my dad and they team up and bash me. They talk about how awesome I USED to be and how horrible I am now. They compare me to other students that they don't even know. No matter how much I try they just continue this.
So any tips on getting better grades? And also I have cried like three times today because I feel hopeless and feel like nobody understands. So please don't say anything mean. I have already thought of suicide but I really don't want to kill myself, I just want some help. Thanks. (link)
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School is stressful, I know. My problem is TOTALLY the same.
Here are a few tips for getting better grades:
-Take Notes. Taking notes about what the teacher says keeps you on track, and you can study at home.
-Try To Lay Off The Electronics. If you aren't on any electronics as much, you focus more on school and have more time to study.
-Study Nonstop. Studying nonstop makes tests and quizzes a peice of cake. Like 1,2,3!
-Try FlashCards. Flashcards or a memory game help because it kind of makes it easier, and it's like a test.
Good luck!
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18/f
Well, when it comes to my love life I am not sure what to do. One of my best friends is in the army, he kissed me on New Years eve and is leaving from basic training and will be back the day before Valentines day. I like him a lot, but part of me feels like I am too young to be in a relationship. I like him in a way I could see me never being with some one else. But I don't want that so young. I've been in a few relationships and all ended badly, I don't want to lose my best friend, but I am afraid if I wait too long I will not have thee opportunity again. (link)
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Too young to be in a relationship??? People in ELEMENTRY school date. If you love him, go for it. If he kissed you on New Years Eve, he likes/loves you. No friend kisses you. Hope I helped :)
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I have known my best friend since second grade. he always stuck up for me. when we entered middle school, i noticed that he was more mature. i told him that i liked him, but that was an understatement. i went away for a couple of years and my feeling are getting stronger. do i tell him that i love him or do i move on? (link)
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NEVER hold back on love. Try taking him out to dinner, or a walk on Valentines Day(Or sooner if you want; I suggest Valentines Day), and tell him you have true feelings for him. If you love someone, never hold back. :)
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I'm 19 f; I'm 5 foot and I weigh 220 pounds.
This is the biggest I've ever been. I've always been chubby, but my stomach isn't that bad. It's mostly my face, and my thighs. I'd like to make my stomach more firm so it isn't flabby but anyways.
I'm joining a gym and I'd like to know what excerises are the best? They have a pool and yoga and stuff; so any tips?
Also, anyone know of any successful diets that actually show results? And have a list of foods that I can eat, and times that I should eat?
I'm also taking a pill called Phentomine; my doctor prescribed it to me; when I was last one it, it curved my appietite and helped me lose 40 lbs; once I stopped, I gained it back plus 20 more lbs.
So..?
Any tips, or stories? (link)
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NEVER ever ask "When should I eat?" because you eat when you get hungry. You should eat every 5 hours, though. Hope I helped :)
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My niece has a secret crush on my husband. She loves to cuddle with him so I let her. I let him lay down in bed with her and hold her when she's sad or scared. She wrote a love note to him yesterday and it was really sweet. She even asked him to marry her. He gives her hugs and kisses and he plays with her too. She's upset because she knows she can't be in a real relationship with him. She thinks he's cute and funny and he is. Me and him have been married for almost 13 years. We don't have any children. She really loves him and she really wants to be with him. Every time I try to explain our marriage to her she gets upset and cries. How can I explain it to her ? She's 5 years old. He's 35 almost 36. (link)
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Oh, at her age it is normal and it is just a phase.
I suggest you try to keep her away from your husband, or take her out to dinner and tell her privately.
I hope I helped :)
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me and my bf of a year and a half broke up. i know it was the right decision because were at two very different places in our lives, but its still hard for me. hes in college having all the fun in the world, and it seems hes having too much fun to even care that were over, whereas im home thinking about it. even when i go out im thinking about it and it bothers me. I dont have any really close friends so im not looking to be told to "spend time with my friends". what else can i do to get over him? what can i tell myself? how can i occupy myself? its just so annoying thinking about it all the time. im in high school. need some empowerment here.. thx (link)
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It's completely normal to cry and to think about him. But, you should call him and talk to him about it. If it bothers you that he barely thinks about you, don't date him. I hope I helped! :)
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