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FEELING DEEPLY FOR AN ONLINE CRUSH NOW.
41 yr old fem.
What do you do when you have an online crush that you are falling in love with? They are in another country. I think about them every day. I never met them in person & know that It could be the "idea" that attracts me. What do you think?
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When I was YOUNG young, I had the same issue; bur of course I was little :/
well, have you talked to him on the phone? If not, I would do that. If you think you REALLY love him, try to meet up with him if one of you are able to go to their country; or talk to him on skype.
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This is complicated as there is little detail
How long have you known this man? What do you know about him?
I do agree with the first user below me, I think you need to be more realistic. The man lives in another country and the chances of this relationship ever working is small. Are you attracted to this man or you attracted to the idea of this man?
I tell everyone, We cannot fall in love with someone we do not know personally. Sometimes people confuse love with lust. The idea of a dream guy, The attention he gives and other times people on the internet just tell others what they want to hear. I think you are thinking to far ahead of yourself and you allowing yourself to become obsessed. Online relationships are generally nothing but a fantasy, They aren't realistic. I'm always telling people to stay away from the internet as far as dating someone etc. There are too many fakes out there and more then I could possibly begin to count. If you want to meet someone I would start through mutual friends but the internet is the last place I would recommend.
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have you contacted him on the phone? How long have you been talking to this man? These things you really need to think about because you dont want to get hurt. no one does. Do you trust this man? Is he employed or looking to live off someone else.
If your are confident this is for real go for it. I mean now a days everyone goes on the internet to meet their loved one.
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The idea and feeling is nice but you have to be realistic!
I believe in fighting for what you believe in. I'm a very firm believer in love no matter how many times I've gotten hurt I continue to get back up and try again. Have you talked to him? Have you expressed any feelings towards him. You most guys on the internet aren't what they are like in real life. I had this huge crush on a guy online and turned out to be the total opposite of who I thought he was. I thought he was this chill guy but in the end he ended up being a total drama king. Maybe what you see in him you want in someone else thats nearby or close by. Or maybe you really do like him and you want to get to know him better. Go with what your heart tells you but be realistic and think about what you want! Good luck!
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