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moving to fast! please help! this cant wait!
Ok so now I'm 11 turning 12 in june and my boyfriend is 12 he wants to do sex with me and I think I'm 2 young but he says he'll brake up with me if I say no and I don't know what to do! Please help me!
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11 years old is TOO young for sex. Tell an adult quickly, girl! This boy has problems! Wanting to do that at a young age is not right. And besides, so what if you 2 aren't together? You will have better boyfriends, I guarantee it.
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do you really like him because the right thing to do is break up with him because its just not right
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His name doesn't happen to be Jaden?
I saw a similar question.
You're too young. My little sister is 12 and she's too young. If I found out she had sex, I would freak out. I advise you to wait at least 3 or more years until you make that kind of decision. Sex is an emotional experience and even if you were mature, you will take away from yourself something really special by going at it too young. Wait until you're a little wiser and older. Maybe he won't break up with you if you say no. You do not need your first time to be a decision pressured upon you by your boyfriend. If he can't understand then you would be best to move on. There's so much in store for your future, don't grow up too fast and throw away something that will mean something to you in when you're older. Talk to your mom or dad about sex about the right time or talk with an adult you trust, maybe your school counselor.
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Oh, no, no, no, no, no. Absolutely not.
You are both WAY too young. Sex should be something special, with someone you love, who loves you back.
If he's threatening you or intimidating you, or pressuring you to do something you're not ready for in ANY way, he doesn't love you, and he's not worth it. Give your virginity to a good man, not a 12-year old boy who just wants to get off and doesn't care about you.
If he says he'll break up with you if you say no, don't just say no, get rid of him. He's bad news.
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You shouldn't wait any longer. Break up with him. He's not worth it if he's going to pressure you like that. You deserve way better than that.
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If he is threatening you then you need to break up with him.
A boy who pressures you into doing something is not a good boyfriend at all and sweetie when people care about each other they don't force you to do something!
This boy only want sex that's it. Basically he is just trying to use you to get what he wants. You are too young for sex! You are way better then those girls that fall under peer pressure. Please dump him because he isn't worth it trust me. A good boyfriend will respect you and wait until you are mucher older then 12 to have sex. You are still way to young!!
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